2007-11-08 15:00:47 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Kristen♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well we just had a baby 3 weeks ago. We have been together for 5 years, he barely ever went out to the bars with the guys. He usually has friends over. Now all of a sudden he is going out to a bar tomorrow night after work. Which is 11:30 at night when he gets out. Am i just being paranoid? maybe hes just stressed over the baby?
2007-11-08 15:12:56 · update #1
i think after we have our babies our hormones are all over the place.
we are vulnerable and sensitive to everything his does. it is like they do one thing out of the ordinary, he is cheating.
i would say not to panic right away, because just like us having a baby is overwhelming, guys get overwhelmed as well.
children changes our lives and maybe he is just trying to deal with being a parent and do not want to lose that "i am single" side of his life.
but you recognize a pattern, you and your girls make a trip to the bar (just pop up) and see for yourself what the hell is going on.
2007-11-08 15:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by thick and creamy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is going once in a while with the boys I don't see any issues but depends on the bar ?. I sometimes go out with friends and watch sports and put down some pints. It is not a pick-up joint so wife has no issues.
2007-11-08 23:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by ensoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all you are not paranoid. Every wife has a right to know what there husband is doing especially if you have kids. I do think many guys do that...but I don't think it is right and it isn't fair(even if he is stressed over the baby) he should think of how you feel.
2007-11-09 15:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by Jessy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If guys need to go to the bars without their wives, they have cheating on their minds. What more do you need to know?
2007-11-08 23:07:24 · answer #4 · answered by Freeway 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A bar's not a good place to cheat. Too public.
2007-11-08 23:25:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kyle W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have Never cheated on my wife from someone at a bar..
2007-11-08 23:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by aerostar93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should not go to a bar with out you.
2007-11-08 23:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
more details are needed. There is no magic number to answer that question.
How often does he go/ under what circumstance/ do u go w him/ what kind of places etc.
My hunch is if you are asking than you have reason to suspect something. Good Luck
2007-11-08 23:05:08 · answer #8 · answered by felicia_wv 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all of them cheats... some of them really just want to relax.. spend some time with their friends... don't be paranoid... trust him..
2007-11-08 23:19:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope a small percentage. If you are married or in a relationship, you shouldn't be going to places like that.
2007-11-08 23:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by hazelkatana 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋