Family & Relationships - 18 November 2007

my close cousin is getting married in a month and his fiance is acting like a looney, she hates all the flowers and table settings shes picked and is going to reorder everything she even hates her dress and her husbands suit, is it just nerves or is she actually going nuts, HELP ?

2007-11-18 22:48:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I feel bad because a guy I met and dont fancy has contacted me again to go out. I explained that I would be happy to remain friends and meet every now and then as we are both single but nothing more. When we met up he looked at me so adoringly and I think he is hoping for more. Should I just not see him for fear of hurting this very sweet guy or let him decide not to see me if it will hurt him. I dont want to be unfair.

2007-11-18 22:45:38 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She is incredibly beautiful and it amazes me she can see these things about her body. She has suffered from Anorexia in the past so I know she has some body image problems.

So next time she says she's fat, or disgusting, how should I reply?

2007-11-18 22:41:12 · 11 answers · asked by Skaggy says: 5 in Singles & Dating

What does this mean in guy's speak? Is it a good thing or is it a "you're a nice girl, not my type" kinda thing?

2007-11-18 22:40:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-18 22:39:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

shall a man stay with a woman who don"t " trust" him ,
1] what are ways to gain respect from female friends / lovers
2] Is this related to character or just Money and looks

2007-11-18 22:37:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She just got out of surgery

2007-11-18 22:35:36 · 7 answers · asked by Lula 4 in Friends

hey people how are you?

Im a high school senior preparing for college. I was having a good senior time until few weeks ago. let me start from the begining, 1month ago me and my best friend decided not to talk again, at least for quite some time. since then, we are not talking.i have another close friend which is now into being popular (in her senior year i know its pathetic) and hangs out with other people. we are in holiday right now and she didnt call me for 3 days, we always used talk and meet. so i was at home all weekend and nobody ever bothered to call me. also, few days ago i found out that my dog (which is one of my best friends ) got a cancer that has no cure. inaddition, i got caught in the exam and in trouble. plus, i am not talking to my father bcuz he's mad at me and my mother. i never had a boyfriend and still dont have one.. as you can see there's no single thing going right in my lfe and im starting lose hope. i feel desperate and lonely i never felt like this before

2007-11-18 22:31:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Have you been or had wedding that is different? Could you tell me the type of things they/you did. Or the most different wedding you have been too? What type of food etc was there?What type of food should be at a wedding? Thankyou

2007-11-18 22:30:18 · 8 answers · asked by Kaye B 6 in Weddings

i have noticed this many a time now...........

a group of women , all friends , sat having a laugh.

as soon as the first woman leaves , all the other women just start slagging them off behind their backs,

why do women do this ????????????????

they were supposed to be friends ?

2007-11-18 22:29:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am gopal shah i am in usa and she was india

2007-11-18 22:26:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm pretty sure she's going to do it whatever I do, and I don't want to get in the way of her being happy, but she knows it will upset me and I think she's going to do it anyway. I feel like I can't trust her anymore because she encouraged him to break up with me earlier this year (we dated for three years very seriously) and was close to him while we were dating, and also she told me she wants to end up with her ex. I've told her that she should do it if she really wants to, what hurts me is that she would want to. How would you feel in this situation and how would you deal with it?

2007-11-18 22:23:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean every sort of love, both romantic and non-romantic. I think everyone could accept that parents (and perhaps siblings and others) can love a newborn baby straight away. But, aside from that, do you think that you'd have to know someone a certain amount of time before you could say you loved them? And any guesses as to how long that would be?

2007-11-18 22:20:21 · 9 answers · asked by Private Erin Coolidge 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have known my brother in law (husband’s bro) for ages. There has always been a cozy, cuddlyfeeling between us; recently for reasons it would be too long to explain, I have fallen in love with him and, I believe, him with me (al-though we have never discussed with, so let’s assume it is just a one-sided thing).
I have tried to hide my feelings for ages now; I know I am not very good at it but I try my best whenever we are together (with our spouses and rest of family).
Now I learn we will spend Xmas together with the rest of the family; spending 2/3 days with BIL sleeping in the next room (alone, because things with his wife are not good) and me sleeping with my husband.
I don’t think I can do this and I am freaking out already.
I know it will be disaster . The pain of knowing he is in the next room at night, wanting each other and having to bottle it all up for whole 3 days …
have thought of telling my husband to go alone, but spending xmas alone and without my kids ???

2007-11-18 22:12:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am an Asian American man, and I can honestly say I don't find Asian women attractive at all. I know it's true for most of my Asian buds as well. Could someone please explain to me what is the big deal with the Asian women fad? Are women with curves no longer desirable, only to be replaced by flat face and chested Asian women?

2007-11-18 22:02:06 · 18 answers · asked by jonnyworld 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-18 21:59:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex said he loves me and i dont know what to say

2007-11-18 21:58:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband has been cheating on me for along time. I would like to end our marriage!
Though im in a professional workfield, Im still afraid of not being able to support my two daughters after a divorce.

2007-11-18 21:50:09 · 15 answers · asked by mell k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my fiance are getting married in the court house. I'm having a hard time deciding what to wear because we'll be getting married in January and we live in Alaska!

I was thinking a long dress with a long coat over it. I'm just worried about the shoes [don't want to fall on my face in the ice!] Is red a good idea? I also like the white!.. and my fiance is going to wear his uniform.

These are a few I really like:
http://davidsbridal.com/social_dresses_detail.jsp?stid=2328&prodgroup=213

http://davidsbridal.com/social_dresses_detail.jsp?stid=2966&prodgroup=213

http://davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=3185&prodgroup=10

http://davidsbridal.com/bridal_gowns_detail.jsp?stid=3179&prodgroup=10

Opinions Please?!

2007-11-18 21:49:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi

I'm inlove with this man that has two teenage kids, a boy 14 years and a girl 16 years. Their mother is late now 9 months, The kids don't like me coming to their house to visit the father. And a couple nights i had to sneak into the house to be with him. The kids are aware of this. I told my boyfriend that its risky for me to be coming to the house as the children don't want me there. He says its his house to. The children have alot of outside influence, like my boyfriends mother and his late wifes sisters. They keep telling the children to watch out for me, their father might spend all his money on me. The kids are scared that i will take their money. I was at the house yesterday, and the girl was away, the boy was in the shop helping. I girl knew i was at the house and she asked the brother to come check for himself. My car was in the driveway, and this boy, took a brick and broke my side window. How can i live like this, the children are dictating their fathers life. plz help.

2007-11-18 21:46:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

would he or she ;be hard to keep ..

2007-11-18 21:41:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my bf but things have to change. He has gotten really lazy. Some weekends I buy all the meals. I make 3x more than him but he can buy some too. He brings his laundry over and I end up doing it. I had a talk b4 about him helping me with it but it seems like I have to nag him to help This weekend was tiring as I drove him around, cooked everything, cleaned up after him, did his laundry. He doesn't drive so I have to drive but he could be more considerate of my time. He has gotten too comfortable. I don't want to break up with him but how do I give him a kick in the pants to get him to do his share in the relationship? I don't even want to see him this weekend as it wears me out and I'm angry at myself for being too nice.

2007-11-18 21:38:17 · 17 answers · asked by justpassingthruhere333 2 in Singles & Dating

I have some close relationships with some girls at work, it's non-sexual, but rumors always spring up. It's an office, so it seems rumors abound. It's come to the point where I hesitate to do things outside of work because I am scared someone will see. But I think it's partially my fault because I am very friendly.

Yesterday I wasn't working but I was at a Thai restaurant, and I knew one of my friends at work would love to have a Thai lunch, so I texted her asking if she wanted some lunch. She said sure. So after my lunch I got some dishes to go. When I get to work, another co-worker was leaving, she asked why I was there. I didn't lie and said I was dropping lunch off to my friend. Anyways, my friend comes down, I gave her a hug, then we drove around for a little bit, catching up, I hadn't seen her in a week and I miss her. When we got back tot he parking lot two other co-workers were just getting in, and we talked to them for a little bit.

2007-11-18 21:35:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love him with all my heart and when things are good they are GREAT and when they are bad they are BAD. But i reallt cant put up with the BS......he says all the arguements are my fault and he nevers sees his own. I am always the bad guy. I mean I am not perfect but neither is he

2007-11-18 21:30:47 · 12 answers · asked by cutechi101 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-18 21:30:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, it seems silly, but here's what id like to know:
im 15 & a girl, and my older girl-cousin is 38. im very close with her, and when i say hello or goodbye to her, i always hug her.. when i give her a hug, as she hugs me, she always laughs. why does she laugh?
--in my last post, i got the answer "just ask her yourself" in all the answers.. if thats your only advice, i appreciate it, but please dont answer with that!!!
thank you!! :)

2007-11-18 21:29:16 · 21 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Family

I mean if you look at today's society sex seems to be taken for granted by our society. Teens are having sex for the feeling and in their stage of life their relationship is only known as puppy love since we all know they will not stay with their partner for good.

I just turned 18 last month and I'm still a virgin and proud. My friends and past school mates all got laid when they got to college. Isn't sex suppose to be something special or sacred between two people? I feel as though no one gets my body, only my one love. So why do people see it as a must even if it means doing it with someone you don't know?

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-18 21:27:31 · 34 answers · asked by Closed 5 in Singles & Dating

hi all,
im miserable at the moment.saturday night my now ex boyfriend treated me like dirt,ditched me, got drunk then abused me and left me in the middle of a street to go to the clubs.he only spoke to me that night when he wasnt with his friends having fun.that next morning he wos telling me he loved me calling me asking to see me but i said no.later that morning before he woke up i broke up with him to save being hurt later when he turns 18 because i didnt trust him and didnt wana be more hurt if he cheated.he was msgn me this morning telling me he loves me and he always will and saying that he only doesnt want to be with me because he doesnt want to hurt the girl he loves and because he knew he was turning into a ********.i havent stopped being miserable..i want to just get over it and be happy,,ive been so hurt and i want it to stop i havnt stopd crying since saturday night and it hurts knowing he doesnt care and is having fun with his mates..ive loved him for 2 yrs and im so hurt

2007-11-18 21:27:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this girl i have been talking to a lot, in real life and lot on net & phone... around 3-4 months now

this sunday she proposed me like told me she liked me etc.

but all our friends are already expecting us to be going around, and it wont be right if it comes out thats she proposed me, so i have to do it.

but the thing i just hate the whole proposal thing,
you propose someone then you stick with them, and when it gets over theres whole lot of drama, (dont get me wrong pls)

but i guess i have to do it,
well i have to make my proposal somewhat special for us, but on such short notice theres nothing much i can do.....

what i have in mind is, i talk to her alone somewhere, and tell her that we can pretend that i have proposed to her ONLY if someones asks etc (she doesnt want anyone to know, that she has proposed)
and then i can propose her maybe later and make it special, something she can remember rest of life,
so how do you propose ?

like jst tell her "i like you?"

2007-11-18 21:25:10 · 2 answers · asked by Chad 1 in Singles & Dating

body and interesting personality. Is it simply the money? if he was normal, all these young girls (average age 21), wouldn't even look his way. if you're a young girl would you sleep with Hugh? be honest now please and if you would, why? i'm baffled by it...what would your family think? Hugh has slept with hundreds of beautiful girls (yes, none have been ugly or avg looking) and all this girls had mothers and dads etc..any thoughts are appreciated...Hugh lives a self-indulgent life and does nothing for chairty. he simply sleeps with girls who are young enough to be his great grand daughters and has parties in his mansion, while children starve around the world. doesn't make sense.

thanks sincerely all.

2007-11-18 21:23:47 · 20 answers · asked by curious 1 in Singles & Dating