Family & Relationships - 8 November 2007

Well I told him that I am not ready to be in a relationship but we are good friends. He usually expresses his feeling though but now he told me that maybe we are not meant to be. I like him a lot but I don't want to be in a relationship due to school (college) and I never had a boyfriend. I used to being single I don't express my feeling as much as he does. He been pursuing me 5 months. Do you think he is right? Do you sense when you are meant to be and are you usually right?

He doesn't want to be friends anymore but he says it will be tough to not call me. He says I don't give him enough attention. However, I told him beforehand hat I am busy with classes and I can be his friend for now and I like him.

Now today he called me like three times today but I did not call him back.

2007-11-08 15:47:59 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa H 1 in Singles & Dating

I Love my 4 Year Old Nephew BUT,?
I take care of him 3 days out of the month. Parents are not married and live far apart. As an aunt I take him to rests, parks, attractions, museums, eateries, and give him lots of love and attention when he is with me and my family. I also teach him morals, respect and all that. NOW, he lives with his mom. The last 4X my brother calls her place my neph, refuses to talk to me or just hangs up, whereas he always asked for me, and wanted to talk to me only. He is always by my side when we are together and always asks for me to go with him and no one else. When he throws a tantrum he tells me he hates, me never wants to see me again, will lock me up and throw away the key, and he says it with utmost anger and passion and has even hit me with brutal force, biting kicking so bad, like a barracuda. I have had to even run from him because he is powerful. I teach him and tell him not to do it, and give him time outs. PLEASE HELP ME. HE IS SO YOUNG AND GROWING COLD TOWARD hs, aunt who cares4 him
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He acts all violent too. At his mother's house the mother works upstairs. And he is all alone downstairs watching video games and tv all by himself. At my home we are always with him, taking him places together. Could the games be influencing him at this age?

2007-11-08 15:46:56 · 12 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Family

I have been with my bf for 6 months. We recently had an arguement about a co-worker of his (you can read my other post). During the quiet argument I asked him "Were you in love with her...did you love her?" And his reply was "NO! I am in love with YOU!" This was the first the L word entered at all. I was very angry and just said "I don't need to hear that right now." I didn't want the first time he said this to be during an argument. I feel the same way but haven't said anything about it because I am afraid that he just said it in the heat of everything. I am 30 and have had bf's before and we have said it at different times..never took 6 months to say it but I now realize that I probably didn't mean it with the others. That's why I am so stressed about it now, I really mean it and just wonder if I should tell him...Thanks

I'm sorry for posting in marriage and divorce but the singles dating forum seems a little too young at times.

2007-11-08 15:46:16 · 10 answers · asked by laura1977 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 22 years old, and a graduate student. I am one of those girls who has been to hell and back with serious relationships, and feels like she has a good hold on what she expects out of the guy she would like to spend forever with. However, I feel that this makes me more picky and I feel that all of the guys I meet anymore are more focused on sex than anything that is feeling-related on a mature level. I have tried to date older guys, but this usually doesn't solve the problem. Am I expecting too much? Or is there really no hope for the old fashioned family with a white picket fence anymore? I am just discouraged and could use some advice on where to go from here with this area of my life. Thanks!

2007-11-08 15:44:29 · 13 answers · asked by Alesha 3 in Singles & Dating

my wife is a very beautiful women but has little confidence i ask her why her confidence is so low and she says its the way she was raised what should i do

2007-11-08 15:36:31 · 7 answers · asked by cedg 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to start any trouble, but shouldn't that be an even number?

2007-11-08 15:36:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Scenario: Me and my bestfriend hav been friends since grade 6. Were now in grade 11. Lately shes been a bi-tch frankly. She "couldn't find me" at fireworks, she "thought it would be awkward" if I came to a Halloween party. I dont understand. She used to love me and she always wanted me to hang out with her. We go to different schools but somehow things arent working. Shes kind of a superficial person but I thought that by grade 11 the whole popularity thing was supposed to be dying down. Is she worth keeping? Or should she go in the bin?

2007-11-08 15:34:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

so im a foster child and i have been since i was 11 years old..i am currently 16 years old. i have lived in a group home and 3 different foster homes...
i have lived in the house i live in today for 3 years. i like living here for the most part...but sometimes iget treated a way i shouldnt be treated....i get yelled at.i get cussed out...i am basically treated like i am a nobody...i dont enjoy coming home from school...i use any excuse i can find just to leave the house earlier and to stay at school later....i hate coming home
this house is really ridiculous....my allowence is seriously 30 cents a day...i am not kidding my foster mom goes into my room and gives me 30 cents at night...and thats my allowence.
i just dont think that i should live in a place where i get treated this way...i can move any time i want but its a hard decision to make...ive lived here for 3 years and thats a long time..i just dont want to start a whole new life...can someone help me please?

2007-11-08 15:33:02 · 6 answers · asked by jess 2 in Family

Not really really high pitched, but kind of like the voice of a little boy?

There's this nice, cute guy, but everytime he talks his voice just turns me off.

2007-11-08 15:24:26 · 20 answers · asked by lol 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay i ran into a guy the other night and i gave him my # and we started talking..i went over to his house one night..and the other night i slept over and like we slept on seperate sides of the couch and i woke up and he had his arm around me but when he realized it he went back to his side of the couch..i havent really talk to him to much since than..but i really like him alot and i dont want to throw myself out there if he doesnt like me..i hate putting myself up for let down.I usually just wait till the guy makes the first move but i dont know..any advice?

2007-11-08 15:23:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in love with one.

2007-11-08 15:15:58 · 6 answers · asked by sencillo1957 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 15:06:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 15:05:45 · 18 answers · asked by Jalal R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 15:03:25 · 17 answers · asked by Jigs 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please don't tell me I'm gay or anything this person was forcing me!
OK I was in a hot spring or tub I don't care what you go with but I was skinny dipping... They seperated the sex male and female at least! This man here that was big, tall, strong and very scary looking came up to me and he accidentally touched my dick with his foot. I said please don't do that! And he understood that then he did it on purpose with his hand! He said to me touch my dick! I said " Are you crazy?" He said to do it I didn't do it then everyone is looking at me and the gay guy. And that man was threatening me so I did it. After everyone exept me and him leaving. I said What was that for?
He said Doesn't it feel good? So after that I went to the manager to tell him about that he didn't care. I did it the next day too hoping he wasn't there but he was. He got everyone to stare at me and him again. Do I get AIDS or something? The only thing that makes me wonder more is he said it's OK you don't get diseases

2007-11-08 15:03:01 · 16 answers · asked by Jiyoon C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a pain in the *** father who I recently sent to a nursing home. In my defense he was really annoying and needy so I decided to end my suffering. I sent him to a cost efficent nursing home. Anyways after I sent him to the nursing home I decided his house would not be much use to me. I sold it as well as the heirlooms inside. Since I made such a profit I decided to expand my own house. Since then people have been giving me dirty looks and my girlfriend won't shut up about it. How can I put it in perspective with everybody.

2007-11-08 15:02:01 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just found out and have proff that my best friends husband cheated on her 2 or 3 months ago. This is her and his first marriage. They've only been married for 9 months. I can't believe he could do that to her when it was his idea to get married after only 4 months of knowing and dating each other. What makes a guy cheat on his wife? This worries me cuz I'm engagd to be married in a year. I've know my fiancee for 3 will be 4 years when we get married. We're dated for almost a year and a half will be 2 and a half years when we get married.

2007-11-08 15:01:52 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

last night me and my husband were getting on the bed and we started to kiss then I touch his penis and it smelled like if he had sex, it smell like vagina really bad, is it normal for man to have and make a smell like the down there?

2007-11-08 15:01:49 · 1 answers · asked by Ursula M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well ive been dating black girls for along time and there they best girls i like and had the most fun with they have treated me the best over the past 2 years and i just think they are so pretty i cant help but love them and treat them so nice. but i have lost my attraction to white girls my own race if i told my parents and family they would get mad what do yall think if they knew?

2007-11-08 15:01:44 · 11 answers · asked by Zane B 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 15:00:47 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Kristen♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok so ever since i was little i have been sceared to death of men i always thought they were going to hurt me. its not bad now that i am older i am 14 but when i was young i hated to be with my friends dads and i am wondering in maybe something happened because i can remeber bits and pices of wen i was little and being terrifyed of men. i am wondering if this is a problem with my head or if something really happened and still to this day i have dreams about men hurting me like sexutally.and sometimes i cant stop thing about something happening to me sextully. my mom told me a story about when i was 5 and my parents friend (a guy) was sitting on the ground with me alone and she walked in and said he was acting reallt weird with me and i remeber it really clearly but i can only remeber it to a cerain point and i just remeber being tarrifyed?
if u could help that would be great?

2007-11-08 15:00:01 · 4 answers · asked by lexi 1 in Singles & Dating

I kinda feel like I'll never love again and hes the only one for me but I keep trying to tell myself if its meant to be it will be and if not I'll find someone better and I'll love more. This is just so depressing though, I miss him all the time. Is it normal, its been a month since the break up?

2007-11-08 14:59:02 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 14:54:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just wondering, things like softly biting, teasing, tongue wrestling etc.

2007-11-08 14:52:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 14:51:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 43 years old and all my life my parents have been very negative and chipped away at my self esteem. I have just had nine nights in hospital and they didn't even visit yet they have high expectations for me to visit them etc... My dad recently went on holiday and because I am currently single they asked me to stay with Mum - which I did. Two weeks later I'm in hospital and not so much as a phone call from them. This is just one example of many many similar events throughout my life.

I feel that I need to walk away from them. They are healthy but incredibly self centered and I feel so hurt whenever I contact them. Guilt alone is keeping me in contact. I want to start over without them so that I can have some sort of decent life. Do you think this is ok. (I have tried a million times to resolve things with them but they get very angry and abusive.)

2007-11-08 14:51:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This is for a class project!

2007-11-08 14:51:04 · 4 answers · asked by jecebn86 2 in Singles & Dating

I kind of have a little problem.... after you answer that sould you answer this question..... do you think the guy will mind callin on my home phone? i kinda don't have a cell fone ...

2007-11-08 14:48:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We look like complete opposites but he has this presence that is so attractive to me. What should I do? Help please

2007-11-08 14:46:29 · 9 answers · asked by yellowphiyah 1 in Singles & Dating

Funny, serious, romantic, quiet, loud, a lover, a pain, your best friend, the person you can't live without or a complete stranger?

2007-11-08 14:43:13 · 24 answers · asked by ♥ ♥ C.J. ♥ ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating