Family & Relationships - 8 November 2007

Other than oral sex... what is one thing your woman does to keep you around?

Im not having relationship problems or anything.. i just want to know what there is that i can do to keep my man happy with me.. or our relationship..

I love him and i know he loves me but i really just want to keep him around. hes an amazing man...

2007-11-08 14:38:44 · 6 answers · asked by heatheranne4420 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, we started to date a week ago. were both almost 15. well he's not like every guy. he takes medicine for problems like rage, depression, and stuff. he's only had one other girl friend and they did everything but sex. im reli shy and wont go past kissing and hugging and i told him and he says thats fine. he cares alot about me, and i care alot about him. we've liked each other for about a year. im just wonderin if i should still date him? i mean he hasnt done anything wrong and things are fine but i just wanna get ur opinions. thanks

2007-11-08 14:37:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I have step kids who I have been raising for years. there is a lot to this case. so please don't think I'm just trying to steop in between the kids in there mother that is not the case at all. anyway the judge heard about ten minutes and made temp orders letting her take the kids back to her home for thanksgiving. thier father and I are scared that they will get hurt or she will hide them and we wil never see them again. I'm thinking of writing to the judge myself and telling him all the fact with all the proof to back what I say. the thing is I don't know if I should do it or not. the thing is I think the kids should go back and see how much things have changed and let them get an idea weather they want to go again or not but there are 11 people living in a 3bd home already and with the kids it would be 14 there. and 2 drug dealers a convicted felon who is on perole for attempted murder grand theft auto and robbery. she has abused these kids abandond them medically neglected them

2007-11-08 14:34:14 · 11 answers · asked by sunshine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

someone kind, funny, romantic, respectful and does not lie or cheat on them. So why do women settle for guys who lie and cheat and are real asses.? They are wasting their time with a creep and miss out on a good guy?

2007-11-08 14:32:44 · 42 answers · asked by ♥ ♥ C.J. ♥ ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

How do you get over someone who has hurt you deeply?
took you for granted
and would have no problem hurting you again
Even though you got your revenge (didn't even really mean to, he caused it to happen for himself (dumb *** but koodoes for me))
It's been about a month since I got my revenge. (Again I didn't even plan it. Just kind of happened) and every now and then i am reminded of the pain that he caused me.

I want to get over it but i cant
I'm still angry at myself for trusting him when he didn't deserve it.

how do i get over it?

2007-11-08 14:30:57 · 16 answers · asked by . 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Usually guys and girls aren't best friends, but in my case, my best friend ever is a guy. I don't know what I would do without him. We tell eachother everything, and after an incident at homecoming where he danced with and kissed another girl all night, we both came clean. He told me (sincerely, believe me, I can tell) that he really wished he hadn't done that and that he's always liked me a bit, and I told him that I've always liked him a bit as well. But we're so close and open with eachother that this didn't turn into a "relationship". But I'm beginning to be worried that because he's a senior, our chances are running out (I'm only a sophomore). How could I bring up the idea of at least TRYING to go out. I'm afraid that if we don't at least attempt an actual relationship, we may be missing out on something truly meaningful.

2007-11-08 14:28:29 · 2 answers · asked by Tomboy with girly tendencies 4 in Singles & Dating

if a guy asked you out and then a few months later he say that he loves you and you are only 13 what is that suppose to mean?? why do people say it at that age when they really dont know what it Is??

2007-11-08 14:26:59 · 6 answers · asked by heroe 1 in Singles & Dating

well in my language class there is this one guy that sits next to me that has just recently just started to talk to me even though i have been really rude and mean to him he still smiles and talks to me like nothing and is kind of always staring at me does he like me or he just is a cool guy

2007-11-08 14:25:34 · 1 answers · asked by jesdur805 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I were together for almost 2 years. (He is 21 and I am 20). We were each other's first loves and were very close. Towards the end of the relationship, he started to drift away a little bit and became very flirtatious with the girls at his college. I found out that he kissed one of these girls, and I was devastated. He swore that it was mistake, and evetually I forgave him.

The very next day, he tells me that he is unsure of what he wants and is confused. He said he still loved me and always would, but he didn't want to hurt me again and didn't think he was ready for a serious relationship. After this, I cut off all contact with him for about a month.

He contacted me a few days ago, and we've been talking. He says that the time apart really made him realize that he doesn't want anyone else but me. He admitted that he allowed others around him to make him believe that he needed to see what else is out there.

2007-11-08 14:25:26 · 20 answers · asked by HoneyChild 2 in Singles & Dating

Nobody makes fun of me or anything but I always finish my homework and classwork during class with like 25 minutes left of class. It gets very boring and sometimes get in trouble and people are always asking for my help and worst of all some famous private school is accepting me for free because of my academic achievements and my parents are planning to accept it. The problem is that I dont want to go. I heard Its horrible and the punishments are unusually cruel oh yeah it is also 3 hours away from my house so I will have to move and we currently cant find an apartment that allows pets in the area so my dogs will have to go to the shelter. I also wont ever see my friends EVER again. Have any suggestions on how to convince my parents to not move?
I am not willing to just make new friends or just get new dogs.

2007-11-08 14:24:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I desperately want to hire a maid service to dust, vacuum and mop, clean our 2 bathrooms, and wash our dishes--twice a week...but I can't get my husband to agree that it is a good idea. He is convinced that it is a bad idea! He thinks that someone will steal our things, go through our drawers and other paranoid things of such.

I know there is a small chance that it could happen, but I cannot think of any strong points other than the free time we will gain from not having to do these things ourselves. Do you know of any strong points that I can bring up or a way to convince him that this is a great idea?

He wanted me to add to my details that we have guns in our home. Does this change your mind or our situtation? I believe they should be locked in a safe but he is stubborn. (They are all unloaded/hidden with their ammo on a top shelf in our closet and there no children in our home.)

Please help!

2007-11-08 14:23:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you deal with a sibling constantly putting you down, blaming you for all the woes in their life? We are grown adults how can it be my fault what happens in that persons life?

I am sensitive and caring, I don't try to hurt anyone's feelings and when I have an opinion and think it is right I stand by it. If it goes against this person than I get a mouth full of verbal garbage (abuse) detailing how much of an idiot I am and it just escalates.

Can a person harden their heart, I just want to get along what do I have to do to have peace? I feel like I am getting repeated stabs in the heart whenever I get hurt from what this heartless abusive person says to me.

What should I do with Christmas coming up and knowing this person predicts it will be bad because of me there. I can't take it anymore.

Christmas was the best holiday we all get together now I am willing to let it all go just for some peace.

2007-11-08 14:21:37 · 29 answers · asked by Vash 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

So I'm 15 and in high school and your regular A-B student. But ever since about 7 or 8th grade I have changed for the worse. I have resorted to being mean and very blunt to people. I just want to learn how to be nice to people and stuff. I mean I have a lot of friends and all but I'm even mean to them but in a joking way. I am respecftul and all but I just want to be that girl that everyone loves and stuff. And is being blunt a bad trait to have? Its recently gotten worse and worse and I think its why I don't have a boyfriend. The real reason why I'm so mean is because I'm so shy otherwise. I'll talk to my friends but in person and phone it is so hard to start up a convo unless another friend is there and then I'll just put in my 2 cents. So please can someone help me become my own person and become nicer and friendlier and just a better person overall?

2007-11-08 14:18:56 · 2 answers · asked by girl.with.a.plan. 5 in Friends

She is a 5 yr old stuck in a 14 yr old body who thinks she is 18. She lies, she manipulates, steals and on top of that gets away with everything because my dad works too much (he has to cuz of his business) and my mom just got out of the hospital from a sever asthma attack and if she has another she won't even make it to the hospital.

Kasey is really out of control and does whatever the hell she wants. My parents know how bad she is but they can't talk to her since she doesn't get what the say and they can't punish her cuz she can't connect the punishment to what she did wrong. She thinks its just abuse.

HOW do i get my sister to shut up and stop her nagging my mom so she doesn't kill my mom?

We can't afford any kind of help since the hospital bills are HUGE.

I really want to do something i just don't know what i can do to help. Any suggestions? PLEASE?

2007-11-08 14:18:17 · 26 answers · asked by CC 3 in Family

my cousin is 23 (going on 24) and he is driving his parents nuts;he has spent the last six years bouncing around from one community college to the next basically wasting time;he has no job and lives with/off his parents;he spends money like its nothing: he has gone through four cars, all of which were fixed up and thousands of dollars went into them; he just bought a motorcycle too;every other weekend he's out on a trip either to vegas, or lake havasu or big bear...he has broken his shoulder, arm, wrist, ankle, foot and four toes multiple times and has gotten surgery for all of them repeatedly;we all are pretty sure he's on drugs and is involved in drugdealing;he gets into fights with people all the time and has been arrested in the past for cussing out cops;he has numerous speeding tickets and accidents on his record;hes stubborn and wont listen;he says he plans on going to law school but we all know that is never going to happen.so the question is:
What to do with a guy like this??

2007-11-08 14:16:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This guy has been acting like a bastard. I don't know if you can see why?!......After a great, interesting conversation we had nearly 2 weeks ago, I texted him saying "If you knew I wasn't sleeping with anyone else, would you stop sleeping around?" This question was asked cuz we're having an open relationship with living 1 1/2 hours away from each other. The question was aimed at finding out where I stood, I didn't get a reply. And hour later, I texted saying "I guess you don't give a **** either way". Still no reply. A few days later, saw him on MSN messenger and said "Sorry bout those texts the other night" I didn't get a response. A few nights after that, I tried calling and got no answer, he didn't even bother calling back. The thing is tho, a few hours later when I was online, he came online - maybe it was to rub it in my face. I decided I had enough and texted him later on that day saying "Have I done something wrong cuz tried calling earlier, if you're in love wit someone tell..

2007-11-08 14:15:45 · 27 answers · asked by Nikita 1 in Singles & Dating

"I love him/her but I'm not IN love with him/her."
"I love my parents/siblings/children/friends."
"I love that dress/breakfast/movie; pursuit."

"It; wasn't; sex; it; was; making; love."
"They; don't; love; X,; they're; just; in; love; with; love."

All; the; above; a; comments; oft; heard; but seem; to; reference; different; loves.;
So; WHAT is LOVE?

Can one be in love and not know it, not be and think so, not be and not know?
Must love be exclusive for one recipient only (ever or at a time)?
Why does maternal love for children transcend love for spouse with and for whom the children were created as evidence of love for their partner?

Define love.......

(I don't love Yahoo's random insertion of semi-colons every time the space-bar is used......at least I don't think I do.)

2007-11-08 14:15:11 · 5 answers · asked by malancam55 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Can I send them with reverse charges?

2007-11-08 14:14:43 · 9 answers · asked by plasticcanvascrazy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay I am 21 and I know I can do anything I want to do with my life but I don't want my overcontrolling mother to hate me for the rest of my life I Love her with all my heart and I am always going to be their for her no matter what. So here's the deal, me and boyfriend of 3 Years broke up over the summer and she has been on a really bad "I hate him" spree since then and she just won't let it go; well here lately he and I have started speaking to each other again and we have become friends again and I know he still really loves and cares for me whole heartedly and I still feel the same about him and I know he would do any thing for me I would do any thing for him and we both are really missing each other but my mom doesn't know we are talking and that we have even seen each other a few times and We would like to get back together and give it a second try so how can I tell her in a way that won't make her hate me or not want to have any thing to do with me because I really want her suprt

2007-11-08 14:13:31 · 7 answers · asked by angel_marie_1986 2 in Family

I used to pass her by in the hall alot of times and we used to look at eachother (a quick glance)

First time I talked to her, it was awesome, she was smiling, I was smiling and she looked downstairs (you know...not lying)

I had her for summerschool and I was close to where she was sitting for the first week, but then I moved to the other side of class...THERE IS NOBODY THERE THAT SHE KNOWS!!! and she sits there all alone

Also, when I'm in a circle with my friends she comes in...

Alot of guys like her and says she's hot, I'm a funny guy and alot of people like me, but I can only make people laugh and have a good time, I'm not buff, girls just say I'm cute

Does she like me...

2007-11-08 14:10:44 · 31 answers · asked by ferrisdidit 4 in Singles & Dating

My parents are getting divorced and i don't have a clue about what to do. My mom is moving out and I don't know anything anymore. Please help!!!! I no I am not being specific but please help anyway!!!!!

2007-11-08 14:10:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my bf... or EX bf was running a rather high fever of 38.9 degree C on the day i've long agreed to meet up with my girlies in the evening to celebrate one of their 21st birthday. in the early afternoon, my bf texted me while going to the doctor and we continued to communicate via text messages as i was in my class. however, the text messaging service suddenly went haywire and 3 of his messages didnt get through to me until more than half an hour later. he got pissed over this and accused me of switching off my phone while lunching with guys when i was just eating lunch with one of my gal pal in uni. and he threatened to break up over that. i was naturally pissed with him for doing such a thing to me and so i ignored him until a few hours later, i texted him again twice in the late afternoon which he ignored completely. and i texted him once more at night while i was on the way home after dinner with my friends. and he blew up. he accused me of not caring about him and didnt text or call

2007-11-08 14:09:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone know of the best Illinois Online Divorce website? There are so many. How do I chose which one for an uncontested divorce?

2007-11-08 14:08:42 · 5 answers · asked by Nunya 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married for 30+yrs and he has discovered going to strip clubs....Of course, this takes money....its not cheap, but then he thinks I shouldn't be upset and I really don't know if I should be upset. I am upset...like now I am sitting here asking you this question and he left to go there....I am not getting any younger and I want to be happy.....What are your thoughts?

2007-11-08 14:08:42 · 22 answers · asked by Annie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think my girlfriend is cheating on my with other girls. I know, random and stupid and vage, just help me out.

2007-11-08 14:08:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats your favorite book by these authors ? Why is it your favorite book? Any books you would like to recommend ?

Thanks in advance!

2007-11-08 14:08:06 · 7 answers · asked by Tru_New Orleanian 4 in Marriage & Divorce

well, we just found out she's pregnant a couple days ago according to her doctor. we're both 18, freshman in college.. and it couldnt be worse timing, meaning it was unplanned.
she's really scared right now and i am too. And i'm just trying to figure out what i should do! she hasnt been really talking to me a whole lot.. and i dont want her to think she's a burden or anything
so, do i give her space? or try to talk with her? or, any ideas..

2007-11-08 14:06:57 · 31 answers · asked by K.B. 1 in Singles & Dating

5 physical

5 non physical!

2007-11-08 14:05:48 · 4 answers · asked by french fry 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend had thsi boyfriend that broke up with her and she found out he was cheating on her and now hes going out with a different girl not even the one he cheated on her with and i dont know if she can handle this because shes talking of suicide. and i know her well enough to think she wont do it but its suicide prevention week at my school this week and i guess it just got me freaked. help?

2007-11-08 14:03:33 · 9 answers · asked by kar kar 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 14:03:11 · 26 answers · asked by finally solo35 1 in Marriage & Divorce