should i stop respecting women?

Question

i have noticed for a fact that girls of today, only want money , good looks, and guys who are fair, and have no consideration for care, affection and support

should i resort to treating women below the line, ???? cause i tried being nice but nice just doesnt work

Answer 1

This is nothing new....they have always been the child bearing, concerned of a potential mates ability to "hunt and gather", and this is perfect because its a way to keep our children from starving. They are the receptors, the child nurturers...the male the "tool" animated controlling aspect of our species, this is why gals are automatically better actor/actress and can use the tears to get their way, and be sneaky shrewd..as is their survival mechanism (being the weaker physically) Some also have a "penis envy" subconcious, because lets face it males just have a probe stick to poke around, but to a woman ...its the inside of their guts....they bleed from there, and with the cramps and all...feel they are not getting the best deal of the two possible realization of existence experiences to land into as human. There is no such thing as "lonely" peeps as much as "too picky" perhaps, men tend to exaggerate their positive qualities...try increasing your happens to meet and talk chances...call the local bowling alley and find out what night ladies league is on...then hang at the bar...or let air out of your tire in front of some "Chippendales" Club around closing time, then ask for a ride home when the warmed up gals are exiting the place...I took up square dancing ...had a blonde on one arm a redhead on the other, and a brunette waiting for me...a gal thats all about material things is going to be a phoney friend anyways, be patient, continue friendly, but also act uninterested...some gals are attracted to what they can't have.

Answer 2

Well this is a rather complicated because the answer is "no" you need to respect women.

The problem has to do with being a "nice guy". The guy who is a "nice guy" never goes any place in terms of women.

As such your job as a man is to some how find a balance between being "disrespectful" and a ":nice guy."

You certainly do not want to be "overly" nice with women, nor do you want to be a push over. In fact, being a push over is one of the worst things you can do.

Having said all of that you DO need to be respectful of women because with out doing so you will NEVER get laid.

Men have a bad deal here because we really have to "work" to get laid. lol

Answer 3

I know you are not serious about thinking that you need to stop respecting women. Honestly, all girls I know aren't like that at all. I am definitely one of them. Looks aren't important to me (hardly at all). I mean I need to be attracted to the person but that doesn't mean the person has to be attractive. It's hard to explain. I can find little things about them attractive, like their sense of humor. You should still respect women just don't respect THOSE women. But you might want to change your approach. I noticed that some guys who think like you, seem to get this impression when it isn't true because they act desperate. When we see a guy who is constantly hitting on all different girls, it doesn't make us feel special so it doesn't matter how nice of a personality they have, they are unattractive based on that fact. Just don't be one of these and you should find someone who likes you for you.

Answer 4

If you want no respect at all, go ahead. I promise, you will be paying for sex, if you get any.

Why would you classify all women that way? You are probably not playing in your own league. You can't go after beautiful young girls, if you are an ugly old man, unless you have a bunch of money!!!

Try looking at women that are more in the same category as you both in appearance and financially, and you will probably find happiness.

Answer 5

no you shouldnt stop respecting women respect is different then being nice respect only goes so far if she doesnt respect you then move on they will soon learn that a guy by looks alone is not enough good looks dont get the bill paid the beds made and the children raised

Answer 6

no. that is a mass generalisation about women and by resorting to being a bastard all you will be doing is attracting the bad girls you dont approve of. Sure, a lot of the time nice guys finish last...but they still finish. and a lot of the time they are a lot happier. trust me - i've been with a nice guy and it was totally worth it. just wait until you find someone who appreciates you.

Answer 7

What an absolutely crazy question!
People are people. You can be selfish and idiotic and be any gender, race, color, religion, whatever.... people are people. And if this is what are noticing.... then you are attracting the wrong people in to your life. You need to take stock and see what it is that you are doing that is attracting this type of person in your life. Do not be so negative.... you are only hurting yourself and cheating yourself out of great things to come. look inwardly first then look around....and point your finger.... not the other way around. Hope this helps and Good Luck.

Answer 8

No. You should always respect women. But man, I hear you on that. Every time I'm the nice guy, the girl freaks out and dumps me... or moves on to some jerk. But when I'm the jerk or going halfass on the relationship, they worship me. Sounds cliche, but it's true.

But keep respecting women... eventually a cool, bright and deserving girl will notice how great you are and stick it out.

Answer 9

no do not stop respecting us.....u just got to know what type of girls are mature enough to handle the nice good guys....and the ones that will just use u and all that stuff u mentioned are not the women im talking about.

Answer 10

Certainly not. Respecting women is most wanted in married life. Respecting doesn't mean flirting.
Women attracted to men only for money, looks or skin are termed sluts.