why do some women show aversion to fellatio?

Answer 1

There are any number of reasons why a woman might have an aversion to fellatio- many of which have to do with inaccurate messages that women receive and internalize while growing up. A few examples are: that it's disgusting or dirty, that men who enjoy it are using/disrespecting women, that it's only something that bad girls do, and so on....

Some women also might associate fellatio with negative experiences. Others underestimate the importance of fellatio. And, of course, there are women who simply don't like the taste.

If your partner has an aversion to fellatio, try to be patient. Delicately inquire as to why she has this aversion. Finding out what the problem is is the first step towards discovering the solution. If the problem is inaccurate internalized messages, lovingly debunk them. This can be achieved by explaining why they're false and by reading various books and articles together which disprove myths regarding fellatio. Patiently explain that your intentions are not to use or disrespect her. And further explain why fellatio is important to you- that your penis is the most sensitive and vulnerable part of your body and that your identity is strongly associated with it, that oral sex would make you feel even more loved and accepted and that you feel rejected when she refuses it, and that your semen is like a precious gift that you want to only give to her.

Let her know that you want nothing more than to reciprocate by devouring HER as well. Offer to do whatever it takes to make her feel more comfortable. Make sure she knows that you're fresh and clean. And, if it's the flavor that's distasteful to her, you could politely and lovingly make any of the following suggestions: Offer to make her some hot & tasty tea prior to playtime. Suggest that she suck on a breath mint while performing. Or offer to coat your penis with something flavorful (such as edible lotion or syrup).

Assure your lady that she is loved, respected, and appreciated both during AND after the act. While you're in her mouth, let her know how much you're enjoying yourself. Show her your satisfaction, and make sure she knows when she does something that you especially like. Moan and tell her how good she feels. Make her feel special by gently caressing her face, stroking her hair, and by telling her how much you care for her and appreciate her loving kisses and sucks. Tell her to look into your eyes so she can see the gratitude and pleasure in your face.

Some women are much more reluctant than others. And, if a woman is inexperienced, it's highly likely that she won't provide the most pleasurable experience for you. So being patient is a must. Tell her what you like and guide her. And one of the most important things to remember is that being attentive to your woman's body and mind will enhance her experience and make her feel cherished, appreciated, desired, and special. An emotionally and sexually fulfilled woman makes a much better lover, because, if she's emotionally and sexually fulfilled, she is more likely to offer greater pleasures to you.

Answer 2

First off I am guessing you are not in America or else find a new woman. LOL
But I did have a girl that refused to do it, becuase she was always accusing me of cheating and she would used the line, "I don't know where that has been". So maybe that is going through the head of the women you are meeting.

Answer 3

Tienes razon con eso de man and a woman showing their perverted lust (Holding hands and kissing)..I'm scared Star For You.

Answer 4

the biggest thing is keep hands off her head during the performing of it do not yank her head down on it it gags us just let her do her thing and if you go down on her and she will not for you then stop it even if you like to it is a give and take thing