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Question

2 yrs bck i proposd to a grl in my college n thn v startd gng out, we evn made plans for marraige, n v were cmpltly in luv vid each othr.bt soon as v bth strtd to wrk, distancs startd grwng n v also strtd fightng a lot.whch usd to keep both of us v.worrd and unhappy..bt we continued..thn i met a girl(my high school frnd,who hd a crush on me in school),n i rly startd to like talkng 2 her,as our thoughts patterns used to match a lot.infct v used to say the sam thngs at the sam time, n in the evnt i startd likng her,bt at the same time i also likd my girlfriend as she was the one i had actually fallen in love.the othr girl also likes me a lot and has also proposd,bt i havn't answrd her.my currnt grlfrnd nw wnts to get marrd,bt i hav a feelng dat we will fght a lt once we get togthr,moreovr,aftr so many fghts i no longr hav the sam feelngs,bt i jus cannot let her go coz i knw tht it wud hurt her gravly,at the same time i also knw that my real happness lies with the othr grl nw,what do i do

Answer 1

Be honest before you end up in a loveless marriage making children miserable. Be a man about it. You no longer have those feelings, now it is time to tell her. Man up!!

Answer 2

Phew...well...if it isnt going to work for you with your present g/f let her know.Of course she will be hurt, but thats part of life.If you leave it in a good way she will be able to move on.You said the other girl 'LIKES YOU A LOT' this aint the same as ' love '.....maybe you should work things out with the girl who actually does love you, instead of the one who is just liking you.?Marriage works better when two people are in love, rather than just one....if you no longer have the same feelings then you do you think you could have loved her a great deal in the first place.?Love is not so simple to abandon..even if there are a lot of disagreements....Love does not fade so quickly, and without real reason..... if you love someone you can move on and heal, but its always there.? However if you really feel you would be happier with this other girl, then make your choice now, before you all very unhappy and confused.?

Answer 3

getting along and liking someone is different from being in love! How lond into the relationship have you proposed to this gal? In all relationships there are argumnets if this scares you now before marriage then I honestly dont think you ready for commitment! No relationship is perfect. While you enjoy the other gals company it does not mean that you inlove with her, its probably you just like her being "a friend".
Follow your heart, you the only one knows the situation and how you feel about the ladies! And let me tell you, you can not possibly love two people at the same time!!!!

Answer 4

You need to sort your head out one way or another. Write a list with the pros and cons of both women. Who knows, maybe neither one is right for you.

At this moment you are doing both of them a disservice by seeing both of them. Make a choice between them, or go back to being single again, and find someone who truly suits you. That's the most logical thing to do.

Good luck.

Answer 5

WOW!!!!! what a situation, which is bad for all concerned, you were in a comitted relationship with the first girl and you like this other girl, you play them like this, as if either one found out they would drop you in a heartbeat, depends on how old you are, as to whether you get married or not, you have too decide what you are doing as they will find out and you will loose both good luck :)

Answer 6

perhaps if you had used more vowels in your question, i could have been bothered reading it.