Ummm talk to her about it...
2007-11-08 14:10:27
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answered by 1080 6
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Firstly,why do you think this? also you need to ask yourself is there any chance that you've been cheating on her?I assume you're young and your young girlfriend may very well be exploring.Though for her to be cheating on you with another women is a bit disgusting.Many of sick and twisted people may actually thinks that this would be a bonus,"Right on invite them both over" I guess your question is vague but it is never stupid.If you're sincere about your question and what to do about it,then I would be happy to throw my two cents in.Not many people ever ask for my advise so I guess that's why I really like this site.Anyways, you need to ask her if she is,and tell her why you think so.My experience is that for myself I've never not cheated on my girlfriend though it was never with another of my own gender.Buts here's the point .Firstly, are you having sex with your girlfriend? If so than you are the one teaching her how to do things that are Immoral.The teachings of the Bible suggest we should wait until we are married before engaging in sexual intercourse and there are many valid reasons why.So if she's cheating on you than either work it out and forgive her and stop teaching her how to do wrong, assuming you are,or dump her and tell her that you would prefer not to have a lesbian as a girlfriend and move on,always remembering that it is a woman of virtue that you seek and that starts with you my friend.
2007-11-08 23:20:49
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answered by Gabriel 4
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ok first off if you spy it will just make her mad when you confront her...you should have an open relationship and be able to talk about these things, so just ask her and remember to be calm don't acuse her of anything before you know the facts or you may regret it.
Good luck and hope things work out for you! ;-)
2007-11-08 22:14:39
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answered by Mary 1
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If your really worried, have a person that she does not know spy on her, and get back to you with pics, or you can tell her your going out of town and go stay with a friend until she thinks the coast is clear, then catch her yourself.
2007-11-08 22:12:54
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answered by tiny 3
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Nothing like the direct approach, I always say. Then If she says no (maybe she'll admit it, wouldn't that be a hoot), leave it alone..If you actually catch her at some later time, remind her of the lie, and get another girlfriend
2007-11-08 22:15:32
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answered by angels_angelsarehere 6
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If you think your girl friend is cheating with other girls and this disturbs you and questions your manhood look for another girl. Insecurity is not a soothing situation.
2007-11-08 22:13:05
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answered by googie 7
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ask her? be honest with her and straight out about your feelings. Some guys wouldn't consider it cheating whilst some would.
2007-11-08 22:10:20
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answered by Anonymous
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Ask around, maybe spy a little. And then confront her, it would be pretty embarassing to confront her, and have nothing going on.
2007-11-08 22:10:50
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answered by pavuman 2
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Well if she is that would obviously mean she is bi-sexual.. Did you not know this before you began dating her? You must make a choice, either deal with it, or leave her alone...God bless****
2007-11-08 22:11:37
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answered by ? 7
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first.. do you have good reason to suspect it?
going through her text messages is not a reason, that's invasion of privacy. snooping will not go down good, but if you honestly think there's something there, talk to her.
2007-11-08 22:11:32
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answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6
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if she all sudden act weired and not wanting to spend time with u and not wanting to do anything then i would say something was going on
2007-11-08 22:14:54
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answered by maddoxsamantha 1
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