Family & Relationships - 8 November 2007

2007-11-08 21:15:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If i have an argument with my boyfriend regardless of whos fault it is i could go home crying my eyes out (and he can see that) and he wont call and he wont text me the next day. Now for example last night i spoke to him as normal on the phone about my situation, i told him im having a bad time at uni and was talking about how sick of the uk i was and what i was hoping to get out of my life and while i was talking about it i got a bit upset on the phone. his reply was 'your wanting too much and only people with money is going to get where you want to be'. I felt like he was not very supportive. I stopped crying and just wanted to have a conversation but it was like after that there was an atmosphere as if we had just had a fight and i felt like i had done something wrong when this was not an argument this was me simply using my bf as a shoulder to cry on. the call ended with nothing else said and i went to bed thinking have i done something wrong, and i have no morning text from him

2007-11-08 21:04:28 · 18 answers · asked by ice_castles 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been told I cannot talk to my best friend, because he is a youth worker, and when I got kicked out of my house Saturday night, he came and got me. The problem is he took a "client" home, even though I had been his friend alot longer. He is 23 and I am 16, but no one has to worry about us "doing" anything (sexual) because we are both homosexual. Can his work really banned us from talking?

2007-11-08 20:48:03 · 5 answers · asked by _x.Maerad.Manda.x_ 2 in Friends

Ive heard this saying from lots of men, and I am curious, what exactly IS the 'place' and how is she put there ?

2007-11-08 20:46:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Yesterday I called my ex after months of no contact we split in April and he lives abroad. When he answered he told me he hates me and he is married now. He then put his wife on the phone and she called me a whore. We split for a stupid reason I never did anything to hurt him and he never cheated on me either. I was hoping we'd get back together and have missed him dreadfully. How could he have married so quickly after our split? What makes it worse is that his new wife is a beautiful model (he told me to check out their wedding pictures on the internet). I havent stopped crying since, all I have eaten is a slice of toast since yesterday morning. I didnt sleep all last night either I just spent all night tossing and turning. I have a chest infection as well so feel crappy and low enough as it is. Please guys say something to cheer me up. Im not going to contact him again (im not that dumb) Im crying as I write this.

2007-11-08 20:37:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married almost 10 years. I love my wife to death, she is my best friend. The problem is that I am not satisfied sexually anymore. I have started thinking about other women and I dont want to. Is this a normal phase and how can I get over it?

2007-11-08 20:30:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

im married for 17yrs now have 4 loving children..i was only 17 then.Im a product of brocken family,and since then my dream is to have my own family that is intact,full of love & happy..But now im starting to get confused my husband(my first bf) is a good provider,a loving father,thoughful ... but his cheating on me.We discussed and talk about it,and he told me that it was nothing that there relationship is for fun-only no commitment thing...He told me that our family is his priority..I tried to hold on to that,i told to my self as long as its not serious...But now for family reason,we're apart for the mean time for our kids future (got a job abroad). And i found out recently that they are seeing each other frequently.I confront him but instead his kinn'a irritated..And also he always tells me not to talk about it.That bothers me & im really confused right now,dont know what to think.I love my family but its hurting me..Please enlighten me..

2007-11-08 20:28:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just broke up with my girlfriend of a year and half. She and I live a few hours apart and only saw each other on weekends which made the relationship hard to begin with.

After about a year she told me that she had been cheating on me with another guy for about a month. Sex and all. I (being helplessly in love) forgave her as she cried in my arms saying sorry etc etc. Well a few more months go by and she ends up flirting and meeting some guy she plays an online game with on the internet. I got pissed off and she said that nothing happened and I reluctantly believed her. Recently there is another guy that she flirts with and talks with daily.

At this point I couldn't take it anymore and broke up with her. But she still calls me and we have met and had sex since then. I am unable to leave her and still believe we can work out. I know that it's bad for me to stay but I am afraid of being alone I am in love and scared that I won't find another girl. I am bad at talking w/them.

2007-11-08 20:27:28 · 19 answers · asked by Bradacus 3 in Singles & Dating

Ive known this girl for 10 years or more and we got along really well before. After high school we drifted apart and dont see each other much but i thought it would still be polite to invite her to my wedding afterall you only get married once a lifetime. When i called her and told her im getting married and i wanted to come over and invite her she didnt really seem to care and made out that she was going to be busy tonight so told me not to worry and just to post it out. I was a bit upset about it considering i had made the effort to give her a call. we havent had a fight or argument EVER and now this? i dont get it. It was the same situation with her cousin and when i spoke to her she was ecstatic to hear from me and couldnt wait to see me (and we spoke for hours). why the cold shoulder with this one? should i bother sending out the invite?

2007-11-08 20:17:28 · 22 answers · asked by Love to dance 3 in Weddings

I always thought women want a man for the man to provide for her. I always thought women worry about money and where it will come from and women are comfortable and relaxed and happy when they have a man thats a good provider.
I have lots of money, I also have good looks and skinny, why don't women want me just for that?

2007-11-08 20:09:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...but not okay for a guy to flip them on their *** or drag their nails on the sidewalk for the offense??? Fair is fair...

2007-11-08 20:09:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got a male friend i chat with everyday.We both in relationships. I really like him as a pal and he wants more than a friendship.We both knows it's not gonna happen but he still giving me grief.We call each other honey , my love , babe & stuff. Am i really leading him on.I don't wanna lose this friendship and my fiance at the same time.What must i do..

2007-11-08 20:07:43 · 6 answers · asked by Tyra 2 in Singles & Dating

I tracked my boyfriends computer and found that he looks at incest porno ie:brothers, dad on son, stepdad on son, twins, cousins. We are a gay couple. The porno wasnt illegal, it wasnt any children or anything like that but it was all incest themed. What do I do. should I confront him, is this normal, does this mean his family was incestual? Help please!!! I dont know if I want to leave him over this, I love him but this is really weird....

2007-11-08 20:00:40 · 15 answers · asked by blahblah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If you caught your partner cheating would you consider forgiving them?? Do you think people can change?? If you did take them back would you be able to trust them again??

2007-11-08 19:59:41 · 13 answers · asked by pixiegirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well the other day,This guy was just about to come up to me and ask me for a cigarette..(He had a lighter in his hand)I then i pretended to hear my phone ring and have a fake convo,I mean did i do something wrong there?Cos theyre my smokes and im not a free smoke vending machine

Also another time this girl was guna come up to me and ask me for some money..AND i did the same thing again(Fake phone call) and she actually took my phone from me and said she will be right back!
Do you think she should of done that?
She actually asked me for 2 dollars and i said hell no
Has anything like that ever happened to you?

2007-11-08 19:54:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 19:53:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OMG. Is it just me but I think the guy that plays Henry on Ugly Betty is so cute? I'd pick the nerd over the jock any day.

2007-11-08 19:50:14 · 14 answers · asked by beffie 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 19:46:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if Im Muslim and he's Christian? I want to raise them to have very close relationships with GOD, keep him 1st and all thats in between, but how can we go about it w/o confusing them?? (I'm talking unborn children, so we're starting from birth)

2007-11-08 19:43:19 · 5 answers · asked by charmed 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know that you should never expect someone to tell you the truth all the time, but whats the biggest whopper you have told in order for your loved one to feel better???

2007-11-08 19:40:52 · 15 answers · asked by pixiegirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 19:40:20 · 10 answers · asked by SRILU 1 in Friends

Hello Everyone:

I have a scenario that I would like to share and possibly get an opinion. I know reading this could be a drag but if you are interested and willing to share your insight you are more than welcome to.

Please think about this as if you were in this situation. What would you do?

Man:
-He love woman #1 but he was unhappy with the relationship for some reason.
-He was stressed financially. He was supporting his family.
-He has 2 children with woman #1 that all you want is the best for them and them to be happy and have a family.
-He has been going out, hanging out with friends – he said he’s doing this to relieve his stress at home.
-Maybe here and there he has been unfaithful to the mother of his children
-He came to the point of confusion of if he love her and thinking that he might just love her because woman #1 is the mother of his children.
-He found out that woman #1 is cheating on him with another man. He was hurt and angry.
-He found someone else that is the total opposite of woman #1. He fell in love with her and cares for Woman #2.

2007-11-08 19:38:56 · 3 answers · asked by xoxo01234 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 19:38:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend ended our relationship of 4 and a half years about a week ago. I am stuck living with him until next month when I can afford to move out on my own. I know he still has hormones because he goes in the bedroom shuts the door and watches "movies". I still have hormones too, and I also still have deep feelings for him. I find myself still wanting to be intimate with him. The question is should I bring it up to him and ask if we can still be intimate together or do you think I will be setting myself up to get hurt emotionaly and be putting myself in a confusing situation. Or should I not sell myself short.

2007-11-08 19:36:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Normal dressing. None of that gothic stuff

2007-11-08 19:34:49 · 11 answers · asked by Hoolababy 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing him for about three months and had such a strong desire to have sex with him that I just finally did! My mind was telling me no but my body was telling me yes. So, it was good. First times are always awkward because you want to do well so it was more of a performance for me than anything. So, today he didn't call till late and told me that I should consider using douche and that I should be more submissive in bed. My jaw dropped! I was so upset and then he kept talking as if he didn't just say the most awful thing in the world. I'm very clean but that is not even the point of the thing. So, he tells me that he wants to keep seeing me and blah, blah, blah. I told him to go to hell and that I wasn't even going to point out his defects cause it wasn't worth it at all. I'm so upset at this. I took my time to get to know him before I went to the next step and then he says some insane thing like that. I want to punch him in the mouth! Ouch! He told me that he wants to see me

2007-11-08 19:32:41 · 30 answers · asked by Karen Walker 2 in Singles & Dating

Can black magic or love spell help you get the one that you love or cant live without?

2007-11-08 19:29:24 · 4 answers · asked by Raj 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you are continuing to do like this i should depart from you

2007-11-08 19:29:22 · 7 answers · asked by Thameem 1 in Singles & Dating

It is my first night without my 4 year old, he is having his first sleepover at his dads. I don't want to sit around and wonder is it appropriate to enter a pub/ club by yourself or do you look lame? I am 33

2007-11-08 19:28:22 · 9 answers · asked by hakea73 2 in Singles & Dating

childs mother incarcerated for drugs, father also deals, grandparents have provided for child most of his life. Does he have options?

2007-11-08 19:28:12 · 3 answers · asked by Kauhi128 2 in Other - Family & Relationships