my title has nothing to do with my question, I just want as possible to eliminate rude people from answering my question.. an 90% of rude people will probably not open this question...
I do believe in chastety outside marriage... I am involved with a wonderful women, who refuses sex before marriage for purely devotion to God, although we did have sexual relation at a time .. she decided never again until marriage, she has strong guilt for offensing God..... I do have strong resons to believe that there are no hidden reasons (like cheating or frigidity) she is compassionate, and also very sensual.. very very close to me .. I respect her decision and I am agreable with the concept, although being a man, it is sometime extremely difficult for me, specially that I am extremely attracted to her..
I would appreciate women answers.. does it make sense that a women can hold this urge for over 10 months, when she already experienced a very high sexual bonding with the man she loves? ..
2007-12-06 02:04:15 · 5 answers · asked by me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
difficult to pick up the best answer.. you are all wonderful so far
2007-12-06 02:46:19 · update #1
Yes its very normal. There are tons of people that do that you are not alone. people that are religious have been drilled no sex before marriage. Its a good thing. It means she is saving herself for you when the time is right! She really respects you and the aspects of what God wants!
2007-12-06 02:13:48 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman's drive is COMPLETELY different than a man's. I can go years without it if I needed to. But, I masturbate. Maybe she's a closet masturbater? What does she think of fooling around before marriage? Is hand play out of the question?
I am for sex before marriage, but I was with a guy who waited a really long time before we did the big deed. Is love stronger than sexual tension? Re-evaluate your priorities.
2007-12-06 02:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by Casie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course it is, if it is love you can wait. That's about all there is to it. And immagine how it will be if and when yall get married <3 it will make it even more special and romantic. And that is a very noble thing she is doing, not many people can do that and it's great! I'm glad you're being faithful to her and respecting her decision. Good job :0]
much love,
liz =]
2007-12-06 02:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we gal can hold on to it forever....no sex, we wont die or begging for it...(unless she is a BI**H) ...dat gd dat she holding on to it.. it is hard to find gal nowdays to be a virgin..seriously... respect her.. treasure her for good.. and at the end u will feel hapi to keep her.. if u do it to her .face the sin... its a big sins im telling u....
2007-12-06 02:50:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can go without sex if they choose to do so.
2007-12-06 02:07:22 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋