hey people how are you?
Im a high school senior preparing for college. I was having a good senior time until few weeks ago. let me start from the begining, 1month ago me and my best friend decided not to talk again, at least for quite some time. since then, we are not talking.i have another close friend which is now into being popular (in her senior year i know its pathetic) and hangs out with other people. we are in holiday right now and she didnt call me for 3 days, we always used talk and meet. so i was at home all weekend and nobody ever bothered to call me. also, few days ago i found out that my dog (which is one of my best friends ) got a cancer that has no cure. inaddition, i got caught in the exam and in trouble. plus, i am not talking to my father bcuz he's mad at me and my mother. i never had a boyfriend and still dont have one.. as you can see there's no single thing going right in my lfe and im starting lose hope. i feel desperate and lonely i never felt like this before
2007-11-18 22:31:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what should I do? im gonna go out with my mother in an hour so pls reply quickly....
how can i feel better and strong?
2007-11-18 22:31:54 · update #1
"When it rains, it pours", is an old saying that is very true. It seems like a bunch of bad things all happen at the same time. You will get through it and you will be a stronger more mature person, because you experienced and survived it. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger.
It will happen this way numerous times in your life. Just remember that we have to experience the bad times in order to appreciate the good times.
2007-11-18 22:38:49 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK... Well you know i dont have any friends where i live. I have two friens that live six hours away from me. We talk ever 3 weeks or so. I havent seen them in a year. But we are still friends. Know why? Because i know that if they are true friends they will not abondon me or ditch me for another friend. And about the angry father thing, look he loves you no matter what mood he seems to be in. So you dont have to worry about that. And as for the boyfriend thing... Its very complicate when you do have a boyfriend. I've had about six so far. I'm 18 yrs old almost 19. Thats not many considering how old i am. But you know i'm just telling you that the boyfriend thing can wait. Dont lose hope. Hope should never be lost. And dont worry i mean you are about to hit college. COLLEGE! You have the rest of your life to find a boy. Mind you you'll probably definately find one in college. Its not good to have bfs in highschool because they are so damn immature. Anyway i'm sorry to hear about your dog. That happened to mine not long ago.. Things will turn out good. Dont worry about that. It may not seem so now but there will be hope. You'll find it soon.
2007-11-18 22:44:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make the dua "Rabbi Zidna Ilama(n)" after every salat. Don't be disheartened because of your poor performance at the College. Graduation and obtaining degree certificate from a college is not the criteria of success in human life. Academic education is not a must for success in this world. There are several persons who cannot even put their signature, yet they are millionnaires. May Allah bestow you a loving and caring husband who will try to remove your stress and strain.
2016-04-04 22:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See life is like that. have you seen the ad of Boroline and its quote "jiboner nana otha poda jeno gaye na laage". lovely isn't it? as far as yr friend is concerned she must be jealous of something that you are getting and she is not getting. like say guys falling for you or teachers taking care of yr career, etc it may be anything; what i suggest is hang up for yr friend, wait & see if she comes back else consider that all the past days were false and did not mean anything of frndship. try making new friends. as far as yr studies is concerned, it is getting disturbed bcos of yr mind twrds yr frnd. this is a stage where u feel that parents r always mad so do not get into it he may have some more serious problems thatn yrs or yr mother's. paly calmly, give him water when he comes back home try some shoulder massages give him some studial surprises, that will work, yr life is at a stage where u need a frnd to gossip with. talk to yr school frnds and mix up with them, listen to music, read books watch films to relax self out. in case of further agonies "MAIN HOON NA" at my mail add.
2007-11-18 22:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry...everybody has a true friend...you just haven't found yours yet so all hope is not lost. Maybe it's time for you to move forward and not backwards. Leave the past alone and focus on what tomorrow may bring....remember, there's always a bright side to everything.
2007-11-18 22:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, i understand you sooo much, i haven't real friends, and the only true friend of mine is my cat. I haven't bf and my parents don't understand me. Sometimes i think life is SUCK!!!But you should stay stronger!!! Believe me, everything will pass and i'm sure very soon your life wiil be better!!! Love ya, bye!!! =)
2007-11-18 22:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually your not the only person who had all that together, everyone has his problem, just wait relax and concentrate on your exams, and if those people are your real friends you will not lose them and they will be back
Relax take it easy everything will be ok
2007-11-18 23:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by JOSH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kindly try thrice time b 4 long gap even he/she wrong
2007-11-18 22:44:23 · answer #8 · answered by saqi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin' sometimes in life, God gives you pain for a reason.
Start doing right things, starting by saying thank you and welcome.
2007-11-18 22:38:31 · answer #9 · answered by queen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋