Family & Relationships - 6 December 2007

Also, how old do you think I am?


6'1 athletic built, 235, latino, green eyes.

2007-12-06 02:09:55 · 16 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 02:09:11 · 6 answers · asked by Evita 1 in Singles & Dating

About 5 months ago, I met a wonderful guy online and decided to move to be with him. At the time I knew he had a two year old and was in the process of getting a divorce from his wife. The woman cheated on him.

He has a decent job but all his money goes toward a bankruptcy payment (declared before the divorce) which she refuses to help pay, child expenses and a lawyer. She currently is unemployed and keeps saying she will get a job but nothing has materialized yet. They've agreed to split custody and not to have a child support payment.

However, I don't trust her and neither does he. She threatened his life before when he told her that she needed to be on time to pick up their son otherwise she would make him late for work. She has violent mood swings and seems jealous of me for moving in town and immediately getting a job at the place she always wanted to work at. Now she is treating me like trash and we think she is going to sue for child support. What can i do? What can we do?

2007-12-06 02:08:59 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been saving on and off to move out of my parents house since I was 16, I have some money saved up, but there are times when I am ready and then I get cold feet. A friend of mine is also wanting to move out and she asked me to be her roommate. I would love the idea but she wants to move into an apartment like fast, giving me no time to really plan. I dont have good credit at all, so I think it'll be hard for me to be on the lease or get my own apartment by myself. If anyone could help me with what to do as far as how to save alittle more money, finding a way to either convince my future roommate to slow down, or a way for me to get my own place when I am fully ready, that'd be really helpful. Thanks, oh also I dont have car yet but will be getting one in January (already saved for that), and also I am not very good at managing money so I know that's a downfall too. Any sane, and logical suggestions will be helpful.

2007-12-06 02:07:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been married for 6 years. My husband and I have 3 children, two of whom are very young. Every holiday we have a problem with my in-laws "planning" our day for us and not discussing the plans with us so we can have input. At Thanksgiving, my mother-in-law called and invited us and my parents/brother to dinner at her house. I thanked her for the invitation but indicated that I did not think my parents and brother would be comfortable with that arrangement and then invited them (all of them...mother-in-law, father-in-law, sister-in-law, brother-in-law and nephew) to celebrate with us at our house. I thought everyone would be more comfortable with that. She did not answer and said we would discuss it later. We never discussed it. A few days before Thanksgiving, she informed me that dinner would be at 1:00 and that she had already done the grocery shopping. Then she was offended when my parents declined her invitation and we cooked a separate dinner at my house. Christmas, the same.

2007-12-06 02:06:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok heres my story i was 17 and this 29 yr old beg to marry me and wrote me poems and song and told me he alwyas gonna be there fo me no matter what and i fell in love with him and give him 100% trust, he promised i was gonna beable to go to college well to keep him happy i end up workin 2 jobs trying to pay most of the bills and then 8 months later he started to treat me bad cuase alot of bills was coming and he was stressin, well i got into this bad car accident where my car wen under a semi trailer, ad he wasn there for me , put his new car sales man job be4 me didnt want to take me to the hospital! so i left cus i was shocked and i left, next day i tried to work thing out he didnt want nothing to do with me, then i found out i waspregnant and he didnt care wither, well after 7wks ihad a miscarrige, we've bin separated for 2 months and he dont want nothingto do with me! he backstab me, how can i get over this? does karma really happen? is there achance he will be back??

2007-12-06 02:05:59 · 26 answers · asked by rhea 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-06 02:05:51 · 17 answers · asked by Star doodle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a single father with 3 kids. i coach my sons soccer team, and one of the kid's mom has been coming on to me like a drunken prom date.

i slept with my oldest son's kindergarten teacher a few years ago, and it made it a little awkward at pick-up and drop-off when things didn't work out.

then i partook in 2 of my daughter's friend's moms(not at the same time) and that turned out to be a bad idea in retrospect.

that was 3 yrs ago, and, at that point, i swore off women that i met through my children's affiliations. whenever they flirt i just smile, and let pass (EVEN my daughter's recently divorced gymnastic instructor!!!)---it still hurts just to say it

this girl, though, is different. first time i saw her, i could tell she is PURE carnality, and, a stone freak. in other words, just my type.

there you have it folks.

should i or shouldn't i?

2007-12-06 02:05:47 · 14 answers · asked by DocLove 2 in Singles & Dating

Ladies what kind of lingerie would you wear for your bf,husband or lover. Honest answers please.

2007-12-06 02:05:37 · 11 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

my title has nothing to do with my question, I just want as possible to eliminate rude people from answering my question.. an 90% of rude people will probably not open this question...
I do believe in chastety outside marriage... I am involved with a wonderful women, who refuses sex before marriage for purely devotion to God, although we did have sexual relation at a time .. she decided never again until marriage, she has strong guilt for offensing God..... I do have strong resons to believe that there are no hidden reasons (like cheating or frigidity) she is compassionate, and also very sensual.. very very close to me .. I respect her decision and I am agreable with the concept, although being a man, it is sometime extremely difficult for me, specially that I am extremely attracted to her..
I would appreciate women answers.. does it make sense that a women can hold this urge for over 10 months, when she already experienced a very high sexual bonding with the man she loves? ..

2007-12-06 02:04:15 · 5 answers · asked by me 3 in Singles & Dating

He is kinda quirky, but really sweet. He has long wavy brown hair that goes to his chest, but is always in a ponytail. He has very pretty big blue eyes, and no facial blemishes. He is about 5'11" and skinny, about 130 pounds, but doesnt look scrawny :D so, what do you think, besides his personality, is he boyfriend material?

2007-12-06 02:03:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is girl i like but she is a mate and flirt


plz be honest

2007-12-06 01:59:37 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

No sexual abuse involved at all. But after an argument why would someone just never take your calls again (on one side) or throw their hands up and say I've just had enough and never want to have a relationship with their mom, son, daughter, or family again?

This has to be for an extended amount of time.

What are your reasons?

2007-12-06 01:59:34 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i want to be a sex therapist because i can talk about it easily and its just something i am intrested in... but i know my family wont except it and im afraid my dad wont help me with going to school...i think he has money saved up for me for when i wanted to go back to school and when i told my husband he just laughed and told me i couldnt do it...now idk....im 20 i havent been to school again and i want to and i feel have nobody to back me up on it...what do i do?...what should i feel?

2007-12-06 01:58:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Some love theire work its ther life's goal. Some love sweets. It gives them a rush.?

Some love to make whoopi they just gotta have it. So whats your pleasure, work , chocolate, or whoopie.

2007-12-06 01:58:04 · 3 answers · asked by Big Will 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last night my gf told me she was preganant and I'm happy but the thing is she is high risk. If we decide to keep it she has to be in bed and not able to work. I don't know what to do because I can't afford everything on my own...She knows this and said that she will continue to work but then she runs the risk of a miscarriage. I want the baby it's my first.
What can i do besides getting a second job to keep her from working...I don't want her to work if is causes a miscarriage. What can I do? Please help me.

2007-12-06 01:57:08 · 11 answers · asked by Keepin it real 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Being your time might be limited and things you can't do cause the kids are too young.

Name top 3...

2007-12-06 01:56:15 · 14 answers · asked by Latin G 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-06 01:48:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 01:47:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I may just be over analyzing this...but I just want to know how to tell if my bf is still in love with me? any signs I should be looking for or anything specific I should look for?

2007-12-06 01:46:56 · 11 answers · asked by luvthisgirl2004 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-06 01:45:50 · 1 answers · asked by lilred 1 in Singles & Dating

like from the influences of our society 2007?

2007-12-06 01:44:51 · 6 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Family

she is my friend since 10 months and we share everything I like her and already perposed but got answer that I need some time and you are in my mind but sometime I feel that she dont have any intrest and I am crazy about her so now I want to make some distance but I really love her couldnt control myself. What should I do??

2007-12-06 01:44:19 · 3 answers · asked by raj 1 in Singles & Dating

......sometimes he just spaces out and smiles at me??? its kinda wierd

2007-12-06 01:43:01 · 23 answers · asked by *im in such an adventure (life)* 1 in Friends

2007-12-06 01:42:00 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal, if you significant other was away (like a 7 hour drive) visiting her family and he/she took her son to his father's for a visit, would it be too much to ask him/her to meet in a public place ? I just think it's a boundary that shouldn't be crossed. My son's father who hasn't been in this child's life for 2 years(he's four) and my wife just happened to drop him a line and told him she would bring him up for a visit, and they were there alone for a half hour. And then when I asked her what she was into on the phone she told me she was visiting a friend(girl friend). Not until the next day did she inform me she was at Dave's. I am very hurt over this and she says it is unjustified. I feel that she should have NOT been in this guy's house alone with him. Am I wrong ?

2007-12-06 01:40:10 · 9 answers · asked by Jayson L 2 in Family

2007-12-06 01:39:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I especially want to hear from guys who married tourists.

2007-12-06 01:39:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-06 01:39:14 · 11 answers · asked by Gypsy Gal 6 in Singles & Dating

i was watching tv with my bf and we started kissing and then one thing led to another and we were running to my bedroom. so we lock the door and get on my bed and we sarted "getting to know each other better" anyway well my room mate can into our room and cought us when we were "getting to know each other better" and she shut the door back. then i ziped up my paths and put my bra and shirt back on and went back to talk to her. Well she had already left and i went back to my room were my bf was still laying on my bed. and we started to "get to know each other better" again!!! has anything like this ever happened to u before??

2007-12-06 01:38:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating