Family & Relationships - 18 November 2007

I met my girl friend who is 25 years old (I am 32) over a month ago, she mention her previous boy friend was quite large. Last week was the first time we made love, I am not small about 8" but I was surprised as if there was nobody home. She too was disapointed, would it be true once a woman had quite an endowed man before would still desire what she had experienced before?

2007-11-18 15:02:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so far everybody says he is. does he like me ?
-hes called me pretty before
-we each play guitar i've heard him play before but i refuse to let him hear me play he asks me all the time i say no
does that piss him off?
- we have a lot of inside jokes
-we text eachother a lot my texting wasnt working an i did not know it so he would text me and i would reply but he would not get the message. so he sent me a message why dont you reply to text messages anymore
-hes called me a couple of times
-he doesnt talk about any old girlfriends around me
-he knows i like him
-he goes through this flirt stage with me then ignoreing stage with me
-he took a survey and is said do you have a crush "yes" do they know you like them "i think so"
idk who he was talking about
-people ask him if he likes me,but he changes the subject really fast and doesnt answer
-i try and flirt with him but i just get too nervous is that like a turn off?
-i cant make eye contact with him. he trys it with me but i cant do it

2007-11-18 15:01:47 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend is having her 16th birthday party soon
and she's inviting loads of people to her house,
one of her parents is planning to stay at home to "supervise" and make sure everything's okay.
however, this party is bound to get a little loud and her parent might be a little embarrassing..
how do you think she should try and persuade her parent to go out?

2007-11-18 15:00:22 · 8 answers · asked by Minty_Fresh 1 in Family

My ex and I have a new baby boy. I'm 34, pretty independent and I can take care of the baby. The dad works with his family. they have a restaurant and he's there 24/7. So he doesn't have a lot of free time to see me or the baby. Anyway, he won't live with me b/c of my cats (he doesn;t help pay for anything nor has he offered to pay) so I feel he has no say. Anyway, I'm just debating if I should file for cs or give him an ultimatum. pay me under the table and no obligations to see the baby (he isn't that stand-up a guy) we broke up when I was 6 1/2 mos preggo and he never called to check on me, no emotional support whatsoever. Or should I haul his *** to court. The only thing is that I don't want him to have any rights, say if I wanted to leave the state eventually. Any advice? Should I just wait a little while to see how things pan out. The baby is 5 weeks and I need to recover from the c-section completely befoe making decisions.

2007-11-18 14:59:54 · 10 answers · asked by pussnboots333 4 in Family

which is my son step-father . We decide to separate whats going to happen to my sons monthly S.S.I. check? I have two other children with my husband he is going to pay child support for his two kids he wanted me to stay home with are kids so I have been a stay at home mom for the last nine years
I already started looking for a job but i'm scared it might take a while since i havent work in nine years . My friend told me that the state might stop my son S.S.I. payments, that in the state of ILL you are not allow to receive child support and S.S.I. payments.If any one lives in ILL and receive child support payments and S.S.I. could you please let me how this would effect my son check?

2007-11-18 14:59:49 · 4 answers · asked by Debbie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My guy is a naturalized citizen (from another country). My son's friends will sit in my home and berate people from his country on a regular basis. I have spoken to them about it - but it seems to fall on their deaf teenage ears.

I'm ready to throw the bunch of them out of my home but don't want to embarrass my son. Suggestions?

2007-11-18 14:58:52 · 9 answers · asked by Ms. Gump 3 in Family

I am 34 and I have more women hit on me and look at me now that I am married than i did when i was 24 and a bachelor. What gives?

2007-11-18 14:58:26 · 11 answers · asked by polar bear 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was married to a successful physician for 14 years. I never worked, I stayed home for 10 years to care for our children never once pursuing my own dreams & desires. I moved all over the country for the pursuit of his career. When we divorced, we split a substantial amount of money and he agreed to pay me alimony. I did not press the issue but he makes so much money it was a drop in the bucket. Why should I feel guilty for taking what was rightfully mine for 14 years of marriage, baring and raising his two children? I get tired of people faulting me for receiving what's rightfully mine. Why do so many women/men disagree with me?

2007-11-18 14:57:28 · 15 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He is snaky and angry all the time. I think its probably his dads and my fault. When he was growing up we worked on a roadhouse full time and didnt make enough time to spend with him.

He was very difficult as a child and we were quite hard on him, we think now this was the wrong way to handle things. We used to yell at him a lot when he was naughty and now thats the way he handles things. I feel like we are responsible but now we just want to help him.

I have taken him to counselling, they told him to take 3 deep breaths when he is angry but he says he cant, its too hard.

He is nasty to his brother and sometimes there is just no talking to him.

If anybody has any suggestions i would greatly appreciate it.

Cheers

2007-11-18 14:52:28 · 40 answers · asked by cunnys_bunny1 1 in Family

hey do men really perfer a certain boob size or is that not true what size do you men like

2007-11-18 14:50:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Its basically every year I ask "whattcha ya want hon?" and its the standard "nothing,worry about the kids", Well the kids are older now and its time to think about the little woman this year. She's a giver and always puts herself first. Any suggestions?

2007-11-18 14:48:52 · 20 answers · asked by MikeyintheOC 5 in Marriage & Divorce

There has been a history of sexual abuse in my family Me, my older sister, my mother, my half sister, my aunt and my cousin where all sexually abused as children me and my older sister where sexually abused by my stepfather......my real father also went to prison when I was a month old for raping my halfsister....I love my husband so much and I know he isn't a pedophile but I find myself watching him very closely with our 4 week old daughter when he bathes her and I see him touching her I get so uncomfortable.....I know he would never hurt our little girl but I just can't shake this akward uncomfortable feeling at watching him touch her....should I get some counseling or something....

2007-11-18 14:47:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The company sent me to the HQ in another state for training classes for over a week. One of the guys in my class offered to go with me to see one of the local attractions on the weekend. He kept trying to hit on me and I tried to gently turn him down so I could enjoy the day. (for example he's start tickling me and I'd tell him to stop. He'd say, don't you like being tickled? I'd say, only by some people). We still had to drive back to HQ together so I didn't want it to get ugly. On the drive back it was late. I leaned my seat back and went to sleep. I woke up to him running his hand up and down my thigh! He said, I was tired, so I thought I'd pull over. I jumped up and said, 'I'll drive," and assured him that I WASN'T tired. At this point I didn't want it to get ugly because I was alone with this guy in a car!

2007-11-18 14:46:26 · 23 answers · asked by L T 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-18 14:44:44 · 2 answers · asked by yanetalex_girl 1 in Family

have u ever made out with some random girl unexpectedly??


if u have... awesome!

2007-11-18 14:42:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. Be with a man who loves you more then you love him?

2. or be with someone i love.

3. or equal love

My mom told me to follow number 1.

What you think is best, what is a lasting one?

2007-11-18 14:42:05 · 37 answers · asked by frenchi 6 in Marriage & Divorce

A lil background of us
My hub is 23, im 19-20 in june, been married a yr this dec. lived together about 3weeks marred and then he had to leave.
Hes in the Air force but doesnt plan to make it a career, He wants kids like crazy-hes in iraq right now
but Im more hesitant on the idea.

so I wanted to ask when is a good time to start a family in everyones opinion

would it be wrong of me to have a baby this young and be trying to go to school, and him gone about 7 months out of each year for the next 2 - 3 yrs
he really wants kids

2007-11-18 14:41:19 · 16 answers · asked by corrick_1 6 in Family

I can't stop thinking about him. I still want him... even though he has moved on. I know I should be enough of a person on my own.. but what are some simple things I can do to keep busy or keep my mind occupied?

2007-11-18 14:39:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i heard most woman like darkness, is that true

does it make love or sex different in dark and in light?

does it matters?

2007-11-18 14:37:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-18 14:36:55 · 7 answers · asked by teacherbuzybee 2 in Family

I haven't seen my fiance in four days and instead of wanting to spend time with me she is volunteering to work extra hours at her job. She loves what she does but c'mon!!

2007-11-18 14:36:31 · 35 answers · asked by mr cheesy poof 2 in Weddings

I went out with my ex-bf for two years, on/off. Last month we got together and had sex. Then I yelled at him because he was being selfish about his needs and not considering mine. so he left. and we didnt talk for 1month.
Then once i took him off my "block" list on facebook, and myspace: he sent a message and called me. When I met up with him, he said he misses me, he really wants to be with me. Yesterday, he took me out to breakfast and he was running late to work. He said "it's okay if he was alittle late for work, it would be worth it to spend the time with me." In the car when he dropped me off around 3pm, he hugged me, I kissed him on the cheek then once I started to leave the car, he leaned forward and put his arms around me and kissed me on the lips. I told him "we cant do this... igtg" and ran out the car. Does he just want booty action or does he really want me back? Whats going on; I am confused!!!

2007-11-18 14:36:25 · 10 answers · asked by Chilipepper 1 in Singles & Dating

I promised my mom that i would have thanksgiving with her. She said she would pick me up wednesday night then bring me back late thursday afternoon.
i told my dad this and he took it as i was going to have dinner with him too!
My mom is like were having dinner at two and i want you to stay the night so we can spend time together.
then my dad is like "i got all your favorite foods, it' going to be great" and he's not willing to eat after 3.
how do i decide what im supposed to do?
do i eat with my mom and come back at like 8 and be like "hi" before my dad goes to sleep? or do i not go to my moms and just wait until the weekend to go? or what? and the option of them eating together is out of the question.

2007-11-18 14:34:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

one day i sat on my dads comp and found
some sex videos
from that day i hav started to feel that he is totally sick!!!!!
so many peaple ******* naked!!!
was too much
and now he does not let me sit on his comp too
shall i tell it to my mum
or not
i hve started to dislike him

2007-11-18 14:33:27 · 1 answers · asked by maina 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-18 14:32:24 · 25 answers · asked by Ashley s 1 in Singles & Dating

She shares legal custody, is the cause for the child having repeated frst grade (investigated for educational neglect)- and had no idea where he was even going to shool this year until a school official called her about something. All of his stability is here with us. If heaven forbid something happens to his father, will he be automatically handed over toher? Will I (his stepmiother) have any rights to keep him in the only stable environment he knows? She has only seen him 2-3 times in the last 8 months because she doesnt make an effort- but claims that we keep him from her.

2007-11-18 14:31:33 · 5 answers · asked by **leigh** 3 in Family

I recently had an affair with a married man who was seperated from his wife at the time of our relationship. I was single at the time.
We were seeing each other for over a year when I found out that he was sleeping with both myself and his wife although they were not living together. I ended the relationship but choice not to tell his wife about the relationship as I felt it was his place to be honest with her.
He chose not to tell her and she just recently found out that I am pregnant with his child. And as a result she calls me everything under the sun and he gets of scotts free. And takes him back into her home.
Why is it the wifes always blames the mistress?

2007-11-18 14:30:53 · 17 answers · asked by april 3 in Marriage & Divorce

From my marriage. I need some time to myself and have made plans to go away for about a year across the country to stay with friends. I plan on coming back to him but feel I have to decide if I want to spend the rest of my life with this guy. We have been married 8yrs, together 9, no kids. Do you think that by being away and re-evalulating will help the marriage? I really, really need this time. He does not listen to me when I tell him whats bothering me and his communication skills are 0. He has no idea that I plan to go, but he loves me so much that I know for a fact he will take me back, when I return.I think our marriage will just end in divorce if I dont go. We've tried everything and this is my last resort. I don't think I will get in touch with him since I need time alone. Maybe he'll appreciate me more too!
Thoughts?

2007-11-18 14:30:04 · 14 answers · asked by Azul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-18 14:29:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just found out a secret that my boyfriend has been keeping from me...Someone told me today that his ex girlfriend is pregnant and it's his...We have been dating for almost a month and he hasn't told me about her being pregnant. WHAT DO I DO????!!! Please help..

2007-11-18 14:28:12 · 10 answers · asked by â?¥ Taylor Bear♥ 2 in Singles & Dating