is there such thing as to much trust????

Question

is there a limit on trusting your man to much???i let my man go to clubs and got to parties without me when i dont feel like going or i simply cant,,, and he lets me do the same, is this wrong or would it affect our relationship someday???

Answer 1

No. Trust is trust. Either you have it or you don't.

Answer 2

There is no such thing as too much trust in a relationship that warrant trust. However if evidence of misconduct keeps building up it is naive to ignore it.

Also, the fact that he gives that same trust to you is a positive indicator of his behavior. Often people that cheat or misbehave when there significant other is not around assume that there significant other is or would do the same thing. They tend to be less trusting because of that. This is esspecially true of men, who tend to be a bit possesive.

Until he gives you a reason not to trust him I would say your relationship is healthier than most.

It could also mean that he thinks your relationship is open and doesnt care what you do when your out because he is doing the same thing. My first answer is probably right but if your heart just started beating a bit quicker and doubt cropt up while reading the first sentence of this paragraph, you may want to have a talk with him about where you two are in the relationship.

Answer 3

There's no such thing as too much trust or just a little trust for that matter. There's just trust or no trust. The only way it would affect your relationship is if either one of you ever betrayed it...in any way.

Answer 4

I also agree, Trust is a big part of the relationship, and not all of us guys are horn dogs, some of us do care and are also afraid of getting hurt , cheated on, etc. so if you love him than why not trust him, and just hope for the best. we all get hurt but we shouldn't Be afraid. so i have to say trust him or else that mentality will get to you and then it will affect your relationship. you will convince your self that he's cheating on you and it will ruin everything for you both, and trust me i know, it happened to me.

Answer 5

It's either really good if he actually trusts you, or really bad if he's just saying he trusts you so that you trust him and he can do whatever he wants...but to believe in some one that much is a good feeling.

Answer 6

It doesn't sound like it, but there should be a little jealousy every once in a while. I mean if you see a girl hanging all over your man you better step up. Some or most guys like it when thier gfs do that and if you don't react he'll think you dont' care.

Answer 7

You can replace the word "marriage" with relationship

Many marriages fail because of improper jealousy. Showing a lack of trust in a marriage partner is not loving. (1 Corinthians 13:7) On the other hand, one mate may be insensitive to feelings of jealousy on the part of the other. For example, a wife may be jealous because of the attention that her husband gives to someone else of the opposite sex. Or a husband may become jealous because of the amount of time his wife spends caring for a needy relative. Embarrassed over such feelings, marriage mates may keep quiet and show their frustration in ways that complicate the problem. Instead, a jealous marriage mate needs to communicate and be honest about his or her feelings. In turn, the other mate needs to show understanding and give reassurance of his or her love. (Ephesians 5:28, 29) Both of them may need to allay feelings of jealousy by avoiding situations that give rise to it. Sometimes a Christian overseer may need to help his wife understand that he is giving limited, proper attention to members of the opposite sex in order to fulfill his responsibility as a shepherd of God’s flock. (Isaiah 32:2) Of course, an elder should be careful never to give any valid cause for jealousy. This requires balance, making sure that he spends time in strengthening his own marriage relationship.—1 Timothy 3:5; 5:1, 2.

Parents must also help their children to grasp the concept of improper jealousy. Children often get involved in squabbles that turn into fights. Frequently the root cause is jealousy. Because each child’s needs are unique, children cannot be treated identically. Moreover, children need to understand that each one of them has different strengths and weaknesses. If one child is always encouraged to do as well as the other, this may cultivate envy in one and pride in the other. Hence, parents should train their children to measure their progress by considering the examples in God’s Word, not by competing with one another. The Bible says: “Let us not become egotistical, stirring up competition with one another, envying one another.” Instead, “let each one prove what his own work is, and then he will have cause for exultation in regard to himself alone, and not in comparison with the other person.” (Galatians 5:26; 6:4) Most important, Christian parents need to help their children by means of a regular Bible study, highlighting the good and the bad examples contained in God’s Word.—2 Timothy 3:15.

Answer 8

Trust is key in a relationship

Answer 9

if he hasn't given you a reason not to trust him then it shouldn't be a big deal. i don't think that it should affect your relationship. as long as your allowed to do the same stuff that he does and he doesn't have a problem with you going wit him then you shouldn't worry about it.

Answer 10

if you really trust him and he is also trusting you then there will probably be no problems. I also don't think that you are trusting him to much your trusting him a lot but not overboard.

Answer 11

A relationship should be built on trust. I wouln't worry about it unless he did something untrustworthy.