What are signs that your boyfriend is secretly seeing someone behind your back?

Answer 1

There are so many obvious signs that girls in a relationship choose to ignore simply because they never want to see them. Tell-tale signs always vary, but here are some basics;

Firstly, he will not see you as much, or find excuses to not see you. Work, friends, tired, whatever. It DOES happen legitmately, but if it happens frequently, you have a right to question and look into it.

Secondly, disinterest in conversations. If you speak to him on the phone and start to speak to him less frequently, or not as long, thats a sign. If when he's with you he's no longer interested in conversation or activities, just for sex or fooling around, chances are that you're not the only one.

Thirdly, watch out for his wandering eyes. If you two are out and about and he says hi to a lot of girls or you see him sneaking a peak at other girls (which is normal, if used in moderation) then chances are he is doing it a hell of a lot more when you're not there.

A lot of small things can change to make you think that he is cheating when he is not also. The guy can be under stress and just have no patience for the small talk or phone calls or getting together. Make sure nothing is troubling him first before you look into if he is cheating. Make sure nothing is distancing him before your mind starts to wander.

Answer 2

Gosh there are so many - and each depends on the individual. But here's a list.

OH - and to be fair - the same goes for cheating girlfriends.

Lying - of course -
Blaming you for everything that's not going right in his life
Being suddenly "unavailable" for whatever reason
Being angry when you want to make plans for the 2 of you
Distancing - as in lack of communications, intimacy, etc.
Changes in behavior - new habits - like working later for no apparent reason, even something as simple as commuting patterns, etc.
Changes in appearance - new hair styles, new clothes, new perfumes/colognes etc.
New interests - all of a sudden she's "in" to NASCAR whereas before she didn't know who Richard Petty was.
New friends - He used to hang out with his fraternity brothers - but now he just has to play pool with some guy named SNAKE at some dive in the red-light district.

Again, the possibilities are endless - these are just a few.

Answer 3

I'm alwaaaaaaaaays suspicious when people tell me I'm pretty or that I look good that day. Any type of compliment what-so-ever. Like, I'll seriously spend the entire day thinking, "Why" I "crazily observe" people's intentions too. Mercury in Pisces

Answer 4

- Has new numbers in his cell phone that you don't recognize and he won't say who's number it is.
- Walks outside or to another room when he gets calls so you don't hear the conversation.
- Loses interest in sex or being passionate with you.
- All of the sudden he starts to work late all the time.
- If he never asnwers his phone when he's out.

Answer 5

1. Sexual behavior with you has changed (not as often as usual or not as passionate).

2. If he gets calls when he is with you and ignores them or tells the person he will call them back.

3. If he locks his phone so you cannot check text messages.

4. If you just have that GUT FEELING that all of us women get!

Answer 6

1. if you see his phone with a suspicious message
2. when he always out partying and not telling you where he is.
3.when he don't wanna be with you anymore.
4.if you feel like he's cheating.
5. if he's cold to you

Answer 7

you catch him in little lies
he acts like 007 with his cell phone
he starts spending more time with "his boys" supposedly
he spends less time with you
doesn't call you or talk to you as much
you get a gut feeling
he goes from knowing exactly what he wants to not being able to make a committment
the "new girl" calls you and tells you

Answer 8

making up excuses for being late, not letting you borrow his cellphone coz he is hiding something in there, he cant look you in the eye when you're asking him straight out, he doesnt text you goodnight anymore and very forgetful of monthsaries

Answer 9

the biggest sign is a decline in sexual appitite. If your not supplying his fun, someone else is. you ware sexy clothes and he dosnt notice you. Your put on hold whle he go about daily tasks. Well those seem the most logical....

Answer 10

well lying is a BIG one. if he is lying to cover up another realationship chances are he is going to get caught in those lies andstart to lye about everything.. another thing is going ou late being secretive, hiding phone calls and emails. but lying is the major one he will slip up!!