Family & Relationships - 18 November 2007

2007-11-18 21:12:46 · 11 answers · asked by silence 1 in Singles & Dating

and get back to doing the housework

2007-11-18 21:09:05 · 40 answers · asked by Mr Cheese 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well it goes like this he went on a night with us 2 weeks ago now and my partner stupidly told him about being in 200 pounds in credit and has since got 3 credit cards thats his business but anyway he told him in confidence he has since e- mailed his mum and dad about the situation but have not replyed or spoke to him about it he also put me in it that he spoke to me about it i cant remember cause he told me when i was very drunk the thing is he has changed since he has been with his new girlfriend of just one yr he gone misserible she never lets him out and when he does go out she tell him not to drink too much she never goes out with us she is 37 and hes only 29 and under her thumb his head is still in the clouds the thing is i think his parents and his girlfriend are reporting everything to his parents about our businessso ive told him not to tell his brother anything for now on they are always looking in his bank account and asking what hes is spending the money on is this wrong?

2007-11-18 21:09:01 · 3 answers · asked by baby dust for me 5 in Singles & Dating

On an emotional stand point, the decision to divorce my ex-husband to me, was the right thing to do. I wasn't in-love with him any more, he abused our relationship by using drugs, wasting money, he didn't take care of the home, he left us in debt, he courted other women, he would go against me, manipulate and he rode on the coat tails of his parents and I.

I stopped going to college when we got pregnant with our first daughter, I sold the condo I owned before we got married in Miami Beach after we bought our house to avoid paying two taxes and worked hard to invest in our future.

Now that I am alone, with 2 young daughters, working full time, paying a ridiculously high rent ( I live in Ft.Lauderdale) Doing everything, taking out the garbage, going to the It seems that I should have just bit my tongue and deal with it.

Now I wake up in the morning scared of what the future will bring, scared that I won't make enough money to support me and the girls, scared I'll be alone.

2007-11-18 21:06:51 · 22 answers · asked by thinking outside the box 2 in Marriage & Divorce

have you noticed how when you get older the girls that use to be hot in school now look ugly, and the girls that look okish in school, now look amazing, and the girls who looked ugly in school now look okish.?

2007-11-18 21:01:34 · 27 answers · asked by dreammuncher 1 in Singles & Dating

WORDS WOMEN USE

FINE

this is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

FIVE MINUTES

If she is getting dressed, this is half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given 5 more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

NOTHING

This is the calm before the storm. This means "something," and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with 'Nothing' usually end in "Fine"

GO AHEAD

This is a dare, not permission. Don't do it.

LOUD SIGH

This is not actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A "Loud Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you
over "Nothing"

THAT'S OKAY

This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can make to a
man. "That's Okay" means that she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

2007-11-18 20:58:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a bridesmaid in my best friend's wedding, but I still need to send an acceptance card, so would it go to her parents or her fiance's parents? I know the address is her fiance's, but both sets of parents are inviting me... who should I be addressing it to?

2007-11-18 20:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Hi , i caught my bf chatting with another gal saying that he is single and everything.. I made a such a big hoo ha.. He say i am too sensative and i over reacted.. did i...

2007-11-18 20:55:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u believe when you give , you get?Not necessary from the same person but your help will be return .

2007-11-18 20:51:32 · 17 answers · asked by k_syofyan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you had magical powers?

what would you do to men/women?

what would you change?

2007-11-18 20:49:50 · 11 answers · asked by dreammuncher 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy at my school (university) asked me out and we went out a couple of times and I really fell in love with him, but then he tells me he is in a period of his life where he wants to be free, and that he is not ready for a relationship. I'm not ready either but I know he is "the one" and the chance of ever meeting someone like that again probably doesn't exist.
I can't tell him how I feel because that's exactly what scares him away, so what am I going to do?

2007-11-18 20:47:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think it's the parents' discretion to decide whom they trust with their child. I also dont want them to attend the required seminar. They will be flying in from far off places. Is there a way around this and is there a roman catholic church in the bay area who will not require this? please help me.

2007-11-18 20:44:53 · 4 answers · asked by Kaye C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How many of you wish that the cruise ship sunk on the first day it sailed?

2007-11-18 20:43:13 · 12 answers · asked by Protik Maitra 6 in Singles & Dating

well, i'm still 15, and been kissed yet. but why do i like to be kissed so0o0o0o0o bad?!?!??!?!!!?!?!?!!!! i'm kind of freaking out here, starting to think something's wrong with me because of this feeling that i have!!! can someone pllllzzz help me?!?!!!

i mean i'm starting to think that liking to be kissed is not a good thing! is that true?!?!?!!????!!

2007-11-18 20:42:09 · 8 answers · asked by someone 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-18 20:40:44 · 6 answers · asked by elvis28hunt4 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i read this and couldn't help but almost wet myself!..

cheesy pickup line:

"Screw me if I'm wrong, but don't you want to kiss me?"

its so stupid bahahahahaha!

2007-11-18 20:37:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm often upset due to problems at work. my husband,who can be a little bit controlling, is talking about HIM going in to speak to my boss to see if there is anything they can to do ease the pressure. personally i think this is intrusive. it is MY job, MY boss, and MY responsibility to do something about it. should a husband be behaving like this.he says i'm his wife, therefore he is responsible for supporting me in any way he can

2007-11-18 20:35:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what will u do if some one told u that he loves u but u dont love him and u dont want to heart him and u want to still friends??!!!!

2007-11-18 20:33:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-18 20:30:44 · 13 answers · asked by Mossy 2 in Singles & Dating

Why are such relationships always frawned upon? These have been perhaps as old as the institution of marriage

2007-11-18 20:29:52 · 9 answers · asked by Gulab 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think it morally wrong to have sex before marriage? What do you think of people that do or don't have sex before marriage?

2007-11-18 20:28:01 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a sex fantasy about sleeping with a women but my husband would not understand would it be wrong to try it once and never do it again just to have the experience and settle the urge

2007-11-18 20:25:44 · 19 answers · asked by chancireese 2 in Marriage & Divorce

She has lied about her age.Lied about liking this other guy.
and now she asked for a break for now,yet she's already got plans to hang out with some dude to go skateboarding,when we had plans she decided to go ahead and cancel them.What the hell am i supposed to do?I've already told the dumb *** guy who is trying to take her from me to find his own girl

2007-11-18 20:24:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They are having problems with my Dad and she shared them with me, so i know what she is going through. She had signs of stroke a while ago and i'm worried the stress she has now might bring it back again and even make it worse.

How do i help her to get thorugh this?

To summarise the problem, it has to do with Infidelity and lack of communication from my Dad. Even when caught he still denies and also he doesnt share some of the bank balances and accounts information with Mum. Its hurting her, and i'm hurting as well.

They have been married for 33years, they started from scratch together and now they have they ever dreamed of and more, the problem is with what Dad is doing now.

2007-11-18 20:19:42 · 8 answers · asked by Phenomenal woman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a good friend who is going no where in his job (and thus in life in general).

Should I tell him to just get into another line of work? Or is this none of my business?

2007-11-18 20:17:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok, they always say "insecurity" and "low self-esteem" is the root of all jealousy. so work on your self-esteem, right? but surely it is unreasonable to believe that you are the BEST lover your partner could ever have, and that your partner could NEVER leave you, and that you are THE MOST attractive person around... B***S*** i say!
everyone has to live with the RISK of being rejected, and the knowledge that we are not perfect, there are always going to be other people around who your partner could run off with.
so, what do we do? how do you improve your own sense of "security" , and your self esteem. surely this does not mean we should create a DELUSION that we will never be rejected or upstaged by another?

2007-11-18 20:17:30 · 12 answers · asked by jay dee 1 in Singles & Dating

Lets say you know this guy, and you start having a fling with him. You like him a lot, but nobody knows what is going on between you. Suddenly, you dont know from him for a while. Next thing you know, is that your daughter is going out with him and he is really happy for this. You realise your daughter didn't know what was going on between this guy and you.

How would you feel? What would you do? What would you tell your daughter? Would you hate her for "interfering" in what could have been?

2007-11-18 20:17:26 · 6 answers · asked by Sesoid 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

In August, a mutual friend hooked me up with a girl who I immediately fell for! And she immediately fell for me! We started dating full speed ahead. She was more at the wheel than I was... wanting me to focus on her and be a one-woman man, etc. I complied with no problem! She even introduced to her parents and I met up with them on several occasions. She would call or text me every morning to say hello and we hung out 4 times a week.

As time went on, she confessed she'd gotten out of a year-long live-in relationship with a guy who was verbally abusive. They'd stopped dating three months prior. Normally that would scare me, but I took a gamble and stuck it out.

Then one day, she broke up with me. Sobbed and said she couldn't do it and thought she was ready. A week later, she took me back and was full-speed ahead with me again. Then after another couple weeks, she dumped me again out fear. I obviously know I should move on, but I miss her badly! What do I do? Advice. No punks, please

2007-11-18 20:07:54 · 19 answers · asked by friendinneed76 2 in Singles & Dating

gotta practice my twister skills or i'll get rusty and i cant have that...

would you like to come over 4 a game or two with me??

2007-11-18 20:06:51 · 9 answers · asked by Maximus_Decimus_Meridius 4 in Singles & Dating

i have noticed for a fact that girls of today, only want money , good looks, and guys who are fair, and have no consideration for care, affection and support

should i resort to treating women below the line, ???? cause i tried being nice but nice just doesnt work

2007-11-18 20:02:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating