she is my working colleague and we alway talk a lot and help out each other so that i have been in love of her for 3 months.we went out for a dinner with another four working colleagues yesterday night and we all had a lot of drink and got drunk! after the dinner we both went home and finally i told her that i like her but she said "sorry i had a boyfriend.........."
i asked her if i still had a chance to be her boyfriend and she told me "maybe" and i abruptly kissed on her lips,she didn't refused me but kissed me back in the street....
today i sent her a e-mail for apology and i was totally forgived and she asked me to work hard from now on...............
she has a boyfriend now ,but should i still go after her ?
thank you all!
2007-11-18 17:56:29 · 17 answers · asked by Warrior 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-11-18 18:05:33 · update #1
Well, she is either teasing you or you have a real chance with her. Her relationship with her boyfriend must not be that great or she wouldn't have kissed you. I think you should tell her if she ever breaks up with him to let you know. Tell her you have strong feelings for but but do not want to stand in the way of her current relationship. If she breaks up with him then you will have your answer.
2007-11-19 02:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jodi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well a kissed is a kiss .... i think she likes you too.
but the fact that she got a boyfrnd is another part of the story. dating is just fine as long as you won't kiss her again coz is totally fault. Try to be frnd with her a know a little more about her personality ,family and life. As you go along you'll learn if she's worth keeping or not at all.
Don't rush on things ... it's only time will tell if you are really for each other.... well i hope you end with each other arms soon enough.
Dont loose hope if you really love / like her you must exert time and full focus on it. deciding on something won't finish over night especially when it pertains to love. Sometimes it take years. Just like what happend to me and with my current boyfrnd now, it take us 7 years to clear the road for our love and now it seems like a dream come true .... we end up on each other arms.
Goodluck.
2007-11-18 18:34:46 · answer #2 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that you should go for it because if she didnt refuse to kiss you the she must have feelings for you and she is teaseing you to work hard at it. Just give it time and the right choices will be made and if she "cheated" on her current boyfriend then she is looking for someone new, just because she kissed you it doesnt mean she will go around kissing everyone, as long as you trust her everything will be fine
2007-11-18 18:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by Aphex Franco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because she has a boyfriend. You need to move on. Their is nothing you can do and you should not have never kissed her if you knew if she had a boyfriend. If he found out he would kick ur butt! Whats the point of going after her if she is taken?
2007-11-18 17:59:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does the fact that you are 23 and she is 21 have to do with anything? I give this essay a C+.
2007-11-18 18:05:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely, who cares if she's dating some guy that she probably likes. Just because she kissed you for a second when she was drunk and you tried to get all makey-outey with her doesn't mean she doesn't secretly want your hot bod! Back in reality, you should avoid dating people you work with...unless you're william shatner. SHATNER FOR PRESIDENT 2008!!
2007-11-18 18:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by connbellingham 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that will be your situation just wait for the time when they will break. Then grab the chance. If I were you work hard and show her that you are better one than her boyfriend. Think smart.
2007-11-18 18:04:41 · answer #7 · answered by Randol Mendoza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she likes you back. But she has a boyfriend so you should respect that (by not kissing her). Play it cool and be her friend, don't back off but now that she knows you like her it is up to her to decide if she wants you or her boyfriend. Good luck!
2007-11-18 18:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by ☠ ☠ ☠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.Serenade her or something.Ur like this guy in my colleague who likes me for ages.We played matchmaker so he found someone.So...if u still want her,talk to her about your feelings like the guy that likes me.Its kinda sorta hard discussing your true feelings to her so be strong.
2007-11-18 18:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't have. And you are both drunk that time, maybe she is just playing along... its not right to go after her.
2007-11-18 18:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by Krizia ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋