Family & Relationships - 8 November 2007

I am having trouble with my gal. She is having affair with a married guy. And that guy just went back to his wife oversea. But they keep on having msn together at night infront of me . I dont know wat to deal with this situation. How I know they have affair ? Cos They wrote in the message I acciddently or purposely want to see .
I do sometime get heat up from what she do . Please suggest me a real solution for this situation . I really love her but seem like my love is not enough to her (I think )

2007-11-08 12:39:59 · 7 answers · asked by Bren C 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband get in these little moods and all and I do everything for him I cook clean take care of are babies and all pluse going to college and all. I just want to make him happy and all I lay his clothes out for him and tuck him in at night and all but nothing seems to help. I love my husband we will have been married for 3 years on june 18th and i feel like he is giving me the cold shoulder alot and I dont no what I did wrong and all I no he is not cheating but what can I do to make him happy and show me more affection and to show me he loves me more please help me thanks to all.....

2007-11-08 12:39:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 12:39:15 · 4 answers · asked by Rosco 30 1 in Singles & Dating

I would like to go out once in a while, for a couple of hours (not drinking or anything--dead set against driving drunk)....just to shoot pool, or to go roller skating or something of the sort. Just time away from the house.
But my fiance makes a big deal of it...."I have things to do, I can't be at home with the kids, etc, etc."....to try and make me stay home. But HE never seems to have a problem finding time to go out....

2007-11-08 12:38:50 · 11 answers · asked by Ms. GTO 7 in Marriage & Divorce

That is when you were dating.

2007-11-08 12:36:15 · 5 answers · asked by greenwich 4 in Marriage & Divorce

There´s this guy that seemed very interesting in me for a while, he always stared and did things that showed he was interested. The thing is that I sent him an e-mail and I daid the kind ofthings he says to me on it, well he is not the same again with me, he is actually ignoring me now. Why is it ok for him to say things that hint he is interested and when I do it he just ignores me? what did I do wrong?

2007-11-08 12:35:56 · 1 answers · asked by miki360 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I got married just last June at his parent's house. Just before the rehearsal, she and I got into an arguement (long story, neither her nor I are innocent I must sheepishly admit). Our out of town family was coming to dinner after the rehearsal, and when my family got there, I acted as if everything was all right and there was no fight. She, however, pouted inside and cried to her family about how horrible I treated her, and refused to come outside where the dinner was. None of her relatives introduced themselves to me. The next day, at the wedding, she talked crap about me to everyone she came across. She frowned in all our pictures, and then, when my brother gave a touching speech that caused him to cry, she said "oh just get over it." Her biting remarks and inability to let the previous night's occurance go led to a horrible wedding. She was completely rude to all my family. I haven't spoken to her since. She won't apologize because she thinks she didn't do anything.

2007-11-08 12:34:25 · 17 answers · asked by adello 2 in Weddings

I just found out last night that my BF's son is getting married next weekend. Real spur of the moment thing - about 10 days notice - she's pregnant & it's at the courthouse. I have a big business & family trip planned & I bought the tickets 6 weeks ago & it will cost me big $$$ to change my plans. My BF says not to worry about it, as the whole thing will take 15 minutes & is no big deal, but I still feel bad about it, especially as I may be his son's step-mother someday. Should I take them out to lunch or do something before or after the "wedding" or do something else for them? They haven't registered for anything, really have no plans, it's just a quickie wedding.

2007-11-08 12:33:26 · 10 answers · asked by Cosplayqueen 4 in Weddings

okay......... I have been married to a man who is abusive both emotionally and physically........ I have dreampt all my life of being a wife and mommy and really do want to do what God wants. We have separated once before and I took him back. I have seen God work in his life but then he went back to all of this anger and then even began hurting me in the night while I slept!! We are separated again now and have been for a while. I just do not know what to do........ God hates divorce right? Well gosh.. Ido not want to be alone for the rest of my life... I have a love in my heart to give (that he never wanted from me) and my heart needs to be loved..... do I just wait and see what happens? Do I continue to show love and grace to him? I have little girls depending on me... he has hurt them too... he is angry and calls me ungodly........ I hope that is not true. If I divorce, can I ever remarry? I am 32 and have my whole heart to give! What would God tell me?

2007-11-08 12:33:20 · 18 answers · asked by happygirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is not a relationship question. Is it the wrong mindset to think of getting revenge on someone as long as it is legal? Please share if you want.

2007-11-08 12:31:43 · 9 answers · asked by randyya_randyyaa 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so ive liked this guy for like 3 years in to of the grades i know he liked me but now that im in 7 grade ,hes not in my classes and when i do see him i get a straight face does he still like me?!!!!

2007-11-08 12:29:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 12:28:35 · 18 answers · asked by Gertie321 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 12:28:26 · 17 answers · asked by Professor Vanderhold 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been best friends with this girl for a really long time. Now, she has changed and become a completely different person. She keeps all of her emotions inside of her, making the only visible emotion hate. She hates all kinds of people, for invalid reasons. She hates overweight people, homosexuals, blondes, and many many more. It is frustrating because she often makes fun of my beliefs as a liberal (mostly regarding homosexuals), and even does things just to annoy me (is it too much to ask for her not to say fa*got on a daily basis and not use gay as a synonym for stupid?) Its becoming more and more frustrating, but the thought of "dumping her" is heartbraking to me. An additional factor is that her mother was diagnosed with a deadly form of cancer and that may have caused some of her emotional problems. Should i stick with her and try to help her (even though she doesnt seem to want or need my help) or cut her out of my life?

2007-11-08 12:25:55 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This is a rather long question as it has a lot of details.My grandmother passed away almost 2 years ago and the family recently learned that I had her diaries.I recieved them shortly after my mother passed away almost 6 years ago.Now,three family members are telling me that they belong to them.The reason why everyone is fighting for them is because there is some details in them of my step-grandfather abusing my grandmother to the point he could go to jail.The reason the other two are wanting them is because he is their biological father and my mother's half sisters.When mom died,she told me to not let the diaries go anywhere,but share them with anyone who came wanting to read them.I have debated on giving them to the step-grandfather,or at least one of each of us cousin's from every family.Should I just hang onto the diaries,distribute them through the family,or give them to the step-grandfather?

2007-11-08 12:24:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well im being told that me and my fionce are to young to get married well he is 17 and im 18 but his mom is signing the papers for us to get married. We are having a child together in january and we are madly in love but everyone says that we are to young. i dont think because if you love someone and they love you back then i think age shouldnt matter. As long as we love eachother i really dont see a problem.

2007-11-08 12:21:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay well me and my boyfriend's relationship is going great and as smooth as can be.=]

The only problem is that he can get a little shy.
When we hang out he hardly even talks.
I myself am a very energetic and bubbly person and i wish he could be kinda the same.I wish he could cuddle with me and hug me and actually talk!!!
What are some ways i can get him to see i want this?What are some hints i can drop????

Also..any ideas on how to be a great girlfriend?

Any help is great!Thanks.=]

2007-11-08 12:21:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for 2 days. We have always had a great sex life and have sex on a regular basis , once every night on most occasions. But since we got married I want to do it over and over again no matter what time of day it is. What is the cause for this?

2007-11-08 12:19:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been doing tons of research but nothing as of yet. what is the easiest and quickest way that I can bring my wife to usa, once we get engaged / married in india. can she apply for visa before we get married, to speed up the process?
any help would be great
regards,
naveen

email - naveen@4nse.com

2007-11-08 12:18:56 · 8 answers · asked by transam44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay we we were going over spelling words and I asked him to spell here. He said HREE. I said no bro thats not it.I told him "You spell it HERE, spell it again.
He continued spelling it HREE.
I mean as SOON as i told him the correct spelling i told him to copy off of me.

i did this about 5 times

2007-11-08 12:18:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi everyone, my mom died november 3 of last year. Im 16 and live w/ my dad. Hes veryyy depressed. He lost alot of weight and cried alot (hes not the crying type, hes always been very strong) he still wakes up crying in his sleep and is very very sad. I love him so so so much and he is honestly my best friend. it hurts me to see him so sad. Im here for him as much as i can, but i want to know what else i can do?

2007-11-08 12:18:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you think guys with a little more heft around the midsection can be attractive?

2007-11-08 12:15:58 · 32 answers · asked by Delusions of Grandeur 2 in Singles & Dating

like the question states married for 15 years ,things keep going downhill since the past two years since my brother in law moved in .we fell apart as a couple .feel like were just roommates...now the thing is i have a gurl who came back from the past and say my husband went to see her 11 years ago.but we are married for 15.so he cheated yes.
anyways,i tried breaking it off but he wouldn`t leave and my son took a fit cause thats his dad and yelled at me and took it real hard so i didn`t make him leave for that fact cause i couldn`t see my son hurt like he did.
now i feel i made the biggest mistake cause we act as roommates more then anything.and i am no longer happy..........i don`t wanna hear talk to him about it...herd it all before and it don`t work.....i wanna know what the hell do i do.do i stay to please my kids or do i ?what!

2007-11-08 12:13:46 · 5 answers · asked by mimi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well one day i was printing out something off the computer and an E-mail printed.. i thought it was for my dad so i gave it to him.. it turned out that it was to my mom from this man who she is friends with.. but he likes her.. and long story short my parents are getting a divorce.. is that my fault??

2007-11-08 12:10:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

or is it ok 2 date again so soon there is a guy im talking 2 but ive never met him

2007-11-08 12:08:38 · 14 answers · asked by holly 2 in Singles & Dating

ma boy frnd has this really stalker-like ex girlfriend.
Well, today he spent like 3 hours messing up her life and then he tells me all about it and he's proud of himself
and then he talks about how he cant stand her and she deserves this.
then a few minutes later he gets a B0NER!!!
wtf
what does that mean???

2007-11-08 12:08:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a little worried about my wedding.
I don't have very many female friend's who I am close enough to to ask to be in my wedding. What can I do?

2007-11-08 12:07:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-08 12:05:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have known him since 4 yrs and we use to be real good friends 3 yrs ago, and then we didnt have any classes to gether so we stopped speaking and he found out i liked him 2 yrs ago he had a girl friend and after that i ignored him, now since last year we just stare at each other long stares and once in a while we say hi, but we give each other stares but he has his own friends so do u guys think there is hope or no becuz i have liked him for 4 yrs

2007-11-08 12:05:14 · 11 answers · asked by AA14 2 in Singles & Dating

like if ur havin a conversationa nd out of the blue you say somthing that has nothing to do w/ the subject. what would you say. whever says the randomest thisg gets he best answeer!

2007-11-08 12:03:56 · 21 answers · asked by ♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating