well it goes like this he went on a night with us 2 weeks ago now and my partner stupidly told him about being in 200 pounds in credit and has since got 3 credit cards thats his business but anyway he told him in confidence he has since e- mailed his mum and dad about the situation but have not replyed or spoke to him about it he also put me in it that he spoke to me about it i cant remember cause he told me when i was very drunk the thing is he has changed since he has been with his new girlfriend of just one yr he gone misserible she never lets him out and when he does go out she tell him not to drink too much she never goes out with us she is 37 and hes only 29 and under her thumb his head is still in the clouds the thing is i think his parents and his girlfriend are reporting everything to his parents about our businessso ive told him not to tell his brother anything for now on they are always looking in his bank account and asking what hes is spending the money on is this wrong?
2007-11-18 21:09:01 · 3 answers · asked by baby dust for me 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know its illegal to look into somebody online banking his dad foned yesterday asking were we are and what we were doing if we were spending any money things like that i just want to have a quiet life and wish everyone would butt out my partner is 31 and am 24 were both adaults been treated like kids his brother also said if he doesnt sort it out he will never speak to him again .
2007-11-18 21:12:06 · update #1
weve never asked for money we both work his family aree getting him too report back to them on what we are up to its ridiculous ive been in the family for 4 yrs his partner only been around for a 1yr i cant stand she thinks she is better than us when she aint just a posh *****.
2007-11-18 21:19:12 · update #2
my partner was in hospital for a while so they took charge of his banking but thought they would of stopped that when he got out there so nosey.
2007-11-18 21:27:22 · update #3
mm no ofence but his brother has already involved me in it so i cant stay out of it the next time they see us no doubt they will ask me they always do.
2007-11-18 21:29:18 · update #4
need more ideas on what to do please thnx.
2007-11-18 23:08:06 · update #5
Do what Evonne says, change the bank password.
At 31, the guy is nearly half way throuth his life. He needs to cut loose of the apron strings.
And since when is £200 in credit worth knowing about. That is about 4 tanks of petrol under Robber Brown.
2007-11-18 23:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are not his wife, you really don't have much of a say.
Your "partner" as you put it, should be the one to stand up for himself. He is a grown man. It is obvious that he is the one that gave his parents the sign in and password to his account. Think about it. You say that they check his account online, right?
It is illegal, but if he had given them the information they needed to check it, what can you do? The best thing for you to do is just stay out of it and let your "partner" handle his own family. You don't want to come out of this whole situation as being the bad guy.
IDEA: What your "partner" can do is change his log in i.d. and password and make a phone call to the bank and tell them not to share any information with anyone other than him.
If that does not work, go to the bank and have him close that account and re-open another one. That'll fix it.
As for his brother, I would avoid him. If he wants to know something, tell him to leave you out of it and go ask his brother. Tell him that you do not want to be in the middle anymore.
-GOOD LUCK.
2007-11-18 21:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bf to stand up to them and act like an adult. It is none of his family's business unless you are asking them for money.
2007-11-18 21:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋