A guy at my school (university) asked me out and we went out a couple of times and I really fell in love with him, but then he tells me he is in a period of his life where he wants to be free, and that he is not ready for a relationship. I'm not ready either but I know he is "the one" and the chance of ever meeting someone like that again probably doesn't exist.
I can't tell him how I feel because that's exactly what scares him away, so what am I going to do?
2007-11-18 20:47:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have one of two choices, as I see it. You can either tell him and run him off, or take a chance that he will change later. It depends on how much you love him, and if he is really worth it.
You said that you only dated a couple of times. seems to me that you are not in love, but infatuated with him. Love doesn't develop that quickly.
2007-11-18 20:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on, you just think he is the one because you're in love right now. As young as you are you should just enjoy dating guys, hanging out and having fun, not to mention setting yourself up for a successful career.
2007-11-19 04:52:41 · answer #2 · answered by Muga Wa Kabbz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait till he settles down in life. I mean, he gets a good job and is ready for relationship.
2007-11-19 04:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by Good Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means he dont want to lie..that's so good...if u make some pressure so that he makes a commitment..it may happen he will refuse in future....so better enjoy his company..i think this guy is good for u...u can discuss whatever u want with him...he may commit!!! good luck
2007-11-19 04:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by Deepak Ahuja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may love you. Look at your post and you'll see all the other #&%^ you will be permanently strapping him to. Does it look like a lifetime of ...
2007-11-19 05:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by thescience@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its meant to be...
well how do you know hes the one?
if you havent tried the others
hmm... fate will decide if u r gonna be the "ones"
2007-11-19 05:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really that desperate to get a attached? No please! Before you lose out even more then just feelings. (If you know what I mean)
2007-11-19 04:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by vabuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM EMIDDIATELY!!!
Don't waste your time and feelings!!!!
The idea that no one can replace him is subjective.
There are many, many even better than him.
2007-11-19 05:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by cruiser 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋