Whats a good answer for "How many girls have you slept with?"?

Question

i been talking to this girl for awhile and she asked how many girls have i slept with....ive slept with alot...but like i dont want her to think im a whore...

Answer 1

Tell her you aren't comfortable discussing that yet. Or tell her you're "experienced", that you haven't been with very many women but you've just had a lot of sex.

Answer 2

Be honest. If you try to change the subject or avoid the answer, she will worry and assume the worst. If you lie- firstly thats wrong- but if she finds out then she would for sure be upset. If you are truly not a man whore then explain to her that you have had a very productive sex life but don't intend on using her solely for sex. Offer to be checked for STDs or to wait until she feels comfortable or trusting enough if you haven't already slept together. I don't know how some girls expect guys to say they have only had 2 or 3 partners, males are wired to want sex, its natural. I don't like hearing that the person I'm dating has been with 21 girls, but if he is a nice looking male in his 30s, what can I expect? He gave an honest answer, admitted there were a lot of one night stands when he was single but that the girl involved was only looking for a one night stand. He didn't break any hearts, he always used a condom, he has no STDs, and he wasn't interested in me only for sex- he wanted a serious relationship. As long as she trusts you and you are just afraid she will be offended by your answer, I think the truth would be best. Now, if you are trying to find a good answer just so she will sleep/continue to sleep with you and that is the only reason why you are interested in her, I would suggest leaving her and find a girl willing to be a sex buddy.

Answer 3

Start one by one naming celebrities that you could only dream of getting with.

Let's see now, there's:

Britney Spears
Shakira
Jessica Simpson
Paris Hilton
Beyonce Knowles
Pamela Anderson
Lindsay Lohan
Carmen Electra
Jessica Alba
Hilary Duff
Avril Lavigne
Jennifer Lopez
Olsen Twins
Angelina Jolie
Christina Aguilera

If that don't do the trick, say, "Oh, I lost count at around 20 or 30 thousand."

I just say that I don't kiss and tell and that it isn't something that I care to discuss.

Say some mistakes were made and you've learned to become much more selective when getting close in any way with someone so as to not take a relationship to a level that is best not visited with that person.

Due to the pain that comes with a broken heart, I know better than to allow just anyone to take me to a height at which the fall would be devestating to my heart.

If they press it further, just flat out tell them that you didn't want to admit this because you could find it to be embarrassing if other guys knew that your still looking for a girl special enough to be your first.

There should be something in here that you can use.

Best Wishes

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Answer 4

Jordan...do not listen to the clowns that tell you to lie. You may find that this girl means something to you and that you will be glad that you have been straight with her. I'm thinking that you would prefer honest answers from her. As far as how many have you slept with, be honest...you don't have to be specific, just honest. If she has not had sex she may be easily overwhelmed by the numbers. If she is sexually active, she will want the reassurance that whatever happens between the two of you remains between the two of you. The best way to assure her of that discretion is to be discrete about who you have been intimate with. You could have a discussion along the lines of ...at a point in my life I thought that I was pretty studly and bedded way too many women for my own good. I now realize that that was immature, not in my or their best interests. I've found that sex is more important to me when I have a real relationship with a woman/girl/gal. Pick your line, but make it sincere. Don't offer to get tested, get tested...before anything happens between the two of you. And show her the papers. If you want to be the real adult in this relationship encourage her to be tested as well if she is or has been sexually active. Most Planned Parenthood organizations or county health clinics will provide confidential testing. And be a real man...use a condom.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

Then don't answer the question. Tell her that you don't want to focus on past relationships. The number of people you have slept with should have no impact on your current relationship unless you have a commitment problem. I absolutely think you have the right to conceal this from her. If your relationship goes further, you will probably feel more comfortable telling her. My husband has slept with other girls before we started dating. I was a virgin. I asked that question and regretted it because he answered it honestly, lol.

Answer 7

I guess it depends on things like your age, reputation, and the like. My own wife has never asked me this question, although it's obviously come up before. My usual answer is "More than I'd care to admit". The first couple years of our marriage I usually tacked on "Fortunately I'm not like that any more, you really helped me to move on with my life."

As time has marched on (we've been married 9 years in February) she now knows that there were a couple 1 night stands, and I don't even remember all of their first names, much less last.

The trick is to convince her that the number before her is much less important than the number after her... Which of course should be zero. Unless you're just using her, been there done that. Then honesty is the best policy. As my friends know me for reciting over and over again: "Only play the players."

Answer 8

Tell her that is a personal matter, but if she is worried about STD's you will be happy to take a test before your relationship becomes sexual. Don't get caught in that trap. It is no one else's business how many girls you slept with, as long as you are not passing around HIV or some other venereal disease.

Answer 9

I think you already ruined the whore thing with your answer of a lot. Just be truthful, especially if your serious with her. Never lie about that. It will only make you look bad, not good.

Answer 10

Be honest in saying that you "don't do the score card" and if she persists, sit her down - hard. One of the most fatal mistakes is bring past relationships into a present one. Whether it's numbers, names, whatever, they don't belong there.

It sounds as if her boundaries and limits are not very mature. Think twice, my dear. It could be an indication of one who is a bit immature.

Answer 11

what is it any of her business how many ppl you have slepted with... if you do answer it will either make you or break you but i suggest you be honest about it and tell her the real number.. good luck to you