Okay i ran into a guy the other night and i gave him my # and we started talking..i went over to his house one night..and the other night i slept over and like we slept on seperate sides of the couch and i woke up and he had his arm around me but when he realized it he went back to his side of the couch..i havent really talk to him to much since than..but i really like him alot and i dont want to throw myself out there if he doesnt like me..i hate putting myself up for let down.I usually just wait till the guy makes the first move but i dont know..any advice?
2007-11-08 15:23:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 19. Plus i don't want to try something and he doesn't like me that way and it makes our friendship akward..gah just so much stress..
2007-11-08 15:52:53 · update #1
I certainly think a lot of the guy for the way he treated you w/respect. He didn't try to take advantage of you or force himself on you & he had the opportunity to do so. I would say to pursue him if you really like him. He didn't have to let you stay over, but he did. You have nothing to loose & everything to gain. The best to you...
2007-11-08 15:39:54 · answer #1 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously really comfortable around you...so go for it! I'm just saying that it is really hard sometimes for guys to make a move, so put a couple cute texts out there and see what happens... If nothing then you know he isn't interested...just be careful not to over do it, cause it is a huge turnoff when you go from cute and intrested to stalkerish...
2007-11-08 23:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by bitty brookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man likes to think he has won a woman. but sometimes in the beginning we dont really know where our boundaries are.
so my my advice is dont make the first move. but let him know in a not so subtle way, that your waiting for him to make a move. that way you dont seem too aggressive but at the same time, you are letting him know that your interested.
2007-11-08 23:31:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anne and Anthony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya deffinitly.. about 4 months ago the same thing happend to me and my present girlfriend made the first move cause i was chickan S#%*... Guys think the same way sometimes
2007-11-08 23:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Bud h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i guess your age matters here.. but i think it seems like he's in to you but not disrespectful.. mayube he thought that his mistake woudl put you off.. i would just try talkign to him again and seeing how he is, you know? then go from there but i dont think the incident is that big a deal. i think you should make the first move (well its not really the first, but you get what i mean)
2007-11-08 23:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're interested, then go for it! After awhile, rejection is a part of life.
2007-11-08 23:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by mnid007 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move and if it doesnt work dont beat yourself up for it
2007-11-08 23:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say he likes you so get in touch and see what happens
2007-11-08 23:33:27 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
2007-11-08 23:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by h8y45 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋