Family & Relationships - 8 November 2007

I have been thru hell this year!! My husband helped put me in jail,accused of a crime i did not commit! now a very painfull divorce! He took my house,kids and freedom .Now he is triing to get everything else. what should i do??

2007-11-08 14:02:46 · 8 answers · asked by bettys5incali 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a friend of mine left is girlfriend of 4 years for a doctor for no reason. well its 8 months since they are together she is forcing him in marriage i guess they are gonna get married soon. is that a good idea i dont think he is ready he still love is exgirlfriend she was his first in everything. the doctor as money but thats the way life is love sometimes love doesnt count but i think he is making a big mistake what you think.

2007-11-08 14:02:44 · 2 answers · asked by moyasweets 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If I said that some men are like children who need correction, or dogs who need to be trained? I know it sounds hard to believe, but I mean this with absolutely no disrespect. Truly. It is a good man who realizes this about himself. And this does not make him less than you. That attitude will not bring you results. What will bring you results is a clear, simple system of expectations, rules, rewards and punishments. Now of course, some cannot be trained and some don't need it. What do you think?

2007-11-08 14:01:57 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hay please dont respond if your going to be rude! but im 18 and idont think i have a life im not in school yet but i will be soon collage not high school and i work all the time but i dont want to be close friends with the people i work with cause work is work. i dont drink and i dont smoke anything and all the friends that i did have are pregant or allready have kids. i need someone who is around my age little older thats like me. im not single but im tired of hanging around him all the time im sure he fills the same about me. someone please help!!!!

2007-11-08 14:01:20 · 6 answers · asked by jess1823 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend cheated on her husband 12 years ago( I was the other guy) She has 2 kids, I don't have any,I'm 39, she's 43, we have been together for those 12 years sometimes living together sometimes not.We bought our house 2 years ago but somehow I ended sleeping in the basement..not in the same bed with her.I had a big problem with drinking by myself in that basement and I just wanted out.This was going on from 11/06/06 until she finally got the financing to buy me out on 8/1/07. Well we have been "seeing" each other for the past 3 months but on 9/27/07 I found out she was with another man, he changed the locks the same day I moved out..go figure.He moved out of state on 9/23/07. She's very sorry, wants forgiveness and for me to give her one more chance.I am a recovering alcoholic, seeing a therapist and also make good money.I understand I was an *** and drove her to do what she did. I can't help but to think that because he's gone she wants me back to help with the mortgage & bills

2007-11-08 14:00:44 · 14 answers · asked by RUCKUS 2 in Singles & Dating

Like all night parties? I'm a responsible guy, never been drunk or anything of the sort, but I feel sorry for my parents as I know I would be freaked out if my teen was going to some unknown party all night. FYI, I'm of legal age, 19, but I still feel for them. How can I make them feel better? I want to hang out with my friends but I don't want to worry them.

2007-11-08 13:59:59 · 1 answers · asked by asdf 1 in Friends

I''ve recently starting dating a girl who is very shy around me. This would be OK except I'm terrible with conversations. Especially when I try to start a conversation and it just goes no where. Is there anything I can do to try and get better conversations going? i don't know. Maybe were just not a good couple.
Please Help!!

2007-11-08 13:59:47 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ever happened to you or someone else?

2007-11-08 13:59:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I know they think about it.. but is it true that they think about it all day everyday?

2007-11-08 13:59:42 · 35 answers · asked by becky 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf and I have been together for over a year. Living together for 10 months. We are both divorced, been married once before each and are almost 40. We get along great and have a really close relationship. I never thought I would want to marry again, but I have been really thinking about it. We have never talked about getting married. Should I bring it up or just wait for him? Btw...I am not the kind of woman who feels I "need" to be married. But, was thinking it might be nice.

2007-11-08 13:57:29 · 11 answers · asked by Pupsgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I really want to throw a party but my parents don't have any money right now....I feel bad wanting this when my parents just opened a business......but I really want to invite the cute guys from church. I know I am a horrible kid.

2007-11-08 13:57:06 · 15 answers · asked by Scorpio 1 in Family

I am doing a debate for my English Class. My partner and I are stuck for answers, we've been searching the web for a week and havent found anything useful.
I would be very appreciative if you could help us out and give us your oppinion on divorce.
The Pros and Cons. The facts.
Anything that will help.
Thanks so much.
PS. We are doing the Pros of divorce.

2007-11-08 13:56:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i had a friend who family was a victim of a crime and 1 of her siblings were killed and 1 was seriously injured. The sibling that died was really young and her sister went to my school.

this happened over a month ago and I still cant sleep correctly at night because im scared that the same thing is going to happen to me for some reason.

2007-11-08 13:55:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Today I asked my parents if I could sleepover a friends house and asked if i could hang out with my gf...they told me that they would but then i guess i pushed it a little and they began to make me feel really bad and they told me that I dont read any books and I dont do any extra curricular activities and they shouted at me saying that I talk to my gf too much and that I dont do anything else but talk to my gf and they just made me feel so bad about myself and i just dont know what to do anymore...i dont know how to deal with this...can anyone help?

2007-11-08 13:55:23 · 12 answers · asked by Samuel B 1 in Family

so the first night of my cruise during the summer, i met a whole bunch of teenagers my age. including the guy i like now. but anyways, the first night before i even talked to him i just saw him, i had a dream about him. we were making out haha not that you needed to know that but.. does that mean anything. seriously we have like everything in common and on the way onto the cruise he was the guy standing in front of me in line.. soo does this mean anything at all?? plus i havent seen him in like 2 months and i still have feelings for him and i can still see his face and hear his voice in my head ( i still text him today so we havent completely lost touch ). & i still remember his bluee eyes <3. i also have dreams about him like romantic at least twice a week. so do you think this means anything? like do you think we're meant to be??

2007-11-08 13:54:05 · 8 answers · asked by tory 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, it goes like this. The first guy was extremely insecure with me going clubbing, the way I danced in the club bothered him. Then the one after him used to think I had loadsa guys on the go and told me that there's one song that should be my anthem; "One man can't satisfy her" by Iwayne.I'm now currently dating someone who when my phones beeps he says "Is that your boyfriend?" I don't give off anything that suggests I have men on the go. When I danced wit my new man, he said that he wasn't the only one watching me and said I had an audience. I don't want to come off as big-headed but I've been called beautiful/gorgeous and sexy.... but is that the reason why these men are acting like this?! it drives me crazy. Please help! How can I show these men I haven't got other guys on the go?!! They get bitter about it.

2007-11-08 13:53:51 · 1 answers · asked by Nikita 1 in Singles & Dating

Not a religious book.

2007-11-08 13:50:03 · 2 answers · asked by Carconfused 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for five years now and we have two kids. When I was pregnant with my frist son I decied to be a stay at home mom. I do side jobs a couple times a week to pull in money. We fight all the time. Our sex life is not so great either. He only wants sex in the middle of the night when I'm asleep at night and never any other time. I told him this and he says I'm just being silly. We got in a fight tonight and he takes a shower and leaves without saying a word. I don't know what to think, he don't say I love you anymore or kiss me. He seems angry at me all the time. I sometimes thinks the reason he don't leave me is because of spiting up the kids he has said way back when he don't believe in spiting up kids from there parents. What should I do. Should I worry and what are the signs of cheating I don't know if it's me or something is really going on.

2007-11-08 13:49:59 · 16 answers · asked by Tara Elaine 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend breaks up with me saying he needs to sort out work and school stuff and tells me he feels bad he doesnt have the time to devote to a relationship right now. Okay so 2 weeks later hes hooking up with a new girl and does it in a way so I find out. It wasnt enough to break up with me but he had to lie. I'm not exactly jealous because he is 21 and shes 17 so its rediculous...But why the need to lie to me seriously?

2007-11-08 13:49:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how did you feel? Did it last?

2007-11-08 13:45:23 · 17 answers · asked by ★ Ðяєäмíŋg Ôυт Łøυ∂ ♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

This boy I like, Frank, just broke up with my friend and I was waiting because I wanted to go with him. He says we just play around but he touches me and we flirt. I wanna go wit him but then what about my friend. Should I go wit him because I like him or not go with him because my friend might be mad?

2007-11-08 13:44:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK well heres the story...
I really like this guy from school, he sometimes looks like hes interested and other times he doesn't really...

He put his arm around me and said "wow look at all those merits" (we were up with the teacher signing off our marks) IVE NEVER SEEN HIM DO THAT TO ANYBODY ELSE and ive been in his class 4 3 years !! i was actually really surprised he did this... i just let him do it ...

ok now to the sad part... all of my friends say they can see me and him together. i want us to be 2gether but there is only 3 days of school... mon tues and half of wensday

Plz can u give me some advice and maybe a plan of action of what to do i those 3 days...

?!

2007-11-08 13:44:45 · 9 answers · asked by La P 1 in Singles & Dating

LaDiez: i Need Your Help about sOMETHING i DiD?
This month on the 10th is my crushs(she) birthday .....well i bought her a gift but all my friends said that wht i bought her was cheap like i mean it doessnt look good......not the price but the iteam looks all crappy.........well i need ur opinions.....
Shes hispanic just turned 17..........
PLEASE BE HONEST!
OK IF SOMEONE THAT LIKED YOU BOUGHT THIS FOR BIRTHDAY WOULD SEE THIS AS A CHEAP ITEM?
http://www.target.com/Diamond-Accented-Flower-Pendant-Chain-34/dp/B000MQNKAY/qid=1194314044/ref=br_1_8/601-7507959-2781756?ie=UTF8&node=381486011&frombrowse=1&index=tgt-mf-mv&field-browse=381486011&rank=salesrank&rh=&page=1

2007-11-08 13:43:17 · 9 answers · asked by albinsimon 2 in Singles & Dating

Why Do U?

2007-11-08 13:41:23 · 72 answers · asked by ★ Ðяєäмíŋg Ôυт Łøυ∂ ♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

Married 2yrs ago after a short & intense courtship(talked alot-we were long distance)He moved to CA 2 be w/me then we moved with him to AR.I have no friends or family here.Recently had a miscarriage after trying for a baby for 10 months.We fight off & on-struggled w/$$ for 1st yr.We were making ends meet easier for the last few months.Saw Dr for preconception counsel in Aug,& saw OB/GYN in Sept cuz he couldn't wait. Early Oct brought a funeral-his cousin,Mid Oct. brought painful cyst & miscarriage. Very next week he got inappropriate text mssges from a girl at work.He showed them to me & said she's ugly. He thought they were a joke at 1st, but after replying-he's not interested & married, she asked him to lunch. He said no.He is a very jealous person(w/o reason),I told him he needs to end it right(face 2 face).He finally did.He slept on couch that night & never came back to bed.Didnt talk x5days.Oct 31-he duznt want 2b married anymore.He's been unhappy for 2 yrs now.This is not him.

2007-11-08 13:40:54 · 13 answers · asked by rubyslippers 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 13:40:16 · 26 answers · asked by ★ Ðяєäмíŋg Ôυт Łøυ∂ ♥ 6 in Singles & Dating

What does the family do with their rooms? I've been through very young (too young) tragic deaths, and I've never known what they did with their rooms..

2007-11-08 13:37:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hey peeps
well i just got a new boy friend
and my friend set us up
we barely know each other but we're beginning to tho
but most of the times we dont know what to talk about!!
can u give me some topics and questions or ask him or talk to him about?????
best answer for the person who tells me alot of stuff to talk about with him

(we both play guitar.. if it helps)

2007-11-08 13:36:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is there a limit on trusting your man to much???i let my man go to clubs and got to parties without me when i dont feel like going or i simply cant,,, and he lets me do the same, is this wrong or would it affect our relationship someday???

2007-11-08 13:35:58 · 29 answers · asked by angelita 2 in Singles & Dating

My grandmother died in Febuary 2007 and the lady who helped take care of her hurt her as well. now my grandpa is dating that lady and doesn't realize that all she is after is his money. she think he has more money than he really does. and we no she really dont love him but he is really beging to love her and take her places and to hotels. he's like 80 some years old and she like late 50's or early 60's. Please tell me how to break them up. My grandpa can be very bull headed and won't listen and i have asked for support to help break them up from my family but they say no its not any of our bussines. well i dont care i not going to watch him throw his life away and his money towards that ***** *** clara. and he ask my mom to help support his relation ship with her and she told him no.
please tell me how to break them up. HE IS MAKING A BIG MISTAKE AND I DONT WANT TO SEE HIM SUFFER FROM IT.
S.O.S.

2007-11-08 13:35:50 · 5 answers · asked by somebody 1 in Marriage & Divorce