When you settle down, would you rather be married or just live with a feller? Remember what you promised your mum, always to tell the truth Have a kiss xxxxx
2007-11-08 04:02:15 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-11-08 05:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather marry just because that's the way i was raised. I mean if i'm going to be having sex with you and cooking and cleaning.. I think we should be married. It's harder and more sacride to brake that union. Even though now in days it hardly means anything. Just living with a guy they would want you to do eveything as if you were married. The only thing is that theirs no legal papers stating it. And if you break up you don't have to share the money.. But Still if i get married i'm going into it with a mind that its going to be a forever thing. That's the whole point about settling down you think about getting married being with a person for the rest of your life. Not just have him there. And even though your together He's not yours and your not his. Untill your married.
So I would rather be married..=)
2007-11-08 04:10:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married
2007-11-08 04:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by ♬♥YouBetcha♥♬ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you ask a girl its obvious that all women will say married no one likes a feller sorry. that is the truth and honesty comes in a marriage but I do not know of one person that knows the concept of the real meaning of marriage everyone that is married will eventually end up getting a divorce for stupid reason es. and that is not being married. marriage dose not exist now a days.
2007-11-08 04:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by liza200471473 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. Now a days girls are looking past the whole marriage thing and doing the live in partner. I think it's because of being scared to be really tied down. And look at divorce statistics now thats scary too. I personally wanna be married one day but not just to settle down because thats the person I wanna be with forever
2007-11-08 04:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by kesselchic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would honestly rather be married. But living together at least for six months to a year before we engage is okay so that way we both know if with staying with each other won't take down the relationship! You know sometimes people get in engaged and married before they live together and once they do they can't get along and everything one does urkes them and so forth.
2007-11-08 04:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I know that I am going to be in it for the long haul and that I want to spend the rest of my life with this guy then eventually I would want to get married. I don't think it's a bad idea living together first because it really lets you get to know the other person better. All in all I think it is a personal decision that you have to make though.
2007-11-08 04:07:20 · answer #7 · answered by silentrefuge86 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am getting married next year and I have to say, I would much rather get married than just live together! It just means something to me and I am quite a traditional girl, so marriage and babies all the way! :) x
2007-11-08 04:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind either way. Maybe if a baby was on the way I would like to get married. My bloke wants to marry me, so we probably will, but living together is just fine so far.
2007-11-08 04:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by Cold Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A piece of paper claiming that we are officially married doesn't mean anything to me and I never really cared about what anyone thought. If two people are happy living together, then thats all there is to it, for me at least.
2007-11-08 04:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by diva9047 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather be married, but then of course there's no way of truly "knowing" a person...and once you're married and live together, things could get ugly......and divorce is not a fun situation.....so I don't know?!?
2007-11-08 04:06:11 · answer #11 · answered by stephygigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋