Hay please dont respond if your going to be rude! but im 18 and idont think i have a life im not in school yet but i will be soon collage not high school and i work all the time but i dont want to be close friends with the people i work with cause work is work. i dont drink and i dont smoke anything and all the friends that i did have are pregant or allready have kids. i need someone who is around my age little older thats like me. im not single but im tired of hanging around him all the time im sure he fills the same about me. someone please help!!!!
2007-11-08 14:01:20 · 6 answers · asked by jess1823 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not really that you do not have a life of some sort. It's just that you cannot still figure out yet what you really want with your life. Considering your age, it is normal for you guys at your age to be thinking that you are "behind schedule" of things. It's only a sign that you are starting to mature and that you are using your head more often and you tend on evaluating things out first before making any decision which is very good.
Thinking twice or more over a matter that requires a decision is critical. In your case however, making a good decision in life makes you a better decision maker. So don't waste on time and matters that would somehow make your life harder. In the case with your friends, they go with their instincts. Deciding instinctively, more often than not, leads to poor results. But that's besides the point.
You are on the right track. Go to college and pursue a career that you really enjoy doing. Think things over and go on with your life. Just don't think waaaay too long. Because if you think loooonger than the usual, chances are you might miss the opportunity.
Goodluck and I hope you the best of life. Be happy. =)
2007-11-08 14:24:41 · answer #1 · answered by Zed23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you're really not feeling your relationship, talk to your man and prehaps break it off. He may be really into you and so leading him on like that, isn't fair.
As for not drinking, smoking, hanging out with people, REEELAX!! Your only 18!
Trust, once you hit college you meet a million new people. College is an absolute blast. Theres a million clubs to join, new things to do and see.. so people who say they didn't have fun in college didn't put any effort in. There's so much there to do, all you have to do is dive in!
Don't feel pressured to drink or smoke, be yourself baby. That's what you have for life, yourself. Love yourself! Be confident and enjoy life!
Good luck in college, you will have the time of your life. Sure midterms suck but I'm 3rd year geomatic engineering and im loving it!
2007-11-08 22:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Kipper to the CUP! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i think theres nothng wrong with it.. i men if you wanna lead the safe way of life then that great.. thats my idea too although im sitll only 15 .. ew ... neways umm where was i? ya i think its better to not b an addict or nething n like not b pregnant SO young... n specially lately like almost EVERYONE thinks its cool to drink n smoke n all that so its better to stay away from all that and b a good person.. n mybe you should go to different places with ur bf like dun always do the same things.. u guys probably just need a new atmophere .. or give him a big surprise when he least expects it.. lol hehhe i dunnu if ull take my advice since im 3 yrs younger:P still worth a try BYE!
2007-11-08 22:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by rashida_bd002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. I enjoy spending time with my boyfriend but between work and school we don't have matching schedules. I'm 20 and also don't drink or smoke and that makes it kinda hard to meet other people. My life seems to be much like yours so it can't be to odd of a thing, right? Well if you find a solution let me know your secret lol.
2007-11-08 22:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by hotlilblondie831 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose feeling like you have no life is somewhat normal. I'm 19 and don't do much other than go to school, which is pretty boring. I wouldn't worry too much about it. You'll make new friends in time. your college friends will likely be the best ones you ever make. email me if you want someone to talk to. and don't worry about not doing much. you'll have more to do soon or later. just be open to new people and be outgoing. good luck.
2007-11-08 22:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Intuitive B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I don't understand why you say you don't have a life. You work, you will be going to college and well, you are getting ready to dump a guy. Sounds like a life to me. What else do you do? Do you help others by volunteering? Do you have a hobby? Do you know how to make other friends?
2007-11-08 22:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋