she says thiis to me because she was in a relationship before and she was hurt because she thought he was her everything and she says its hard to love once again but she tells me that in her head she was never going to go out with another guy and i should feel lucky that i got a chance because she really likes me but no love in my heart i feel i do love her and i was wondering how can i make her feel the way she wants to feel i mean we have done everything meaning EVERYTHING a guy and a girl does so i need some help!!!
2007-11-08 03:30:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her time. At least you will know when she does say she loves you that she means it. iT is not anything you have done or haven't done. If she loves you it will happen. Wish you the best!
2007-11-08 03:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello!! I do know that you may have every type of answer or at least read them. I can tell you one thing when we say that we like you that also means that we have given you the opportunity to open up our hearts so that you may have a chance Even though we do not straight forwardly admit it of course that is not always the case at times we say friends and it stays as friends but think have you kissed her and if you have then all you need is time and Patience that is all you want her to love again then let her know that you will keep on trying if she lets you and if she gives you a striaght answer then my friend all you need to do is wait. and keep doing what you do best love her like no one will love her . good luck my friend I hope she knows what she has befor she looses it.
2007-11-08 12:00:26 · answer #2 · answered by liza200471473 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not rush love it will happen on its own. If you say she has been hurt before by the guy she thought was her everything she is just scared to open up her heart again. You need to give her time to heal and she will let you know when she is ready, don't force it.
2007-11-08 11:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by Black Shadow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love doesn't come easy for all people. my husband says it was love at first sight for himbut it took me quite a while he asked me 5 times about the marriage thing and i thank god that he didn't give up. i'm in love so much it hurts to see him go , even to the store i/we want to be together all the time. and we have been married or 15 years and love it so y point is this just because you feel the love doesn't mean she does. not yet , but if she is the one for you and you know it ......don't give up if you are the one for her she will know in time. good luck my friend i wish ya'll the best.
2007-11-08 11:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by b.johne k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO she says this because she doesn't love you. Relax time can change that but making excuses won't. Give the relationship a chance to grow. Like can turn into love but it is a process allow it to happen and stop worrying so damn much.
2007-11-08 11:34:08 · answer #5 · answered by nyjae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience and tenderness, show her a reason to let her guard down and let you close.
Dont push her into anything, let her take evrything at her own pace, be by her side and support her in all that she does, it will take time, but she may come to realise that after all that youve done, you deserve to be closer.
2007-11-08 11:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lifeless Energy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was her first luv n c was hurt so now c thinks that bein in luv always ends in pain...............c has gone through a bad tym so try 2 make her feel happy her everytym wenevr c bcomes sad.....try 2 make her feel that u luv her very much n will never hurt her but dont force her 2 lyk u ...n try 2 b a gud fren of her................it takes tym for a frenship 2 grow..........n later c will surely think that u will never hurt her.....if u luv her truly then c u will succeed.....best of luck for it
2007-11-08 11:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by •чσυ'яє [[ςρє¢ιαℓ]]• 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, she has to overcome her previous emotional pain and learn to trust again. That takes a lot of time.
It took me 19 years.
2007-11-08 11:34:06 · answer #8 · answered by don_sv_az 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make her feel really comforitable around u like she can trust u, and then just give her time to get 2 know u in a comforitable manner
2007-11-08 11:34:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some time to heal the wound. at least she reali likes u. if she thinks u r the guy for him..eventually she will fall in lov with u. so dun worry. keep up the gd work,.
2007-11-08 11:35:09 · answer #10 · answered by devileye_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋