he has more pics of her in there than he does of me
2007-11-18 17:53:09 · 36 answers · asked by slins 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know about threatened, but I would certainly feel insulted.
If you allow him to make you one of a group, or second he just might.
Show him how you want to be treated by what you do and don't allow. You will have far more respect for calmly stating your limits than almost anything you can do. And what he is doing is insensitive and thoughtless, unless, of course, he is seeing you both and lying about it, then it's just plain shitty.
2007-11-18 17:59:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a serious discussion with him about that IMO. What kind of message is he trying to send to you exactly? Is he even over her? Is he still friends with her? If so that's dangerous territory for him to be treading on. You know him better... so you have to decide if you can trust him and her.
I'm not saying that he's going to cheat on you. But staying friends with an ex more than not could lead to trouble based on my experience and from seeing my friends go through things of similar nature.
How would he feel if you put up a bunch of pictures of you and your ex?
And what is that caption suppose to mean exactly. Seriously... your man doesn't know how to act. That's so disrespectful and I'm sure most people here would agree. I say you drop that loser.
2007-11-18 17:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by Carpe DM™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Yes, you should, and rightfully so: he is dating you, what's he doing putting up pictures of his ex, with that type of caption?
I would confront him about it. If you stay idle, he's going to notice your lack of enthusiasm and think that maybe it's okay if he ditches you for the ex.
But then, maybe that kind of boyfriend isn't worth staying with. He doesn't sound as into you as he should be, if he's got more pictures of his ex on his myspace than he has of you.
Still, give him a chance and talk to him about it. Give him a chance to fess up, and then maybe you guys will get closer through the process.
Good luck!
2007-11-18 17:57:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bf was in love with you, he wouldn't even be putting up pics of his ex. Even if his best friend was his ex, he shouldn't be putting up pics of his ex. This is disrespectful to you because it bothers you. The only pics he should be putting up of girls should be mostly only you.
It seems like he has not moved on with his past yet. I'd say dump him if he isn't willing to get rid of them off his myspace.
2007-11-18 17:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be offended, but don't feel threatened. It is his ex, and if he wanted to be with her, I don't think he'd be with you. But you should approach him about this and let him know it's not ok to put up pics of her especially with that caption. Tell him that you should be the number one friend on myspace and your pics should be all over it.
2007-11-18 17:56:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica N 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes not good at all. He shouldn't have any pictures of his ex-girlfriend on his myspace??? I'd personally leave him and tell him he needs to figure out what he really wants. He obliviously still has feelings for her
2007-11-18 18:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by ☠ ☠ ☠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel threatened. And you shouldn't be on here asking us.
What you should do is go up to your boyfriend and slap him up on the head and ask him what the hell is the meaning of putting up pics of his ex when he's with you?
Your his girlfriend. Don't forget that. If you don't like the fact he has the pics up, tell him. Be honest. If he doesn't repsect your concerns, then he doesn't truly care for you and you should dump him.
2007-11-18 17:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by Advice Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not about being threatened or not. It is about respect, or lack there of in this case. It is very rude to put pics of his ex on his myspace. I would tell him to take them down or he can kiss your a** goodbye. You have to start training them early.
2007-11-18 17:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Threatend?!..dang you aint gonah die..
Nah You should feel consernd of your guy..if he has these pictures of hes ex. But States that hes with you then you shouldnt worry. But if he starts seeing hes Ex as in long phone talks "Catchin up" then be watchin him a bit
2007-11-18 17:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by brian0291 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definately talk to him about this. shes his ex, your his girlfriend. he owes you respect and hes not giving you that by putting her pics all over his page. you should find out if theres still anything going on there or it could even be that she herself is doing it (my brothers ex actually got his password and completely revamped his page with ALL their old pics it was crazy). the best way to find out is to go to the source. good luck, i definately wouldnt allow it if it were my boyfriend though.
2007-11-18 18:07:30 · answer #10 · answered by nyc chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋