I am a bridesmaid in my best friend's wedding, but I still need to send an acceptance card, so would it go to her parents or her fiance's parents? I know the address is her fiance's, but both sets of parents are inviting me... who should I be addressing it to?
2007-11-18 20:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
The address for RSVP is the grooms, but I want to know whether I should address it to his parents or hers...
2007-11-18 21:02:34 · update #1
Ok clearly I'm writing this all wrong - I have the RSVP address, but who should I attention it to... "Dear Brad & Mikako" (bride's parents) or "Dear Geoff & Jill" (groom's parents)?
2007-11-18 21:11:13 · update #2
Send it to the person whose address is on the card. Her fiance's name is on the card, so send it to him.
That's why we're including addressed, stamped envelopes with our cards - to eliminate confusion.
2007-11-19 02:56:08 · answer #1 · answered by SE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is addressed in the fiance's parents address you send it there. If you have two cards, one from each parent then you send them both back to each set of parents. One to his parents and one to hers. If you only have one you send it to that one. I hope I'm not confusing myself with this one. LOL
2007-11-19 00:15:42 · answer #2 · answered by OFFICIALLY MRS. HOWARD! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The RSVP address.
2007-11-18 21:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your best friend. She would know which set of parents needs to know how many guests are attending. Then, send it to the parents that need to know the guest count. If they are jointly doing the planning, then it shouldn't matter which set you send to. Hope this helps you.
2007-11-18 21:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just send it. You don't need to address it to anyone if the address is already there. They'll know what it is!
2007-11-19 00:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by LoLo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'd send a card for people who don't live there? Send it to the people who live at that address.
2007-11-19 17:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by csbiup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
generally they include an envelope for the RSVP, or it's on the post card. just ask your friend where it should be sent to... or ask the fiance.
2007-11-18 21:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by nataliexoxo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when in doubt, send two acceptance cards. one to each family.
OR address it to the couple who sent you the invitations.
OR don't address it at all. simply say
____ is excited about attending ____ and ____'s wedding on _______ at _______.
2007-11-18 22:13:56 · answer #8 · answered by chilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋