my close cousin is getting married in a month and his fiance is acting like a looney, she hates all the flowers and table settings shes picked and is going to reorder everything she even hates her dress and her husbands suit, is it just nerves or is she actually going nuts, HELP ?
2007-11-18 22:48:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
some people really do get themself into a state, she just wants everything "perfect" but she will soon realise that this is just not possible, nothing, including weddings ever goes perfectly.
2007-11-18 22:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a chef /caterer I have seen brides go into such a meltdown they have forgotten what menu they selected. It sounds like a total case of nerves, the bride to be just needs to focus on what lies ahead of her and your cousin, beyond that one day. And yes i realize that from an early age most girls are programmed by society to see it as the most important day in thier life, it ranks in the top 10 perhaps. The one thing I tell all of my brides (among a few other rules) is no matter what they picture in thier head the real day will not be that, there are far too many uncontrolables but 85-95% perfect is pretty damn good. Tell your cousins fiance to breath. She may think she has to do it better than some crap she saw on tv or in a mag. those brides drive me nutty.
But enough of this
have a great day
2007-11-19 01:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope it's just her nerves, but that sounds absolutely crazy! I picked out my decorations, dress, etc. WAY in advance, and still loved everything about my wedding day!
2007-11-19 02:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by The Mrs. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 13:01:23 · answer #4 · answered by burnham 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is indecisive or really picky.
Not much to do. Let her go crazy on her own but if she asks for help, just help her. She sounds difficult
2007-11-19 01:02:03 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess she is over stressed. Don''t bother. It's her problem and only she can try to get herself out of it! Just try to be supportive and sympathetic even if it means having to just keep quiet and listen to her mad ravings! It will pass..hopefully!
2007-11-18 23:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
AVOID HER LIKE THE PLAGUE MATE.
she isn't your problem. Stay out of it.
if you attempt to support her, she'll reel you in and make life hell for you.
2007-11-18 23:40:28 · answer #7 · answered by chilly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not your problem. It is her parents problem. If it is too late to get the dresses, then she will have to deal with it.
2007-11-18 22:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's probably just her nerves..well I hope!
2007-11-19 00:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋