One day he is complaing oh she always made more money, because he's a cop and she was a pharmacist. Then he'll seem so bitter he has nothing now.He seems to miss his old life a lot. Why would you divorce if you still love the other person. He says they only divorced because her mom was causing them a lot ofproblems. Whole story bothers me.
2007-11-08 00:42:19 · 14 answers · asked by Dani 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And to think he has a job that allows him to carry a gun. Dump him, he has issues.
2007-11-08 00:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It may be that these two people can get back together. You need to step back and give them an opportunity to do so. This happens quite often, where a third party gets in the way of a reconciliation between two people. Just because these people are divorced, it doesn't mean they don't still love one another. Given the opportunity, more couples would probably remarry, once their differences were settled. If you care anything about this man, you might encourage him to see if he and his ex-wife can work things out. You may love him, but if he stills loves her, why stand in the way? Be wise and step back.
2007-11-08 08:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you get divorced… doesn't mean you don't still “love” that person, but it doesn’t necessarily mean they are in love with them. If you had kids, then they will still be part of their lives.
In this case, it sounds like he misses the life he had, not necessarily his ex. but with the things he had. You might want to sit him down and talk to him… but keep in mind; he was married so his ex will come up from time to time. So if you can deal with it, stay… if not…
2007-11-08 08:56:15 · answer #3 · answered by kib_edward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dito. There was a problem with the marriage to begin with. I hope you are not married to this guy. And if not please think twice before doing so. He is still very bitter about the whole situaiton and until that stops he will not be happy.
2007-11-08 08:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't waste my time with a man that is holding on to a past relationship....No matter what the reasons for the divorce are....
2007-11-08 08:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let yourself get sucked into this. Cut your losses and find someone who is truly unattached. He may not actually love her, but it sounds like he is angry and bitter. As far as you're concerned, they'd just as soon be the same. You won't win.
2007-11-08 08:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to come out and ask him how he really feels about her before you end up getting hurt,It's better to know now than to keep driving yourself crazy wondering.
Good Luck
2007-11-08 08:48:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He never stop loving his ex-wife. Don't get your feeling to strong for this guy, because he probably will end up back with his ex.
2007-11-08 08:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweaty you don't need to be in this relationship trust me you never want be with man who still has feelings for his ex it will alwasy bother you don't marry him and call it quiet.
2007-11-08 08:48:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the cold shoulder ! He's passing time with u, and definitely not worthy of urself. Get out of this ASAP.
2007-11-12 08:41:53 · answer #10 · answered by T. Chandra Shekhar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sound like he is using u to get over his ex just leave
2007-11-08 09:21:13 · answer #11 · answered by Leyla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋