okay me and my girlfriend got into it the other night because I had waited for her to call me all day and when she finally did she was on there 30 minutes and was like well i have nothing to talk about im going to get off of here. I got mad and hung up on here and told her I would leave her alone for good..I hadnt talked to her for 2 days until last night she told me that I was the one who broke us up and stuff and I never even said that although I guess the way I put the whole leave you alone for good thing may have made it seem that way I guess. But she told me last night she was trying not to love me and that me and her will never be together again it kills me because ive never cared for someone like this before in my life and I was wondering if how she could just fall out of love with me so quick and just be willing to give up on me we have broken up before but I guess this is the final time. Does anyone think that she still thinks about me and loves me?
2007-12-06 03:39:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she also told me to delete everything about her off of my myspace, Is she just doing that to see if I care?
2007-12-06 04:13:44 · update #1
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Sweetie says She hasn't cared enough or loved enough to talk with you on the phone or call, so you should lose her number and move on! She doesn't respect you, you acted like a weakling by calling her so stop calling her and act like you're over her, fake it til you make it.
2007-12-06 03:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Šωèé†íé♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, you both need to take a break and calm down. Second, you should ask your girlfriend to meet in a neutral place to discuss your relationship. Try explaining how you felt when she didn’t want to talk to you and let her know that your comments where in anger. (Not the brightest thing to say btw) Give her a chance to give her side of the story, for all you know she might have had a bad couple of days and just really didn’t want to talk.
Talk about your goals and desires for this relationship and see if you are both on the same page emotionally. If your not then cut your loses and move on with a clear conscience.
Even the most loving and committed couples need space every now and again. Learning to give that space is a hard lesson because it involves trusting your partner. Trust is a valuable commodity, and as humans we want to know that it is not given in vain or to the wrong person.
Relationships require a great deal of mutual respect and if you too can’t respect each other’s need for space then you are in for a short ruff ride.
2007-12-06 12:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Smurfette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does still think about you and yes, she still loves you, but maybe she wants to move on!
Maybe she has had enough of breaking-up and then getting back together again, the only way your going to know is to talk to her. Preferably without arguing.
You did after all tell her you was going to leave her alone for good, that, my dear is not a nice thing to hear. Maybe she thinks you don't love her enough that is why you say it.
The only thing I can suggest to you , go and talk to her, tell her your sorry, and have a proper grown up conversation. Explain to her why you said what you did. The relationship is either over or it is not. If its over, then move on, don't end the relationship as enemies. If its not over then, learn from it, and don't do it again.
2007-12-06 11:50:58 · answer #3 · answered by cuffyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she still loves you, but enough with the childish games...i know when i broke up with my ex for the last time..all i wanted him to do is do something to prove his love..send me flowers, bake me a ckae, anything , but instead he was mean and followed me around making my life a living hell...if would have acted different maybe we would be together today...and we were together 12 years since we were 14 and we have two children..he was a druggie and abussive...but i still loved him dearly and would have taken him back..
2007-12-06 11:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just apologize and tell her, Guys do NOT like to just hang on the phone Forever!! I hate it too. My girl wants to blab blab blab and I dont even listen. Its just a difference girls & guys have. Tell her you cant stand the phone for such a long time, and say you are sorry. she will forgive you, and you will have made a boundary so she never tries to bla bla bla on the phone to you again. Go get her champ!!
2007-12-06 11:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by tarrat_616 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to keep this relationship? You don't fall in and out of love over petty disagreements. Let her go.
2007-12-06 11:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by Miz D 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she does, but you need to give her some time to miss you. Don't call her. Wait for her to call you. If you love her, you will give her the time she needs.
2007-12-06 11:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ellyn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
still thinks about u and cares for u, but shes strong willed and not willing to take the crap. i dont blame her. watch your words next time love.
2007-12-06 11:42:41 · answer #8 · answered by Incredible 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure she does. But you were mean and hurt her feelings and she doesn't want to be hurt again. Don't be such a jerk in the future.
2007-12-06 11:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by Pam H 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It kills you? Kill her then.
-Take her to a cliff.
-Give her a goodbye kiss.
-Then do the Titanic pose.
-Then push her off the cliff by her back
-Laugh loudly thrice
-Clap for yourself for doing such a great thing
-Go back and gloat in gratification
2007-12-06 11:43:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋