Family & Relationships - 8 November 2007

2007-11-08 04:07:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 04:03:00 · 14 answers · asked by Miriam R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 04:02:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When you settle down, would you rather be married or just live with a feller? Remember what you promised your mum, always to tell the truth Have a kiss xxxxx

2007-11-08 04:02:15 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I decided to have my (ONLY) Sister as my MOH--it's turning out to be a nightmare....she isn't helpful and is uninvolved. I understand she can't afford to help financially and I didn't expect her to but how about some support? All this stress shouldn't she be there for moral support? I even have to keep reminding her she has a balance on her BM Dress....Ergh! Anyone else going through similar situations?

2007-11-08 04:01:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my husband of four years told me that im getting to emotionally attached. he has been sleeping at our lake house for 4 days. a few months before he left he started acting really weird and suspicious.whenever i talk to him about it he avoids the subject.

*we have a 3yo daughter n two more on the way
(maybe hes feeling smothered?)

2007-11-08 03:59:02 · 14 answers · asked by .i. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi!

I have a gorgeous wedding dress that I do not want to get rid of, but I don't know what else to do with it! I hate to get rid of a dress after paying so much for it and only wearing it once!
Is there any way to keep the dress but turn it into something that could be used or seen?

No smart-a** answers either. I am married to the man I love and wont be using it again as a wedding dress. :-)

Thanks

2007-11-08 03:57:47 · 13 answers · asked by PUREfect Your Skin 5 in Weddings

So as excited as I am to soon be Mrs. Garcia, an army wife, lately as we have been planning the wedding we seem to be bickering alot. not big fights but little ones. I am not questioning if we are meant to be what so ever! So please don't say that. But soon after my wedding my fiancee is going to be deployed to Iraq and also in septemeber we lost our unborn baby to heaven. I am wondering if the stress from planning the wedding, which by the way was pushed early because of his deployment, him leaving, and losing our baby could possibly be causing these small disagreements? Has anyone else experienced this kind of problem when under alot of stress? And what can I do to make things get back to how they used to be? I know I am struggling with post partum depression. But in my heart he is the one. And marrying him is the only thing I have ever been so sure of. Thanks guys!!!

2007-11-08 03:57:45 · 4 answers · asked by ? 6 in Weddings

My husband and her do not get along. He says it is because I am to leniant and she says it is because he is to strict. We fight about it constantly, it has become extremly dysfunctional. I found her things packed in her bedroom today to go to her dads after school. What should I do? I feel like I am caught in the middle. Do I leave my husband in hopes to make my daughter happy, or do I let my daughter stay with her dad in hopes to make the family happy? Her sister is 13 and wants to stay with me. My 13 yr old has got to the point where she doesnt care if the 15 yr old stays here with us or goes to live with their dad. I understand we all have ALOT of issues. Should I leave my husband or let my daughter go to her dads?

2007-11-08 03:57:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She is always upset over anything. Find faults with my husband & chews him off when she is in a bad mood. Accusing & blaming, gets into fizzy fits etc ... demanding, unreasonable.

Her suggestions are plentiful & incessant. She either flat-out commands me to do things her way, or she pretends to be nonchalant about whether or not she is trying to pressure me, but I still feel her push. She tries to dominate my household. She is oblivious to the fact that her backbiting is unwelcome & hazardous.

I can never comprehend her bad-mouthing us to her friends when we hv always tried to meet her deeds, of couse we dont acceed to her all her demands. I can never be good enough, she expects me to be like her, uneducated, only cries when H gets angry & my job is to serve my H fr head to to toe.

I keep attempting to bond with her & her rejection is demoralizing. We hv done whatever we cld to please her (in vain), but i am giving up so as not to get frustrated.

Need advice

2007-11-08 03:44:05 · 17 answers · asked by Sal SR 4 in Family

Christmas is coming and I usually ask for a ring or other jewelery gift from my beloved. I have been looking at black diamonds on-line & find them intriguing - but am not sure about them - after all, they have no real clarity, do they, like a real white diamond? Do they have much value? Has anyone bought a black diamond? If so, what do you think of it - do you like it? Here's the link to one I was looking at - http://www.mysolitaire.com/Jewelry/JewelryDetails/Template4.aspx?refid=Search&Item_ID=5006
Thanks!

2007-11-08 03:43:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok we broke up because he lives too far but when we see each other its like were still together. we still care for each other but, we argue A LOTTTTTT!!!!!!! i dont miss all that arguing i dont know what to do i've been doing good and partying a lot but i still love him

2007-11-08 03:43:15 · 51 answers · asked by 1ST BABY!!!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

The mere thought of it, makes me physically ill? Is this a medical condition, or what? I don't know what to do, since my boyfriend of 5 yrs is saving to buy a ring? Egad.....

2007-11-08 03:31:23 · 40 answers · asked by jefskta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 03:30:57 · 17 answers · asked by Rastaquouère 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got out of a two year relationship. He broke up with me about a month ago. We talked a little at first but then completely stopped. I'm still getting over him and I'm still sad alot. Of course, his birthday is in a couple days...Should I wish him a happy birthday? Even though he ended it on a bad note, I still want to be nice...but I don't want him to think i'm like DIEING to talk to him or anything. If i should, how should I do it? Call? Text? Lemme know please :)

2007-11-08 03:30:44 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she says thiis to me because she was in a relationship before and she was hurt because she thought he was her everything and she says its hard to love once again but she tells me that in her head she was never going to go out with another guy and i should feel lucky that i got a chance because she really likes me but no love in my heart i feel i do love her and i was wondering how can i make her feel the way she wants to feel i mean we have done everything meaning EVERYTHING a guy and a girl does so i need some help!!!

2007-11-08 03:30:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few times in my life a man has chased and done everything imaginable to get my attention and a date with me. It does take some time for me to realize intriguing qualities in some men so while I was aloof he couldn’t do enough to have my attention… but once I became interested in return each of these guys could not disappear fast enough. One returned to his antics once his actions became annoying to me and I began telling him to leave me alone.

What in the world do they expect and want when jerking me (and other women) around as such?

2007-11-08 03:28:46 · 5 answers · asked by Traveler 4 in Singles & Dating

Like we do we care what other people think and say about us... ? What if everyone thinks I am weird...?

2007-11-08 03:24:46 · 34 answers · asked by lovehawaii_23 1 in Friends

2007-11-08 03:23:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some ideas for wedding songs. No jazz, r&b, or country. Mellow rock is good. Oldies are good too. We're going to use some Cat Stevens songs (don't laugh) so something that goes with that would be good. We want to be unique. Thanks!

2007-11-08 03:20:31 · 10 answers · asked by Due May 17, 2009! 2 in Weddings

Well I was going to mail the shower invites 4 wks before (3-30) & the wedding 8 wks before (5-3) but there's less then 2 wks between them...is that a don't?? Ugh--this time stuff sucks!! LOL!

2007-11-08 03:20:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

She is the sweetest baby in thew world...until night time...then she turns into a devil baby.... I live with her and watch her baby frequently...I though that being clode to a year old, she would be sleeping through the night. What are we doing wrong. Is there anything that hwe can do to make it better?

2007-11-08 03:17:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't usually get serious on here, but could use some wisdom. I suspect A VERY CLOSE friend of swiping my drugs, Morphine, to be exact, drugs that I not only need to deal with the pain of disabling spinal disease, but I'm dependent as well (if you don't understand addiction vs dependency, please turn the page - skip any lecture). I guess it's hard for me to really accept that it could be her, but I'm sitting here in a cold sweat, in horrid pain because 16 are missing and I've had to cut my dose in half for the next five days till my next script is due.

I guess I can't prove it's her, and I don't even want to believe it and the final wallop is that she has dirt on me she could use. I don't really think she would, but I can't take a chance with it.

So, dump her slow, confront her...what? This is the 3rd month I've had to go thru this, and I can only tell you that I've always been very responsible with my doses (or I would have been cut off 10 years ago). ...help?

2007-11-08 03:17:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ladies what do u think is the sexiest part of a mans body???...and guys what do u think is ur most sexiest body part......(besides that...lol).....i luv a guy with nice sexy hands!!

2007-11-08 03:16:33 · 31 answers · asked by cierra 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 03:14:44 · 14 answers · asked by Thora 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend made a confession to me a while ago. To make a long story short, I have a friend who cheated on her husband with another man and got pregnant. Her boyfriend said he wouldn't take care of the baby unless she got rid of her husband. He pushed her to press spousal rape charges on the husband so they could move on with their lives. He was convicted and she ended up with all marital assets, all because she wanted a new life with her boyfriend and their baby and didn't want to lose him.

When she admitted it was a lie, I felt bad that he was convicted, but he was a pretty bad husband. He was even abusive at times. That's why she cheated. But he's innocent of the rape charge, which is what he was convicted of. What can I do? Should I tell someone? I don't have actual proof and it might just make it worse. Should I mind my own business?

2007-11-08 03:14:15 · 16 answers · asked by ♥~Shauna~♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Or is that the way it is withing love making or mating?

2007-11-08 03:13:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been reading many legitimate articles explaining that women can actually "learn" to ejaculate. My wife writes these off as bunk and it is impossible.

So, at one time were you not able to and then tried the techniques and became able to?

I'm just curious b/c the descriptions make it seem like this type of orgasm is so much more powerful than any other.

Thanks for the honesty ladies.

2007-11-08 03:12:48 · 11 answers · asked by No Name 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mil once told me that her daughter hair was longer than mines. I am Black mixed with Indian. I have really long hair. My sil hair is not even the same as mines. Which is the truth. Me and my sil look nothing alike at all. Everything about us is different. Why would a mother compare her daughter- in-law's hair to her own daughter. This is insane.I could never do this. This is very mean and childish. Do you think she wishes that her daughter was as prettier as me. And that she could have beautiful skin and hair. On my sil side of the family, she told me that her dad's side there was white and Indian put together. The thing is my sil does not look nothing like an Indian. I am tired of being the black sheep in the family. I believe that I am hated on because of my good looks. Why is my mil trying to destroy me with her nasty put downs?

2007-11-08 03:11:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

are u happy in ur family, considering:
ur age
ur status (oldest, middle etc.)
ur parents and their jobs
n e thin else u wanna add

2007-11-08 03:08:05 · 17 answers · asked by BabyTalia 2 in Family