How do you get your man to confess he's cheating?

Answer 1

Confess? You must be kidding. Unless you bust him with a "Nanny Cam", or your brother sees him at a club with someone else and tells you, to where as you have tangible proof; it's never gonna happen. However; if your "Woman's Intuition" bell is ringing, you're probably right. Unaccounted for loss of time, secret phone calls where he takes the phone to another part of the house or hangs up quickly if you come into the room. Do you feel the over-whelming urge to go through his wallet or check his cell phone bill? Been temped to read his credit card bill or his bank statement to see where his money is going? Has his hygiene picked up {fresh hair cut, new cologne, new underwear?} Does he clear the caller ID as soon as he hangs up?Does he put in some crazy digits in the call back so if you hit re-dial it doesn't call anybody? Baby those are called clues & you need to get one.

Ask yourself this: Did he cheat on someone else to be with you? Because if he did, what's to stop him from doing it to you?

Answer 2

You would probably have to confront him with evidence he couldn't explain away. Or catch him in the act. Maybe you should ask yourself, if you know he's cheating, why do you need him to confess anyway? If you are just dating, leave him and go find someone who respects you when they have you. If you are married, you have a more complicated situation, and you might contact a private investigator and/or a lawyer. At least a counselor.

Answer 3

To be blunt, many men may not confess at all. I'm sure there are manipulative tactics you could use, but that's not my scene. Anyway, your best bet would be to catch him in the act if at all possible, or noticing multiple signs of cheating. I'd advise you check out articles like this one that highlight signals of infidelity:
http://love.ivillage.com/lnsproblems/lnscheating/0,,nt4p-2,00.html

Anyway, just be sure not to ask him too many times if you give in and HAVE to ask--it just gets irritating and picks fights.

Answer 4

Take inspiration from Beyonce's Irreplaceable. Invite him to dinner. Put this song on. Be silent. He will start dripping with guilt. Ask him what's wrong if he starts to look nervous or something. It will take on a life of its own. However, don't get angry or anything. Be calm, let him blurt it all out, because he was probably afraid of your outbursts, when you found out. Just dump him after he has said it all. Or you can catch him in the act, show yourself to let him know that you know.

Answer 5

No since asking him he lie about it,only way is set a trap catch him in the act. I know my man had 2- women cheating on me.

Answer 6

you really gotta catch them in the act. men lie lie lie about cheating . they will never admit it. you can show them 1000 reasons u suspect it. but they are worse than csi. unless u have actual DNA evidence that they were cheating they will never admit to it. so get some spy gear or hire a private investigator otherwise give it up!

Answer 7

Just ask him in a way that assumes he is cheating but do not let on you do not think that he is cheating.
Besides, cheating what? himself or your objectification of the interaction between you two!

Answer 8

Well, when I was cheated on, I essentially guilt-tripped him over a long period of time until he admitted it. But really, until he feels guilty for it, he will never admit it.

Answer 9

You can't unless you have proof.. If you don't have proof just sit back watch listen and after a while he will screw up and you will catch him then you toss him to the curb!!!!

Answer 10

you pretend you already know!!!! and say that so and so called and confessed worked everytime for me with all my ex"s