I just found out a secret that my boyfriend has been keeping from me...Someone told me today that his ex girlfriend is pregnant and it's his...We have been dating for almost a month and he hasn't told me about her being pregnant. WHAT DO I DO????!!! Please help..
2007-11-18 14:28:12 · 10 answers · asked by â?¥ Taylor Bear♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on how you feel about the guy. It also depends on how he feels about his ex-girlfriend and how far into the pregnancy she is. There is a chance she got pregnant long before you and your current boyfriend got together.
Now you have to ask yourself if you can trust him. It would be one thing if he was straight forward about him fathering a child from a previous relationship. Since he kept that from you, he is being deceptive. Right now you need to confront him because you need to know where you stand and address any "baby's mama drama" issues.
2007-11-18 14:37:52 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I found out that my boyfriend had a girl pregnant at ... 1 month of us dating I would ask him what kind of a boy he is not man because.. that makes him a peice of **** for not staying with her I mean ... he can stick it in her, but can't deal with what pops out? I mean comon now... I'd talk to the people involved, and if she is pregnant with his kid... I mean I'd just walk away and not even be involved.. too much drama... but now at me and my man being together almost 5months I would ask him why he didn't tell me, and I'd accept the fact that he had another woman pregnant if IF he had a good enough explanation for not telling me... : ) But he doesn't ... I don't think!! .. Goodluck!
2007-11-18 22:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by anxious_manna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A month is not too serious of a realtionship so you deffiantely need to break it off. Nobody needs that kind of drama in their life.
2007-11-18 22:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Andrews 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it could just be a lie spreading around, ask your boyfriend if it is true and if is, you should think is this going to Rowen your relationship and what are you going to do, if its not true then just turn it round into a joke or something go0d luck xo
2007-11-18 22:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you trust that some one who came and told you?
do you think he mean it ?
do you think he knows a bout it?
are you sure that she is his ex girl friend?
take care dont fall in same fault
faith is foul and foul os faith
2007-11-18 22:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by basel q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront your bf about what you discovered.. and if he say yes! then ask what will be his decision.. But girl, be prepared in asking this and for what will be his decision for this!
2007-11-18 22:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by Periwinkle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Be prepared with what you are going to do with the answer.
2007-11-18 22:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by Linda P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it your problem?
Does he even know?
Are you sure its his?
Its not a factor in your relationship with him.
That is his past, let him deal with it.
2007-11-18 22:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the girl if its his
2007-11-18 22:31:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him and then go to her
2007-11-18 22:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by cupnnas2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋