hi all,
im miserable at the moment.saturday night my now ex boyfriend treated me like dirt,ditched me, got drunk then abused me and left me in the middle of a street to go to the clubs.he only spoke to me that night when he wasnt with his friends having fun.that next morning he wos telling me he loved me calling me asking to see me but i said no.later that morning before he woke up i broke up with him to save being hurt later when he turns 18 because i didnt trust him and didnt wana be more hurt if he cheated.he was msgn me this morning telling me he loves me and he always will and saying that he only doesnt want to be with me because he doesnt want to hurt the girl he loves and because he knew he was turning into a ********.i havent stopped being miserable..i want to just get over it and be happy,,ive been so hurt and i want it to stop i havnt stopd crying since saturday night and it hurts knowing he doesnt care and is having fun with his mates..ive loved him for 2 yrs and im so hurt
2007-11-18 21:27:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course you are hurt. And you are going to be for awhile. I know you don't believe this right now but you are really lucky to be rid of this one. This kid is not for you! ANd you need to figure out why you would accept this kind of behavior from anyone!!! The quickest way to get over it is to get out there and meet someone else. NOthing heals a person faster. So go have some fun.
2007-11-18 21:38:54 · answer #1 · answered by dallas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young and your heart will break a thousand times. get over this sombitch. you will find someone else. youve got a long time before you have to take anything this seriously. look at it this way. you will date a lot of guys, and out of all the relationships you have in your life, only one will be successful. doesnt really put the odds in your favor. but there will be one. just dont let this other BS get you down.
2007-11-18 21:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by Big 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your friends how you feel and they could give you some tips and help you out.
These might help you, do some sports and have fun, like who you are and how you act, think about what you want to do in life and eat lot's of chocolate. It will ease your mind off things and calm you. I can help you some more but I need to sleep, sorry, I will email you if you want or you email me?
Good Luck!
2007-11-18 21:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. it's ok. if he himself doesnt think he is good enough for you then yeah. he probably isnt. i know it hurts (i've had a crush for 2 years too but she doesnt know i exist) but give it some time and you'll come around. in the mean time, don't date anyone just yet. hang out with some of your friends. do something fun. someone else will come.
2007-11-18 21:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. He has already abused you, and chosen the clubs over you. That will only get worse. Find you a nice guy that will treat you right. You deserve better than him.
2007-11-18 21:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont you ever let someone waste the love you are offering............. many deserves it more than he does,,,,,,,,,,,,
2007-11-18 21:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by ken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋