I am having trouble with my gal. She is having affair with a married guy. And that guy just went back to his wife oversea. But they keep on having msn together at night infront of me . I dont know wat to deal with this situation. How I know they have affair ? Cos They wrote in the message I acciddently or purposely want to see .
I do sometime get heat up from what she do . Please suggest me a real solution for this situation . I really love her but seem like my love is not enough to her (I think )
2007-11-08 12:39:59 · 7 answers · asked by Bren C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You get dropped on your head as a baby? She doesn't care for you, she is totally in to her married man, go find a girl who will love you, what you have now is nothing.
2007-11-08 12:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll just say from experience, that if something doesn't feel right, it usually isn't. Talk to her and ask her who this guy is and if she is having an affair. She'll probably deny it if she is, but honestly it sounds like this lady has no respect for you anyway if she knows this bothers you and lets it happen. It sounds like you're a push over and that's probably why she walks all over you. I guess the best advice I can say is be a man and stand up to her, and if she won't be straight with you then walk away and don't look back
2007-11-08 20:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by Jack B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u had showed her how much u love her and did everything for her but she still dont get contented with u...The best thing is to let her go...Ur not gonna let her go because u dont love her...It is because u love her very much and u love urself too...
If u will be juz thr beside her eventhough she is having an affair with someone ealse.She wont realise how precious u r...C'mon,dis gurl rili must hav some lecturing!!!
In the other hand,u can also tell the man's wife ur gal is having an affair with...Let her handle everything...
2007-11-08 20:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this girl that you really love is currently or had an affair with a married man then she isnt worth your time. I understand that you may lover her more then anything but whats to say that she does it again. Apparently she doesnt care about you and how you feel about her.
2007-11-08 20:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by lovedemon01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU LOVE HER?? HOW ABOUT YOURSELF??
It is not bad to love deeply and compassionately.....but, in any situation, and in any form... you must love yourself first....RESPECT yourself... there is no place in these world that would allow your situation.... she's not worth to be love.... you have love her once......i am not telling you to stop loving her.....what i am telling you is,,,,,,, pick-up the pieces of yourself scattered out there......LOVE AND RESPECT.... that's the real thing........ RESPECT from her for you????WHERE????!!!!!
upon doin' that to you, i can say that she does't love you.....
HEY, MAN.... WAKE UP!!!! there's a lot to do with yourself!!!!!
2007-11-08 20:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by mge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay.....ur absically letting her walk all over u....u can either
1 tell her you know and break up with her
or
2 tell her you know and that you're willing to work on your relationship if she ends it with the other guy...
either way...u gotta tell her u know and dont let her be the man in the relationship...
2007-11-08 20:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anne<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go.shes the one that fell off the boat
2007-11-08 20:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by CONFUSED 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋