i am a single father with 3 kids. i coach my sons soccer team, and one of the kid's mom has been coming on to me like a drunken prom date.
i slept with my oldest son's kindergarten teacher a few years ago, and it made it a little awkward at pick-up and drop-off when things didn't work out.
then i partook in 2 of my daughter's friend's moms(not at the same time) and that turned out to be a bad idea in retrospect.
that was 3 yrs ago, and, at that point, i swore off women that i met through my children's affiliations. whenever they flirt i just smile, and let pass (EVEN my daughter's recently divorced gymnastic instructor!!!)---it still hurts just to say it
this girl, though, is different. first time i saw her, i could tell she is PURE carnality, and, a stone freak. in other words, just my type.
there you have it folks.
should i or shouldn't i?
2007-12-06 02:05:47 · 14 answers · asked by DocLove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, IM A GIRL, AND I SAY GO FOR IT!!
I MEAN WHY NOT? I MEAN SHE IS JUST A MOTHER OF OF ONE OF THE KIDS ON A SOCCER TEAM, RIGHT? ITS NOT LIKE SHES ANYONE THAT IS IMPORTANT IN YOUR KIDS LIFE. (NOT TO BE RUDE BUT SERIOUSLY) HAVE FUN AND **** HER,,,ITS VICTIMLESS AND FUN!
2007-12-06 02:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by sandra02861 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if you want the other parents to respect you i'd go with abstinence on this one as women talk and if something goes wrong the whole team (mom's anyway) will know it. But hey it's hard to say no when you've done it so many times before.
2016-05-28 10:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by madeleine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choosing your sex life over your kids? That's not the way I would go. Drop this girl and stop fooling around with the people who have a major impact on your childrens' life. These are people who surround your kids on a constant basis, what's wrong with you?
2007-12-06 02:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rock tha Casbah! Just let things happen naturally. Set guidelines in very specific terms, no room for gray area, before you shake her tree. Be mature about this , i mean all the people in this equation seem to be divorced, have kids, and are active in their kids lives.
2007-12-06 02:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Bender 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You shouldn't because you have seen how it has worked out in the past when you've messed with people that you met through your kids. It's not a good idea. Meet someone in another way please.
2007-12-06 02:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would go for it but make sure to ge to chat with her and tell her that it's no strings attached first then go from there. NEver can tell she might be the one for you. But take it slow and do what coems naturally
2007-12-06 02:11:17 · answer #6 · answered by John S 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What the hell for it. See if she will be your F Buddy or Friend with Benefits.
Date her probably not because of how you met her and your kids are involved
2007-12-06 02:44:24 · answer #7 · answered by Scott 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen, if you don't do her, someone else will. so unless you live in NYC, go right ahead, knock yourself out... How could you pass up a gymnastics teacher??!!??
2007-12-06 02:12:58 · answer #8 · answered by Latin G 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
as long as your'e both single i say go for it!!and just in case you haven't figured this out yet, lots of women find single fathers very hot!!
2007-12-06 02:11:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have to ask???
Just make sure your're protected. No glove, no love.
2007-12-06 02:10:09 · answer #10 · answered by david d 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋