ok, we started to date a week ago. were both almost 15. well he's not like every guy. he takes medicine for problems like rage, depression, and stuff. he's only had one other girl friend and they did everything but sex. im reli shy and wont go past kissing and hugging and i told him and he says thats fine. he cares alot about me, and i care alot about him. we've liked each other for about a year. im just wonderin if i should still date him? i mean he hasnt done anything wrong and things are fine but i just wanna get ur opinions. thanks
2007-11-08 14:37:42 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whether or not he seems emotionally stable, I think you should always be there for support him.
I'm very glad you both have a meaninful relationship that doesn't include sex. I'm glad you two are waiting until marriage [hopefully.]
Although I disagree with your age, you two are far too young to get into relationships, this boy doesn't seem to be such a bad guy.
Give it more time, and see how things go. If you two get along, love each other, then keep dating. There's nothing wrong with being there for each other.
2007-11-08 14:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be very careful. Things will seem fine, because you are both on your best behavior, You want to like each other. Besides meds is he in therapy for his rage. One day he may become angry and in that moment he could seriously hurt you. Not only is there the possibility of physical abuse but also emotional abuse. Some signs are trying to controlling what you do, who you see and talk to, name calling, puts down you friends or family, making you feel guilty. Check out www.familyviolence.ca
I wish you peace and good luck.
2007-11-08 22:55:55 · answer #2 · answered by Risha B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it odd that all but one guy say no and all the girls say yes. I say it is up to you. You know if you like him or not. We all have our issues. At 15 be good friends. It is important that he keeps seeing a doctor but I feel that if it is a chemical imbalance that causes this and not an environmental issue where he's learned to be this way because he watched his father get abusive then you can be good for each other.
If he is constantly alienated because of his medical condition, which he may have no control over other than to take the medication that helps, he may become worse and then become a problem to you and or society.
2007-11-08 22:50:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anorwen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"he takes medicine for problems like rage, depression, and stuff"
You haven't said if this is a problem. You said you wont go past kissing and he said that's fine. What's the problem? Is he abusive? Does he pressure you? Are you simply worried he'll pressure you later? At 15, sex is the least of your worries. You don't want kids or diseases at this age, so have fun. If he pressures you or makes your life harder, let him go.
2007-11-08 22:40:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a year is cool but rage and deprsession should worry you but if nothing has happen it is your call but ask your self are you happy with it because if not move on you are young and there is a lot out there that will also make you happy. It is about you if you are no happy or not in love any more go get happy
2007-11-08 22:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by Alayna A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If things are going fine and you enjoy his company then keep on dating but if he shows you "ANY" signs that he is going to do anything that will hurt you physically or even emotionally then it would be time to get out of the relationship......Good Luck
2007-11-08 22:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by vickie b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your fine. Everyone has problems in his life. If you both like each other then go for it. But if he gets a little crazy, then break it off before it gets too serious.
2007-11-08 22:42:10 · answer #7 · answered by Vanessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently you dn't love him do you? well seems if you are asking what to do then i would not go with him. well the thing is if you dont' want sex till you are married so be it and he has left that alone.b ut remember you are considered jail bate until 16 maybe that is what hes waiting for. then you can not gt it for rape they say. so i am not sure what you are looking for if you really love him stay with him things are good? i am not sure what you are looking for at this stage.
2007-11-08 22:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends. At 15 you don't need to make out.
2007-11-08 22:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by ASK ME AND I'LL TELL YOU 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take this seriously. I don't think you should date him. It'll turn out bad. You should avoid being hurt. IT may of course sound good now but, be careful.
2007-11-08 22:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by metroidlover22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋