I really like him and all but my parents dont like him at all they think that he is a weird guy i mean he isnt the cutest guy but i mean i dont go for the looks i go for personlity. i mean is it wrong that i like him and not tell my parents that we might date becasue he likes me to. Plus my friends are being stupid to saying that i shouldnt go out with him because he isnt cute. he asked me to this winter ball thing and i said yeah but my "friends" say that i shouldnt go with him or even go out with him someone help
2007-12-06 03:21:01 · 11 answers · asked by lovelymomma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is all up to you just remember on thing....dont ever listen to nobody but your heart
2007-12-06 03:40:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mario D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What sucks is your parents' take on the situation. Nevermind your friends' opinions. They're not going to be the one who's going to go out with him, are they? You might want to ask your parents why they think he is weird. I hate to say it but as old-fashioned as our parents sometimes seem, they could be right. If they don't provide you with any valid reason, then give the relationship a try anyway. Depending on how old you are, they have to realize that you are your own person. If you're still very young, you might be missing some of the guidance they are trying to give you. If you're 19 or something, then they really have to realize that you have to make some decisions on your own. If you think the guy's right for you, don't let the opportunity to have a life with him pass you by.
2007-12-06 03:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Libellule 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask for a legitimate reason as to why this guy is not good for you, and because he is not cute or popular are not valid answers. If that is all they can come up with, I say go for it. If he treats you with respect, is kind and loving ... and honest... those are the traits most important.
2007-12-06 03:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by EM-water2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is possible that yur friends see something in him that u don't. Maybe he is weird, like a psychopath, but u don't see it cuz u like him. But it's really up to u. What do u feel in yur gut when yur around him. Do u feel comfortable, uncomfortable, scared, and so on. Usually, yur gut will tell u if he's the right one or not. Hope this helps u.
2007-12-06 03:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm no ur friends r totally wrong in sayin gnot to go out wit him cause he isnt cute. thats really mean. i think its wats on the inside that counts. if really like this guy then i think you should go out wit him n u guys should gte to no each other
2007-12-06 03:28:57 · answer #5 · answered by NiS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks have absolutely nothing to do with whether or not someone is a good person. Congratulations on knowing that.
2007-12-06 03:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by MotherFirefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your the only one with SEN CE. IT PERSONALITY ALL THE TIME. who wants to go with somebody because there cute. the could be the biggest bore on the planet. now we know why there are so many divorces. you go withe person your most happy with. i wish you well good luck.
2007-12-06 03:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by willy wom bat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as he is safe go with him, reremeber the only opinion
about him that counts about him is yoursyour friends are shallow to say don,t go out with him because he is not
cute.
2007-12-06 03:33:18 · answer #8 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let other tell you how to live your life.If you like this guy go with him because you have feeling for him and don't let other tell you who to go with.
2007-12-06 03:35:17 · answer #9 · answered by the answerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Sweetie says Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and you should follow your heart. Are you sure that everyone dislikes him just because of his looks or are there other reasons that you haven't disclosed to us?
2007-12-06 03:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Šωèé†íé♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋