Family & Relationships - 8 November 2007

My Fi's uncle is a Decan and we want him to marry us, just not sure if he is "qualified" before we ask him!

THanks

2007-11-08 01:31:48 · 21 answers · asked by N!C!MAR!E 1 in Weddings

2007-11-08 01:29:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I JUST WANTED TO NO WHAT YOU THINK

2007-11-08 01:24:05 · 7 answers · asked by Joy D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so you know how they seem to have online dating sites for just about every group of people? Do they have dating sites for psychopaths? Just wonderinggggggg....

2007-11-08 01:21:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

by that I mean what makes that person so special that they chose to show them off to the world and their friends/families. And if they really love them why do they cheat on them and if they don't love them why don't they find a new one that they can be faithfull to?

2007-11-08 01:20:41 · 17 answers · asked by honey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He got really depressed when I broke up with him after I found out. He stopped going to work for a week, he showed up at my job unexpectedly everyday.....he called me at least 100 times telling me how sorry he was, he didn't eat or sleep. He cried.... he says that after he cheated on me he felt so bad and ashamed, and it made him realize how much he really loved me. Opinions?

2007-11-08 01:17:48 · 35 answers · asked by ♥вєαυтι♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Please read my last question, before answering this one!!!They are connected.....I've been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months and he wants to marry me...if you can recall from my last questions, he wouldn't say what he felt or exprees his feelings, but instead acted them out...now he wants to go full throttle...he wants to get married...He's really does look out for me and seeks out my best interest and I'm so grateful to have him in my life....I am ready, but I don't think my parents are. I'm a Muslim and he's not..he doesn't believe in any religion..they will freak out when they find out...His mother is also Muslim but..***..he's getting a house by the end of the year for us to move into and basically start life together....I don't know....my parents are going to...OMG!!!!!please help.....

2007-11-08 01:17:40 · 11 answers · asked by gemimibeauty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does a spouse or significant other have the right to say no or did they give that right up when they got involved.

2007-11-08 01:15:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how can you tell if someone is being cold with you deliberately? are there signs that help to clarify whether its just you being paranoid or really happening?

2007-11-08 01:10:59 · 5 answers · asked by susieboo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

The facts:
We haven't found a venue or put down deposits, we are just looking so we still have alot of options.
Our list is pushing 250 and the chances are good that we would have about 175-200 attendees.
We could go for a larger venue and not cut the list, but that means a standard catering hall that has multiple events per day (some simultaneous).
We are leaning towards two really beautiful settings - renting a mansion or a playhouse. So opting for the bigger venue would mean alot more decorating costs as the mansion & playhouse both have a great look that could stand alone without decorating as heavily. We'd also have to pay to feed more people.
We are starting to separate the guest list into priority and try to cut the "& Guest" to see how low we can get. We still might not get to under 150 attendees that way.
So, what are your thoughts? Start looking for a bigger venue or just start hacking the list?

2007-11-08 01:10:58 · 6 answers · asked by nova_queen_28 7 in Weddings

Does anyone know the percent of people that I should expect to show up for a wedding. Like if I invite 100 I should plan on 75?

2007-11-08 01:09:33 · 18 answers · asked by ani_tori 1 in Weddings

Just recently I talked to one of my brother-in-law's best friends, who is also a friend of mine (lets call him "Jack"). He told me that my brother-in-law is cheating on my sister. Eventhough I had promised "Jack" that I wouldnt say anything because it was my brother-in-laws responsibility, I need to tell her because it hurts me to know this. (He has cheated on her with several other females and this is why I need to tell her because of her health.) "Jack" now begs me not to involve him, (and I told him I wouldnt). How should I tell my sister? We do not live on the same town and if I just tell her straight up, she WILL know that "Jack" told me because he is the only one I keep in contact with. How should I tell her?

2007-11-08 01:08:32 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How can she convince her husband to allow her to keep the money she earned?

2007-11-08 01:07:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

at the end of my shift, my manager always counts my till to see how much money is there compared to the start. today, it was down $20 and my manager is really tight on money and how much the store makes. well i wasnt sure if he believed me or not that i didnt take it ( i didnt take any money. i wouldnt in my whole life steal money) so i was like "check my pockets" jokingly. and he said that once a girl said that to him and she actually did that the money. so then i said literally check my pockets then. he didnt check then so i was like "ok". we were kinda laughing about it and being serious; i dont know what my manager was thinking. before i was about to go, he brought up the subject of the money again so i took the stuff out of my pockets (which was my payslip, a coupon and $5) and they started to joke that i took $5 from the till instead. they were laughing this time so i assumed they were joking but then i wanted to buy two burgers and he said "ok, give me the $5, to make up for

2007-11-08 01:06:57 · 1 answers · asked by My Name Is Trip 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband came back to me because he was angry at me naging and being cranky. I begged him to come back, and he did. He loves me but he gets very angry when I start being mean when I get my period ot I am tired. We are married fo 14 years. When he came back he bought himself a car (26K) and I guess he felt he needed it for work. I made him buy me a diamond ring (he never got me an engagemment ring) 5.5 karats (40K). I tought it will make him stay, and made me feel good. He is very attentive and he is trying very hard. I feel bad because I made him come back and now I am so angry at him for leaving me that I can't even have sex with him. He is patient with me, but I am afraid he will leave eventually. I am trying not to be short with him but I can't help it some times.
He also knows that I had sex with a man when he was gone, and he understands. I am going to therapy now, but I am affraid I will never get the feeling I had for him of passion . Will it ever come back?

2007-11-08 01:06:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine is getting really anxious about still being single...family pressure more than from friends... I recommend staying single until 100% totally sure.

But what side of the debate would you lean to? Being aware that if you get married you can inherit but if you stay single inheritance will pass down to the younger siblings, as in the case of my friend. Any divorce would result in the same action no pay out!

2007-11-08 01:06:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it true that if you fight or nag constantly with your fiance or spouse they lose sexual interest in you or is this just an excuse??

2007-11-08 01:05:41 · 15 answers · asked by gracey 6 in Marriage & Divorce

When a male hits his girlfriend people say she has every right to hit him back but when a woman hits her boyfriend in the face first people only think of the female even if she's in the wrong. I feel he has every right just like her to slap his girlfriend right back.

2007-11-08 01:04:34 · 13 answers · asked by Little Sammy Sam 3 in Family

I have had a few boyfriends in the past, and they all just wanted a bit of fun. Now I'm ready for a serious relationship, and I can't find anyone interested. were should I go?

2007-11-08 01:00:27 · 31 answers · asked by david j 1 in Singles & Dating

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some people tell me i look like something between penelope cruz & salma haike and nicole from the pussy cat dolls [ i dun think so ]
haha what do u think its gettin annoying att imes cuz i think i look like myself but even my mom said i do kinda look like em ?

2007-11-08 00:59:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I realize that I did hurt him very much (I did not cheat!). I want to make things work. I still love him and he says he still loves me. I'm in counselling. We see each other once a week and speak on the phone almost every day. I thought we were getting somewhere when suddenly he's saying that he needs to heal his wound on his own and suggested I do the same. I don't understand, we're happy when we see other and talk about how we both feel and try to understand what exactly happened. Yet, he now is telling me that he needs to think about himself first, then us? I don't understand, he was the one who suggested I seek counselling to get some answers. He also suggested that we keep in touch so as to try to work things out...

2007-11-08 00:58:27 · 9 answers · asked by MEL X 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 00:53:20 · 4 answers · asked by nwmn16 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

A friendly, but not supportive father. He is 'concerned' alot for my choices... which are not abnormal at all. He will comment until I am feeling second guessing myself. He seems content with our relationship, but it drags me down. In the past I have brought it up and I feel that I am causes problems in the relationship whenver I bring it up. I have not said anything for a year or so.Than I decided that I would not tolerate him dragging me down anymore.I told him that I will tell him off any time that he makes a comment that is not supportive. I told him in an email as emotional topics are 'just not talked about'. He was abusive when I was a child. He is not anymore, but I am sensitive to him now. So he has to stop questioning my decisions. I told him I was angry with him. He was confused as he thought he was just being 'open' with me. And I felt like a heel for saying anything. Should I have just not said anything?

2007-11-08 00:50:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Sometimes it comes out of nowhere and I try not to take it personally but sometimes it shocks me as I don't know where her sudden anger comes from and it is always over something small. When I try to help/respond (probably being too nice at times) by saying "why didn't you tell me before I would have done it" as she gets quite angry and she'll still be rude and say "I'm telling you now!" and I feel like I've said the wrong thing. How would you respond to someone like this? Another time I could just come home and she'll be in and I casually ask "not at work today?" and she'll get arsey and say "does it look like it" or if I ask something and she has already told me but I forgot she gets arsey saying "I told you already" at times she is nice but I feel like I am walking on eggshells in my own home. What should I do to sort this out? Help! Thanks

2007-11-08 00:43:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

One day he is complaing oh she always made more money, because he's a cop and she was a pharmacist. Then he'll seem so bitter he has nothing now.He seems to miss his old life a lot. Why would you divorce if you still love the other person. He says they only divorced because her mom was causing them a lot ofproblems. Whole story bothers me.

2007-11-08 00:42:19 · 14 answers · asked by Dani 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He does not listen but he is very smart. He knows what he does is bad and that he will get in trouble. So things he does is gets in the fridge and breaks all the eggs, pours drinks in the sink and he might ask me for chocolate milk and I say no so he gets the syrup out and pours it on the floor. He puts rolls of TP in the toilet, puts toothpast in the toilet or where ever, breaks stuff on purpose, ect. What can I do?

2007-11-08 00:41:45 · 20 answers · asked by lilac27 2 in Family

My fiance and I are having our photos retaken on Saturday.
I'm hoping the photographer will pose us...my fiance and I are a bigger couple and the last photographer didn't pose us...and we had some pretty bad pictures...we told her we didn't like them and she flipped out on us (we were NOT rude to her) she wouldn't retake them...she called me and my fiance fat and wrote a bunch of nasty things about us on her myspace blog (she was forced to take them down)...

We found a GREAT photographer she's done great work, but Jason and I are still a little nervous as we were burned pretty bad...so i mean, what are some good poses for some bigger people? He's also 6 foot and im 5'2''

2007-11-08 00:38:37 · 16 answers · asked by ? 5 in Weddings

HE IS WITH SOMEONE, AND HE SEEMS TO BE HAPPY. I HAVE TRIED TO MOVE ON, BUT I JUST CANT. ANYONE ELSE KNOW HOW I FEEL?

2007-11-08 00:27:59 · 5 answers · asked by Sherry S 1 in Family

my mom has been cheating on my dad now for 8 months and ive known about it for 3 months... Me and my Real dad dont get along at all... But me and my moms boyfriend do. i'm not suppose to tell anyone there together or else he'll lose his 2 kids and i dont want that to happen. Him and his wife are suppose to be gettin a divorce and so are my parents but i just cant keep this secret in any longer... What should i do?

2007-11-08 00:25:10 · 17 answers · asked by ford_girl<3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and this guy met on a cruise. we had sex twice, and acted like bf and gf. after the cruise he contacted me right away on myspace.
we didnt talk constantly..but after awhile he wasnt contacting me and i got nervous. i wrote him a message on myspace basically
saying that if he doesnt write back, he doesnt want any part of me..and he wrote back. i surprised visited him a few months after
the cruise, and he was really happy. he kissed me on the lips goodbye, we were only there for about 20 minutes. it was weird bc
i already decided i was going to college near where he lives in a year before the cruise. between the cruise and college we saw
eachother twice, once the surprise visit, and the other time we hung out and talked the entire time..NO SEX. we had a convo
about whether or not he was using me on the cruise or not. he said no he didnt and that he liked me. after that visit, he texted
me right after saying "thanks for coming..cant wait to see you again"..i told him i was glad that we got to talk and he said "i would
never use you" later on i said i was going to bed and i told him to have fun and he said "all my fun left at 12"...which is when i
left. two days later he texts me and were talking about him coming to ny to visit me and we could go to the city..and he said
"way rather see you then the city"..we didnt always talk constantly, but every now and then we did..so basically we were
keeping in touch. the third time we were supposed to hang out , he messed up plans...and i was down near where he lived and
staying at a hotel. he called me and got a cab and told me he was coming to see me..and it doesnt matter how much it costs
he just wanted to see me..but i told him he messed up plans in the first place, and it was too late so there was no point in coming.
5 days later, he mustered up the confidence to call me and apologize for when he messed up plans. he told me to tell him the
next time i was coming down, and he said "lets keep this long distance relationship going"..but we werent in an ldr. this past
august, i came to college near where he lives, a whole year since the cruise. we had kept in contact for one year..and now were 15
minutes away. weve hung out 6 times since ive been here. the first time he just stopped by with his friend and his friend said
that the guy i like wanted to see his girl..meaning me. we didnt have sex, we just talked. he texted me after the visit and said
it was nice seeing u tonight. i told him i was sorry he didnt stay longer and he said he would have loved to, but he didnt want
my suitemates to hate him for being there so late when we have classes the next day. and he said "just wanted to see you." the
second time he came to visit he came to lay with me. we layed together and talked the whole time, and then did stuff, but NO SEX.
i asked him why things happen sexually between us and he said because i like you and you like me. and i said as more than a friend?
and he was like..yeah i like you as more than a friend. and i said..so u didnt come here for sex..and he said..i didnt even bring a condom
so i didnt even have intentions..and we didnt have sex. he then left and gave me a huge hug and a kiss on the lips, and he was a little
offended because he said "why do you have to make me out to be such an asshole."..but he wasnt mad at me, just a little upset.
the next time we hung out we just layed and talked with eachother..NO SEX. i went over there, and it took me awhile to get there
and he called me 4 TIMES..to make sure i wasnt lying to him..and was really coming. he even offered to pay for my cab, and drove me home the next day
and then the 4th time we layed together and talked again..NO SEX. the 5th time we hung out..we actually did have sex..and
he asked me if i was alright..and if it felt good, and we climaxed at the same time. it was really intimate. the 6th time we hung out
he got high, drank, and popped pills. he wasnt himself..he was still sweet to me but he was avoiding me. i asked him what was going
on and he said he wasnt mad at me. and i said..well why are you avoiding me..and he said i wasnt. i said..listen do you like me
and he said..of course i do..its obvious i do. and he said..i just dont want a gf right now..and i think you ask a lot of questions.
i was like..i know i do..except when youre acting weird..i have a reason to act. so i was like well do u like me as more than a friend
and he was confused. i said well why did we have sex the other night..and he was like idk. he was so confused and so out of it.
so he leaves and i get a text from his friend pretending to be the guy i like saying..i had to leave cause i think youre friend is hott.
i called..and the friend answered and was like..we just hooked up..i want your friend. and they came back and the guy i like was
like i didnt say any of that..that wasnt me. so the guy i like was like lets talk in the kitchen..and the friend follows us? and the friend
got involved and pulled me aside and was like..listen he told me the gist..youre friends..he likes hanging out with you..but he
doesnt want a relationship..u hooked up on the cruise what did u think it was ? and i said..how dare you..you dont even know
the story..we didnt just hook up on the cruise. and he was like well idk. so they leave again and the friend calls me saying..the guy
you like is ****** up..call him when hes sober so you can talk..so i was like whatever. then later i get a text from the guy i likes
phone and his friend is texting me saying..the guy you like is passed out..but he likes your friend..can she hang right now? im awake..
and hes telling me yes the guy u like likes ur friend..send the digits over but dont tell him i was on his phone. i was thinking..if the
guy i like wants my friends number..why would he be mad that you were on his phone...wouldnt you just be doing him a favor?

ps. the guy i like was in a 5 year relationship with a girl who cheated on him and got pregnant with another guys kid.
his friends influence him a lot..and when we were hanging out this last hang out he was talking about how he knows a lot of pocketbook
brands bc he would buy them for his ex gf..and he "knows how girls are"..and i think that triggered the way he was acting weird.

and his myspace song is look after you by the fray and his title says "any reason why you would want to date me"
and we havent spoken in 3 weeks..and now his song is i dont wanna be in love. and now his title says " this way is a waterslide away from you"


1. does he like me as more than a friend?
2. is he using me?
3. what does his myspace title and songs mean?
4. did i pressure him or push him away?
5. will he ever talk to me again or want to see me?
6. do you think hes still in love with his ex gf?
7. why hasnt he been contacting me?
8. why is he hooking up with some girl right now?
9. do you think hell stop liking me, and his feelings will just randomly stop for me?

2007-11-08 00:24:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating