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Do all women hate men? where i come from they do. Every male friend of mind has been abused by their mother. And the thing is that NO ONE cares, no one. There are all of these places for women and nothing to help hurt men. I have seen good men turn to rage and destroy themselves all fro mthe wrong of women. And in the end the world blames the men. When i was in kindergraden a woman had the students make a paper medallion for me out of glitter and paper. Then she made me wear it in the corner while she and the class al laughed at me. I cry even as i write this now. it is something i never forgot Ever. and why to this very day as a man women to me, all of them represent the worse. Always laughing at me and putting my down for being different, for being me. There is no one to hug me or wipe my tears. My mother never held me ever as a baby. And that too I remember and feel. Life is cold, so cold. And it was women who did this to me. Women who ignore me and judge me. always

2007-11-18 18:16:31 · 6 answers · asked by Misunderstood 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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eeeekkk!!!! u sound like ur the 1 who HATES WOMEN!!!! u better go find help b4 u turn into a sereal killer... if u havent all ready... i think u shud be locked up...

2007-11-18 18:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Gold Digger 5 · 2 2

Oh Dear Misunderstood, It is most unfortunate that the one person that could start you out in life with unconditional love seems to have failed you. There are a lot of fancy names for what is going on with you and your feelings of abandonment at the hands of your mother. You may or may not have heard of some of them in the past. Attachment disorder may be an issue for you. But the important thing is that you are not a disorder; you are a man that, unfortunately, has been unable to be a part of a loving, nurturing relationship. It sounds like your world is one of distrust and disillusion. I cannot comment on the actions of your teacher. It is inappropriate for any teacher to set a child up for ridicule in front of other children. But you know that. I know that from your perspective it may seem easy to blame women for all that has gone wrong in your world. And, indeed, things have gone wrong in your world. But, in those households that have two parents, there would be someone else that has an obligation to make sure that the early emotional needs of a young child are met. You may be part of a culture that does not place great value on the emotional needs or men, or women, for that matter. Life can be cold. But sometimes life is also what we make it. You have recognized that your world is imperfect. You are the one that can change it. And, yes, that will mean spending time with someone trained in allowing you to share your past experiences and hurts. By opening up, allowing the pain you will be able to move past these feelings of distrust against women. Sometimes it may seem overwhelming to try and find a counselor or therapist that you can trust. Start with a man. Begin by checking with your employer if applicable and see if there is any counseling available as part of your benefits. If you are not comfortable asking about it in a work related environment, just check in the phone book. Look under counseling or therapists. Many communities have a non-profit counseling agency that will see clients on a pro-rated basis. That means that any payment will be based on your income. Remember that counselors, therapists, and other mental health professionals are bound by law to maintain confidentiality. They will not discuss your situation with anyone that is not part of any treatment. Misunderstood, please understand that not all womenhate men. It is possible that because of your distrust of women, women may be more cautious or less concerned about your feelings when they are in your company. Life has a lot to offer. You need a friend. This may sound a bit off, but do you have any pets? Dogs are wonderful for offering unconditional love. They are always pleased to see their owner/friend come home. Think about finding someone to talk to, someone to work through some of these issues with. If a professional suggests that you try medication for a short time, don't be afraid to go with the suggestion. Many, many people have had positive results from medication. If you try it and it doesn't work for you, then you simply stop taking it. But now is the time to do what you need to do for yourself..to see that women don't hate men. In fact women like men quite a lot.

2007-11-19 03:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Debra W 3 · 1 0

Hi, women definitely do not hate men. what culture are you from? From my background (Asian), many women care and love for their sons/daughters even when the father is absent or doesn't care. It goes both ways for girls and boys unfortunately. But, I guess, in order to help you, I would say find a relative or a role model who is female that does respect you and does not have too high expectations for other people.

2007-11-19 02:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by yenbenbonanza 4 · 0 0

I don't hate you. :-) and I'm female so the answer is No

2007-11-19 02:22:05 · answer #4 · answered by BeautifulNightmare 2 · 1 0

You need counseling badly.

2007-11-19 02:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 5 1

Wow, how GAY are you?? find a man, marry him.... live happily ever after.....wow....Yes,
We're all laughing at you!!

2007-11-19 02:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by mike_in_tex 2 · 3 2

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