What should I do in this situation? I have a girlfriend that I have been with for almost 6 months. Ever since I have been with her I have noticed this collage of pictures in her room. 2 of the pictures in this collage has her ex boyfriend in it. I do not understand why she still has them up. Please let me know what I should do...I want to ask her about them but I don't want to sound jealous or insecure.
2007-11-18 18:01:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My wife has pics of her old boyfriends(from 20 years ago) ratholed away in boxes. I could care less actually if thats any insight into my thoughts on the subject.
2007-11-18 18:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by cougar_mccxxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's harder for a girl to completely give up a guy than it is for you. You may never quite understand this, but she just has some problems inside her, but she's not cheating on you or anything. And it may not be that she can't let go of he ex, it's just a collage of pictures that she thinks is special and wants to keep up.
She made it and is probably a little proud of it. Don't make her take down something important to her.
Those are just memories mashed into art.
If you feel the need, you can ask her about it, but don't push her and don't make her feel bad and don't make her take it down unless she really wants to, ok?
sorry.
Hope all goes well,
peace out
2007-11-19 02:20:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably not a big deal. Collages are a bunch of images from a certain time or with a certain theme. Unless you possess the talent of time travel, he was there with her during whatever time that collage represents. He's just part of the scenery now. Now if his picture is in her wallet, that I would question. But a collage? Probably not important.
2007-11-19 02:04:11 · answer #3 · answered by Razorchilde 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember when it comes to pictures they are a way to capture a PAST memory. It's pointless to get upset about the pictures. Out of all of them there are just two? I have a few pictures of me and my ex together. Like one I have saved from my senior prom. I don't have feelings for the guy but that was a part of my past so why should I throw it out. I am sure that is your GF's case it is no emotions for him but just a memory.
2007-11-19 02:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by ash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's probably just remembering things. It's not like she wants him back over you. You might nicely ask her why she still has his pics up. I threw out all my exes love letters and photos. That's a chapter of my life that's over and done with. Now it's my new gf that has my heart and she's my screen saver as well. If that's not love I don't know what is.
2007-11-19 02:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by dave_83501 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. she doesn't know it bothers you. So she won't do anything about it unless you bring it up.
She has been with you for 6 months... so just let it go. It might be hard but give her the benefit of the doubt.
2007-11-19 02:04:52 · answer #6 · answered by Carpe DM™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably forgot to take them down when they broke up. No big thing just tell her that you don't want him watching you two get busy lol j/k. Give her some pictures of you and tell her to hang those up. Trust me she will.
2007-11-19 02:07:55 · answer #7 · answered by BeautifulNightmare 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is just old memories. Don't act insecure, or you will end up in an argument.
2007-11-19 02:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's good to ask her her feelings about it but don't push too hard.
2007-11-19 02:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HER LIKE YOUR ASKING US............U SHOULD BE COMFY N READY 2 ASK HER ANYTHING & VICE VERSA. MAYBE HER N HER EX R KOOL & IT HARMLESS. BUT IF ITS BOTHERING U N U LET HER KNO & SHE DONT CHANGE IT THEM GET MAD CUZ THEN YOUR WORTH IZN'T MUCH
2007-11-19 02:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋