I went out with my ex-bf for two years, on/off. Last month we got together and had sex. Then I yelled at him because he was being selfish about his needs and not considering mine. so he left. and we didnt talk for 1month.
Then once i took him off my "block" list on facebook, and myspace: he sent a message and called me. When I met up with him, he said he misses me, he really wants to be with me. Yesterday, he took me out to breakfast and he was running late to work. He said "it's okay if he was alittle late for work, it would be worth it to spend the time with me." In the car when he dropped me off around 3pm, he hugged me, I kissed him on the cheek then once I started to leave the car, he leaned forward and put his arms around me and kissed me on the lips. I told him "we cant do this... igtg" and ran out the car. Does he just want booty action or does he really want me back? Whats going on; I am confused!!!
2007-11-18 14:36:25 · 10 answers · asked by Chilipepper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The kiss was HOT! It seems like he wants me when he cant have me.
There is a guy I am sort of dating/interested in. And he asked me about him, once and didnt follow up later.
He said he has changed. I saw him looking at me.
SO he just cant seem to let go! but is he just playing with me to get some action or does he still have feelings for me? whats going on with his actions?
he is a scorpio and i am a pisces if it helps at all.
2007-11-18 14:46:52 · update #1
He might have re-evaluated and realized he lost a good thing and then again you might be right about the booty call.
Unfortunately, only way to answer this one is do the booty call and see what happens next.
2007-11-18 14:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by Pragmatism Please 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He knows that as long as you keep him around he can get some sort of action. He's playing mind games. I mean you two are broken up for a reason aren't you? You need to let him know that nothing should happen between you two unless something really changes. Make sure you both really want the same thing. Because if you don't, then move on. Don't hold on to your ex. It will save you a lot of trouble. Horoscopes don't mean anything. That's just a bunch of bull.
2007-11-18 14:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is in basic terms applying you. She gets each and every of the advantages of having a loving and being concerned husband with out any of the household initiatives. she would be able to now push your button every time she needs and you come working because of the fact which you care and love her. while she has used to adequate she claims to prefer some area and this leaves her unfastened to proceed her dating with the different guy. Why on earth would she prefer to this supply up? she would be able to truly do in spite of she needs and you haven't any longer any good to declare something because of the fact which you at the instant are not married anymore. i'm in basic terms guessing yet she left you for yet another guy? easily feels like she is this sort of lady. the main suitable difficulty I the worldwide which you're able to do for your self is to break off all touch along with her and flow on. That way you may initiate the therapeutic technique and could pop out the different end better for it. regrettably it extremely is likewise the toughest difficulty to do. in case you maintain on seeing her like this you may on no account heal, those circumstances spent along with her while each and every thing feels good returned are a lie, and that they only make the circumstances once you're at living house on my own questioning approximately her and the different guy worse. The extra you do it the extra severe it gets. Be sturdy guy and good good fortune.
2016-10-17 05:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you since you've already 'put out', so why not take you out for food and tease you? He's got his cake and (obviously) eating it too. It's a twisted play on control. Shut him out completely, it'll only get worse, or he'll find someone and then REALLY dump you for good.
2007-11-18 14:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by WordsWorth_01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy just wants booty action. It's your choice as to what you want.
2007-11-18 14:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jo Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him...see how he responds, read his body language. tell him to be honest. Then talk about it. Will you consider him to be a boyfriend again? Or would he be better suited as a "friend with benefits"? And what do you want?
2007-11-18 14:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jessie M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing to loss with friendship. Be a friend,you never hurt again and again.
2007-11-18 14:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by Seph2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems he wants you for sex but but date him for a few months but dont have sex with him then you will know
2007-11-18 14:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by master 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to this guy face to face and understand what YOU want and wat HE wants if u believe he is looking for true love again then tka ehim back..if infact he wants booty action....get rid of him
2007-11-18 14:41:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm
all that lovey-dovey stuff sounds like he wants romance....
was he selfish in bed?
2007-11-18 14:42:28 · answer #10 · answered by whatever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋