Family & Relationships - 18 November 2007

-I get angry over serious things and feel resentment about them, to the point that i wear her out.
-I am verbally abusive because my dad was.
-I retract my statements as soon as i realize what i said.
-I do a lot for her and feel that she is ungrateful.
-I want her to be less of an opponent and more help.
-I say things that i know will hurt her because i am mad.
-I don't want to do this but i can't control my anger at this point.
-I have tried to get her to let me calm down but she won't always give me space.(she does not want it always to be on my convenience).
- I want to find a way to stop myself.
For example condition me. Does anybody have any good ideas that would make me succeed in stopping the hurtful comments.

2007-11-18 18:29:03 · 11 answers · asked by rod 1 in Singles & Dating

Just curious as to what color bouquets may look best, or at least what bouquets won't clash horribly. Thanks

2007-11-18 18:26:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i am involved in a long distance relationship, we communicate everyday but this past friday when she got off work she called me and stated she was out of town camping with his coworkers ( 3 couples plus her) she stated she had to go along and wish i was there coz she has been feeling very lonely. now the question is
1. as much as i want to trust her, i can't imagine she didnt have a male companion just like her friends? how could she be a sleep in a tent when all the other couples were cuddling and probably making out?
2. why did she choose to tell me at the last minute yet we communicate everyday?
3. if indeed she is hidding something, why did she choose to tell me at all?

She is supposed to be visiting me for christmass and i am afraid the more i grill her the less likelyhood i will see her. any advice please!!!!!

2007-11-18 18:26:23 · 12 answers · asked by jophat 1 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone ever heard of any couples superglueing their lips together and tongue kissing that way, if so, what is the best way of going about it? And what's the best stuff to use to remove it?

2007-11-18 18:24:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and my mother are not in speaking terms. My wife says my mother hurt her but my mother says she's done nonething wrong. I have spoken to my mom about this, yet, my mother refuses to repair the damage. This hurts me becuase my kids are loyal to their mom, and don't seem to care about my mother in their life. Its hurts me more that she is not around to see my kids during the holidays and birthdays.

2007-11-18 18:19:25 · 13 answers · asked by This tears me apart 1 in Family

Ok, well, I really do have a deep voice. I don't like it because people say that its hard for them to hear me and i'm only 14! :(

2007-11-18 18:16:41 · 4 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Do all women hate men? where i come from they do. Every male friend of mind has been abused by their mother. And the thing is that NO ONE cares, no one. There are all of these places for women and nothing to help hurt men. I have seen good men turn to rage and destroy themselves all fro mthe wrong of women. And in the end the world blames the men. When i was in kindergraden a woman had the students make a paper medallion for me out of glitter and paper. Then she made me wear it in the corner while she and the class al laughed at me. I cry even as i write this now. it is something i never forgot Ever. and why to this very day as a man women to me, all of them represent the worse. Always laughing at me and putting my down for being different, for being me. There is no one to hug me or wipe my tears. My mother never held me ever as a baby. And that too I remember and feel. Life is cold, so cold. And it was women who did this to me. Women who ignore me and judge me. always

2007-11-18 18:16:31 · 6 answers · asked by Misunderstood 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-18 18:14:38 · 9 answers · asked by cutiepieee♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-18 18:13:34 · 29 answers · asked by Tell It Like it is 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im age 20...im looking for a "good" guy... who could be my husband... who can help me in everything... are u the 1?

2007-11-18 18:12:27 · 5 answers · asked by kaycee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2 yrs bck i proposd to a grl in my college n thn v startd gng out, we evn made plans for marraige, n v were cmpltly in luv vid each othr.bt soon as v bth strtd to wrk, distancs startd grwng n v also strtd fightng a lot.whch usd to keep both of us v.worrd and unhappy..bt we continued..thn i met a girl(my high school frnd,who hd a crush on me in school),n i rly startd to like talkng 2 her,as our thoughts patterns used to match a lot.infct v used to say the sam thngs at the sam time, n in the evnt i startd likng her,bt at the same time i also likd my girlfriend as she was the one i had actually fallen in love.the othr girl also likes me a lot and has also proposd,bt i havn't answrd her.my currnt grlfrnd nw wnts to get marrd,bt i hav a feelng dat we will fght a lt once we get togthr,moreovr,aftr so many fghts i no longr hav the sam feelngs,bt i jus cannot let her go coz i knw tht it wud hurt her gravly,at the same time i also knw that my real happness lies with the othr grl nw,what do i do

2007-11-18 18:10:34 · 6 answers · asked by The learner 2 in Singles & Dating

i think i blew it with the guy i really like. My friend got a hold of my phone and pretended to be me and told him i liked him and she sent a text round to everyone saying that i like him and we are going out. So now he isnt talking to me and he is ignoring me when did nothing it was all my friends fault. How do i explain this to him so that he will listen and forgive me and my friend?

2007-11-18 18:09:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Look i'm a nice person but i'm scared of a person.

I was walking my puppy german Sheperd Mccloud when i heard a girl screaming. I looked around and to my horror a man was raping her.

i called the police and they arrested him. but his friend got away and now he's stalking me and leaving dirty messages saying

"I'll get you next Melissa."

Its scaring me that i'm to scared to go out whithout my best friend Ellie Boo.

2007-11-18 18:07:20 · 9 answers · asked by Melissa T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

you respect a person, you like a person, you appreciate who she is, you become considerate etc but How do you give that your love for that person to accept it that you have love for her? Most folks just say I love for the sake...... just that person to here but in most cases that is only a word unless accompanied by action.

2007-11-18 18:07:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

you respect a person, you like a person, you appreciate who she is, you become considerate etc but How do you give that your love for that person to accept it that you have love for her? Most folks just say I love for the sake...... just that person to here but in most cases that is only a word unless accompanied by action.

2007-11-18 18:06:30 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if he was travelling away for a period of time.
and told you that a girl is so emotionally attached to him,and in love with him,but this girl is about to have an open heart surgery in a month.
and they have been together as a dear friend for him,but as a lover for her.
and now he confessed to you,and told u that sometimes he really thought of engaging her,coz ohis powerful sensation of sympathy.and she's in deeeeep love with him.
he couldn't really tell her that he's in love with somebody else"you".
and this girl is fantastic ,beautiful n funny,and she wouldn't bear if he told her the truth.
and he also doesn't know what to do for her?
he mistaked by makinh her attached to him,but without intend from him,but it already happenned.
what if he told her and then something bad happened to her?
and what about you yourself?
would you feel betrayed by him?
would u forgive him?
what to do?
knowing that he confessed he was wrong,and he told her from his own.and u could never know..

2007-11-18 18:03:42 · 3 answers · asked by passionate 3 in Singles & Dating

What should I do in this situation? I have a girlfriend that I have been with for almost 6 months. Ever since I have been with her I have noticed this collage of pictures in her room. 2 of the pictures in this collage has her ex boyfriend in it. I do not understand why she still has them up. Please let me know what I should do...I want to ask her about them but I don't want to sound jealous or insecure.

2007-11-18 18:01:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-18 17:59:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i been talking to this girl for awhile and she asked how many girls have i slept with....ive slept with alot...but like i dont want her to think im a whore...

2007-11-18 17:58:05 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she and i have a lot in common. im not homo sexual. i just want to become best friends!

2007-11-18 17:57:20 · 1 answers · asked by -shygirl 1 in Friends

she is my working colleague and we alway talk a lot and help out each other so that i have been in love of her for 3 months.we went out for a dinner with another four working colleagues yesterday night and we all had a lot of drink and got drunk! after the dinner we both went home and finally i told her that i like her but she said "sorry i had a boyfriend.........."
i asked her if i still had a chance to be her boyfriend and she told me "maybe" and i abruptly kissed on her lips,she didn't refused me but kissed me back in the street....
today i sent her a e-mail for apology and i was totally forgived and she asked me to work hard from now on...............
she has a boyfriend now ,but should i still go after her ?
thank you all!

2007-11-18 17:56:29 · 17 answers · asked by Warrior 5 in Singles & Dating

he has more pics of her in there than he does of me

2007-11-18 17:53:09 · 36 answers · asked by slins 3 in Singles & Dating

I just found out that my brother is cheating on his wife. I am not in real good terms with his wife, but this really sucks. I don't know whether to confront my brother or to just mind my business.

2007-11-18 17:50:31 · 27 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a freshman in highschool and i like a junior guy. . . my guy friend talked to him and told him that i think his cute. . . then he asked him what he thinks about me, and he thinks that im cute too!!. . i wasn't suppose to find out. . .but my guy friend told me anyways

i was really scared to talk to him, but i started talking to him about a month ago, and i still feel scared to start talking to him....but once we start im not scared anymore
he smiles at me when he sees me in the hall or when i look at him....and i smile at him

2 weeks ago i got his number....(long story).......i started texting him, and he textded me.....he always apologizes when it takes him a long time to reply....
hes really funny....one massege that i got from him was like .....im moving to mukiteo, are u moving in with me? or wat? lol
it was so cute =)
but how can i tell if he is serious
...i really like him but i dont know where this is going....and if he would actually like a me, a freshmen
any advice?than

2007-11-18 17:50:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A child is not like a cloth you can lend someone. Even if you give your kids for adaption, the fact remain that's your child. I have a true friend who has been there for me as I have been there for him. just like a loving brother. When he go married, I was there as best man etc.I do greatly respect him and his wife soo much. Recently he found that he is not productive to pregnant a woman. His wife don't want to adapt, neither accept sperm donors etc and they talked it over with her husband and agreed to have me give my friend a fatherhood gift. To be sleeping with is wife to get her pregnant but I will never claim that child to be mine. He send me paper to sign and has pleaded with me to help him out. They do love each other soo much and married for 15years. I have told him I can't do it but he is putting much presure on me, begging, pleading etc, they wife is ready for it. What can I do? The wife wants a copy right of my kids. She loves my kids and wish that they were hers.

2007-11-18 17:42:55 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is really difficult to explain in such a short way , I am 31 yrs old I have a 6 yr old daughter my husband passed away 3 yrs ago (the father of my daughter ) my father in law since my husbands passing has helped me so so so much words cannot explain he has been such a good role model for my daughter and Has helped me through out with my daughter especially when i am sick ( I have MS ) right now I am down with my disease , I have no feeling in my legs and am stuck in a hospital bed in my home , this man my father in law is 79 yrs old and for the past mnth has taken my daughter to and from school , after school stuff and its just soooo awesome what advice i am looking for is What do I get my father in law to say to him how much I care and How thankfull that I am for all that he does and will do in the future this man seems to have everything he is my angel , Please any advice on what i could get him would help me so much

Ty
take care and god bless

2007-11-18 17:41:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Men leave there wives easy. It seems like and it doesn't bother them. You'll see them a month later with another women or a lot of times their with them sooner but of course don't reveal it. Like their marriage meant nothing They don't write or call did they never care at all? Some even treat their kids really bad or forget them altogether. Explain this to me guys. Especially the part of why a lot of you neglect your children after a divorce. After all if you hate your x-wife or wife seperated from why treat your INNOCENT kids bad by not calling them ect.

2007-11-18 17:39:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm married so I can't sleep with anyone. I cant relieve myself. So is there herbs or anything to reduce sex drive?

2007-11-18 17:38:52 · 16 answers · asked by beffie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

THERE'S THIS GUY...WE MET AT SKOOL AND I REALLY LIKE HIM AND SOMETIMES I FEEL HE DOES 2........WHEN WE ARE GONNA SAY BYE HE IS ALWAYZ FLIRTING WITH ME AND GETS REALLY CLOSE TO ME AND I FEEL LIKE HE WANTS TO KISS ME, BUT HE DOESNT MAKE THE MOVE........PEOPLE KEEP TELLING ME THAT HE IS A BAD GUY AND HE ONLY CARES ABOUT HAVING SEX BUT I FEEL IS NOT TRUE CAUSE HE IS REALLY NICE.... IDK WAT TO THINK PLZZ I NEED ADVICE

2007-11-18 17:38:17 · 5 answers · asked by Jeniffer 2 in Singles & Dating

for the 3way action!

2007-11-18 17:37:06 · 23 answers · asked by male.confused 2 in Marriage & Divorce