He thinks i going to have him watched. I dont trust him, he had be sign sep papers with an attorney i chose. that way it makes if far for me. He is going to have our daughter over to his place next weekend. State law req he give me the address, he has given it to my attorney but not to me. I did get it any way but is he being sneeky or what? what do you all think
this sep is not my idea!!!!!
2007-12-06 07:20:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he instists that he has no one. but on the sep agreement he wantd me add in i could date. I changed that, he says i shouldnt wait for him and he will call if he ever changes his mind and cant live without me.
2007-12-06 07:28:29 · update #1
I only want the address so i know where our daughter is.. He did have an emotional affair with one of my friends but we put an end to that. I am not going to stalk him...
2007-12-06 07:31:23 · update #2
only sep papers a drawn up, he has not seen them yet.
2007-12-06 07:32:52 · update #3
yeah, 12yrs of marrige... down the tubes....he wont give us a second chance.
2007-12-06 07:38:46 · update #4
He has his reasons. Respect them or you will find yourself at the end of a restraining order. Your lawyer has the address; if there's an emergency, call him.
2007-12-06 07:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Beach Saint 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
If the divorce isn't final and you can still contest it, consider changing it from "no-fault" to citing "grounds" for the divorce such as adultery. If you do this you may be entitled to more than one-half of the community assets (if you are in a community property state). If the divorce is over, then there may be hard feeling on both sides and a desire to "get away" from the other person. You are eventually going to have to let this go and not let it dominate your mind. Don't let him turn you into a bitter person. God bless you. A Christian Lawyer from Texas.
2007-12-06 15:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by David K 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I love this first line you wrote read it again to yourself over and over till you get it LMAO..He thinks i going to have him watched. I dont trust him
anyways I can see why he isn't giving you the address personally yes you will come to know it soon enough but the poor guy wants some piece for as long as he can have it. which won't be long.
Its over sweetie. don't beat a dead horse. time to move on good luck.
2007-12-07 03:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't allow your daughter to go until you have the address-period-under the law yoU have the right to it-get it from your attorney or him. I'm confused- Do you have it or not-who cares what he's doing-you are no longer with him.
2007-12-06 15:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What does your attorney say about this? If you and your attorney have issues with this, have your attorney do something to stop the visitation until this can be straightened out or at least attempt to get supervised visitation.
Editing to add, that regardless of issues you and he have, I wouldn't allow my child to be anywhere where I did not have an address!
2007-12-06 15:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
At this point you need to make sure you have a really, really good divorce attorney.
Just do not do anything crazy. Accept the fact that your marriage is over.
Find a meeting group for separated and divorced people and go to it every week.
Good luck.
2007-12-06 15:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
It's over, he obviously does not want you to know where he is or what he's doing. A separation is supposed to be a trial period of not living together and not being as dependant on each other. It's not supposed to be like Spring Break for him
2007-12-06 15:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
He is being an idiot. As long as you have the address you should be okay. Has he ever hurt your child? I believe he is just trying to hurt you by not giving you the info, but he is just hurting himself and his daughter. He probably doesnt want you to know because he has another woman. Good luck
2007-12-06 15:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by LOVELY25 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Who's being sneaky Jill? I think it's you!
You seem like you have some major stalker potential and can be a real nuisance when you set your mind to it. Having an ex that harrassed me for almost a year, I totally understand why he was trying to keep it from you.
2007-12-06 15:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by sleepingliv 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
you have the address so let it go. he no longer wishes to be with you so you have to move on with your life.Nothing wrong with him he just want to not be with you thats all. you did nothing wrong that you have explained but we dont know the whole story.
2007-12-06 15:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋