women are always saying they want to meet mr right......?

Question

someone kind, funny, romantic, respectful and does not lie or cheat on them. So why do women settle for guys who lie and cheat and are real asses.? They are wasting their time with a creep and miss out on a good guy?

Answer 1

Some girls think it is too impossible for them that's why. Also we can't expect to find a guy like that if we don't work on ourselves as well. We can't be bitter, a cheater, super frigid, etc and expect Mr. Right to be happy to have met us. Also, from my own experience, I was in an abusive relationship which was my very first one for seven years. I married Mr. Right and I know that if I hadn't gotten through that bad relationship, Mr. Right would've slipped right through my fingers.

Answer 2

Because Mr. Right does the nice thing and will not take them to that Wild Side that tho so frequently want to dance with!

They like the danger/excitement/drama and then they wonder why they are getting cheated on and beat on...

So the call the Nice guy that listens and understands and is there for them - Only to return to Mr. Jerk when he says sorry!

Keep the Sweet - Drop the Dead Beat

Answer 3

First, i should think, that a "worldly" enough person would know exactly what to do in such situations. Secondly, are hetrosexual and gay relationships the only ones you've ever heard of ?? Thirdly, there are many ways/forms to/of sexual gratification, that are different or don't necessarily get preformed the same as straights or walkies. (your question tells me you won't understand that last reference, but it's no mistake). There's more to relationships, ppl, sex and the world, than you realise! I'm wise enough to have seen/know myself, that "NO ONE" gets to have it all, wheather it's him, you, me or anyone else who exists, on this planet anyway. The soul, my friend, is not of this world and craves so much more than the physical can give. The day will come, when you understand. In the mean time, i have known 3 guys in said situation, never stopped them from marrying, having kids and being happy.

Answer 4

The classic answer to that is that they settle for Mr. Right Now instead of Mr. Right. They have a choice between someone that is available that is not perfect, and a perfect person that is not available. It is tough to pass up the sure thing for a chance at a better outcome.

Answer 5

Honestly, I think alot of girls set their expectations too high, a perfect knight in shining armor...although, alot of girls are also insecure about themselves the truth is although they want a great guy they think that whatever they have is the best they can do, especially if they have had a string of jerks as boyfriends so they compromise and either think they can change him once they are married (which rarely happens) or escape to romantic novels and movies still dreaming of being Cinderella...that's the truth imho

Answer 6

i think sometimes women just want to have the feeling that someone is there for them, they pick too soon when they don't really know how the guy is yet. I'm 18 and I made the mistake of going out with someone who is a flirt and doesn't admit he's in a relationship. such a jerk, I haven't broken up with him yet but i will the next time we hang out. we've only been together for a month and i already feel like this lol.

getting off topic...but yeah, women get trick, it's hard to predict how the guy is going to be like when you like him and thinks he like you too..sucks eh?

Answer 7

I'm an expert on that question.

From what I know, in the beginning the guy isn't always a jerk until he shows it after being around him awhile. Also, like for me, I didn't think I'd meet anyone else so I just "settled" for the second husband, then I got used to his quirky ways and for awhile we just "molded" like that!

For me, it's hard to find a "good" guy and how would one spot one of "them", anyway??????

Answer 8

I think the woman u r talking about are affraid to be alone and they will not leave someone because of this. It is sad but true. Most will put up with allot before they decide to move on. They should really look at respecting and loving them self before they can find someone to truely love.

Answer 9

Because when in comes right down to it, women don't believe we "DESERVE" the man we consider "Mr. Right", so we punish ourselves with "Mr. Wrong-and-then-some"!

Or maybe it's just our base animal instincts taking over! I figure if I can gain something positive, within myself, from each relationship, eventually the better person that I've become will connect with the better person that "he's" become! Positive thinking, you know?!

Answer 10

Because they are desperate and they see and hear what they want to, instead of what's actually there, and make up excuses for why "Mr. Right" was seen in close company with another female that was not her. Usually, they blame themselves and try to improve upon themselves, until they hopefully realize that it isn't them, it's the guy.