ok we broke up because he lives too far but when we see each other its like were still together. we still care for each other but, we argue A LOTTTTTT!!!!!!! i dont miss all that arguing i dont know what to do i've been doing good and partying a lot but i still love him
2007-11-08 03:43:15 · 51 answers · asked by 1ST BABY!!!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BEING THERE, DONE THAT, FUN THAT. YES YOU CAN I DID IT BECAUSE I STILL LOVE HIM AND NOW GUESS WHAT WE ARE NOW TOGETHER.
2007-11-08 03:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by KIARA 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is a tough feeling to lose, especially if you spent a lot of time with that person. But from personal experience, I wouldn't recommend sleeping with him because that will only prolong the healing process. However, weigh out the pros and cons, and maybe if you're feelings are still that strong for him, you can both work out your problems and get passed your fighting. If he makes you happy more often than not, than its worth trying to rekindle your relationship. But leave out the physical aspect until you are sure. It only complicates things and confuses your heart.
2007-11-08 03:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by justplaintravis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is called friends with benefits. Go for it. It almost sounds like the situation with my ex-girlfriend and I. Damn!!! Almost identical!! Your name wouldn't happen to be Crystal would it? LOL Well she and I broke up because she lives in Baltimore and I live in Chicago. We still however have phone sex and we still use our pet names for each other. There is nothing wrong with having a casual sex partner as long as you are both not commited to anyone else. Your ex is luckier than I am because he actually gets to touch you. Mine is only over the phone, maybe the webcam. Good luck!
2007-11-08 03:52:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you want ot sleep with him and can do so without any strings attached then go for it. Arguing is played out. You should not argue with anyone. If there is a problem discuss or revisit it later when temperments cool down.
2007-11-08 03:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by nyjae 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel, and my friends actually going through the EXACT same thing..
all i can say is that if it were me, i wouldn't sleep with him anymore. but its you're body and you can do w/e you want with it.
if you keep sleeping with him, he'll probably start using you, and all the care he has for you, will go away, because he'll just look at youu as a peice of a**.
i would talk to him and let him know that you care about him still, but don't want to sleep with him anymore. because do you know what goes on when he's not in town, if he's seeing anyone else?
you don't want to get an STD or get pregnant because he's not always there, and you don't know if you're the only one he's sleeping with.
but, this is just in general, idk the guy.
but good luck :))))
2007-11-08 03:49:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
breaking up is one thing,Honey I would not if I were you. If you guys broke up why would you still want to sleep with him? It to me is pointless as it wont get the relationship back.
Guys will do anything for sex trust me,I lived on my own & a few guy friends had come to visit & had stayed over as I have a four bedroom place & a few girlfriends of mine where also over
2007-11-08 03:47:28 · answer #6 · answered by MEHNAZ B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u should not sleep with him its like the old sayin goes why buy the milk when u can get the cow for .if u sleep with him that just lets him know he can have u when he wants n he doesn't have to put anything in as far as a relationship is concerned
2007-11-08 03:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by J-bean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it simply shows aw stupid u re pls gal dont make a fol out of urself u wud regret it even if u still like him sex is not the rite way 2 make u wyd only look cheap and since he doesnt like u again if u sleep wiv him he will just move on like nuffin happened so pls gal dont fall a victim BE WISE dont sleep wiv him plssssssssss
2007-11-08 03:54:39 · answer #8 · answered by natasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When did you two break up?
Do you two want to get back together?
I dont think its good to just sleep with someone. You two should either get together or just bag the idea. Just sleeping together is so cheap.
2007-11-08 03:47:29 · answer #9 · answered by CaliGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sleeping with him immediately.
You must move forward with your life and stop looking backwards.
You're just someone who he can have sex with and nothing more.
He's probably sexing you while he's trying to build a meaningful relationship with someone else who's not giving in to his every whim.
Cry yourself a river, build a bridge and get over it.
The relationship is no more. Accept that.
2007-11-08 03:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont sleep with him it makes things more complicated. Its called a breakup for reason. Unless youre willing and ready to commit to the drama that comes with it.
2007-11-08 03:48:19 · answer #11 · answered by kesselchic 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋