Family & Relationships - 8 November 2007

my daughter is 19. she has a 7 month old daughter an 1 on the way.... her boyfriend is a complete jerk. he thinks that i should help support them(they dont live with me) he spends all his money on wat he wants an her an the baby go hungry or the baby never has diapers. well he gets mad wen i wont give them money. she says she wants to leave him but she never does. wen i say something bad about him she gets mad..its such a complicated situation. she says its my fault that she lives like that cuz i didnt raise her right. i am a single mother of 3 (well i have a boyfriend now) anyway, i never recieved child support an i did the best i could...yea i made mistakes...who doesnt.? i jus dont know wat to do. sometimes i jus wanna tell her an him that i dont want to talk to them anymore, but i love her an the baby....no matter wat i do..im the bad guy... any suggestions...? mayb some of u have been wer im at an have a few ideas to help me.. it makes me sick inside.. thank u

2007-11-08 10:42:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

honest opinions -
the girl in the plum colored dress
[the shortest]

http://i19.tinypic.com/8axnrwj.jpg

and no, that isn't me. she asked me to put it up.
thanks :]

2007-11-08 10:42:47 · 25 answers · asked by brookee. 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are 13. We have only kissed 3 times and have been going out for 8 months cause we couldn't get away with it. My friend is always giving me crap about me only being on 1'st base and she is 12 and almost home. It makes me feel like I should be more daring. Am I left behind and too innocent?? She says I am.

2007-11-08 10:41:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This last guy is the first guy I wanted to completely open myself up to We were friends 2 years before we dated, I am 21 and he was my first love, first guy I slept with. In the beginning I wasnt even sure I liked him but I gave it a chance he wanted to see me as much as possible and he first said I love you. I fell in love with him.Then classes started back up and work and we saw each other less and stress kicked in and we began to argue over dumb stuff so we broke up. For 2 weeks we stayed in contact but allowed my emotions to take over and flipped out. Now we arnt speaking and I am devastated. Not only did I lose an amazing boyfriend but worse a great friend, What do I do? I didnt want to lose him completely through all this crap

2007-11-08 10:36:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 10:35:53 · 4 answers · asked by peaches6 7 in Singles & Dating

My name is lydia im a latina,I;m 5,11 so I have long nice legs Im not fat I have green eyes long dark brown hair and I cant seem to find a tall guy! I mean do tall guys not like tall girls or what I jst dnt get it? All these short guys lilke me but I want a tall guy ! but every tall guy I see or like ends up with a short girl ! so tell me please whats wrong with you tall guys? dont you like tall girls? BE HONEST !!

2007-11-08 10:35:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hes sorta on the brat side.how do i tell my gfriend that we need to work on his brattyness without hurting her feelings?

2007-11-08 10:34:07 · 1 answers · asked by kerrywadepowell 1 in Singles & Dating

who you THINK may have knowingly tricked you into what may be a white collar crime...saying he didn't think it was a crime and knows you know nothing about this particular "thing?" Would this person really love you? Mind you, it can't be proven it is suspicioned.

2007-11-08 10:33:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 10:33:32 · 23 answers · asked by kevin c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-08 10:33:16 · 5 answers · asked by jj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After 24 yrs of marriage, my husband informed me he is gay and he knew it at the time of our marriage. Does this qualify as grounds for annulment?

2007-11-08 10:30:58 · 4 answers · asked by idyll_one 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so he'll ask me to f*** one minute...and then we'll start making out and he'll say i'm sorry...and then he says hes off limits...but continues to do the same thing....am i doing something wrong? or is it him? please answer...i'm so confused!

2007-11-08 10:29:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I make a guy jealous.. We are in the same class, and he's always flirting and when i look over he's all over another girl, he loves attention. How can I make him jealous and forget him? he has to suffer a little before i can move on..hehe.
Thnx!

2007-11-08 10:28:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just got engaged a few months ago we havn't planed any wedding details yet. we are both just finishing up school and buying a house and we didn't need any more stress. i love my soon to be husband but there are times when i look down at my ring and i just want to take it off! then i go back and forth in my mind asking am i making the right choice or not! we dated for 4 years and the entire time all i talked about was getting married to him! but now i don't even have a desire to plan the wedding !have you gone threw this and how did you get over it ?!?!?

2007-11-08 10:25:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I think he likes me too. But he's getting marred in a week.
Recently, a month and 1/2 ago my husband asked for a divorce. I pleeded with him and he decided to come home. Ever since he came home I keep thinking my pleeding was a bad idea since he has been nothing but neglectful and abusive.

My maneger and I are frequently alone all day and during down time we have a lot of time to talk, we have bonded as friends. But the last few weeks I feel like he has been flirting with me. He often talks about how he is unsure if want to marry his feance' and doesn't feel like she is right for him. She is also 6 years younger than him. So I tell him she is young and will mature.

But today, we were slow and we started talking about exes, then our current relationships. And I realized, dang. I think I like this guy. He's a nice guy. He has goals & amitions, & he treats me like a human being. We also had a moment. We were flirting and we embraced. And I felt a spark. I don't know?

2007-11-08 10:24:05 · 22 answers · asked by M Rina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 22 And Getting Married In May What Are A Good not to much money flower to have ?

2007-11-08 10:22:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-11-08 10:21:26 · 3 answers · asked by MS. DC 2 in Weddings

I've been dating a guy for 3 months, and things are for the most part great on all levels. We are very happy and have so much fun together.The problem is, in 6 months he's going away for 8 months of training (due to a promotion in the military) but will be back home afterward stationed locally. We've talked about the issue very openly and I'm ready to at least be exclusive but he is undecided on whether to get any more serious just because he is going away.If it wasn't for that he says he'd be ready.His actions show that he really cares and he hasn't dated anyone else since we met.This is really putting a wrench in the natural development of things and it's starting to drive me nuts. I'm so picky about guys and now that I've found one I'm compatible with why should I give 100% to someone who is undecided? I think if he was serious the 8 months wouldn't be a big deal...Should I move on before I invest too much emotionally? Give hime more time? Everything else is perfect!

2007-11-08 10:18:19 · 24 answers · asked by Shera 3 in Singles & Dating

He proposed to me 2 nights ago.It was so romantic the way he did it!!He knows my favorite color is red so he bought me this beautiful red silk dress with rhinestones flowing all the way down to the floor.Also,he bought me these sexy black pumps to go with it.On that day he treated me to the spa(to get massages and to get my nails and hair done).We met in the limo and drove to the airport where we got into his dad private jet.We flew to new york to the empire state building.When we got to the top there was a red carpet that lead to a candle light dinner table.There was a guy who played the violin,we got up and dance and johnny is not a good slow dancer but he impressed me very well that night.After we ate dinner we had dessert.Then he told me he had a gift for me.And i thought it was just a nice bracelet.NO NO No it was a 21 karrot ring with the biggest diamond ever!! I was so shocked i didn't think i just said yes! we been together for 3 years.having cold feet cuz im 20 n in college!

2007-11-08 10:17:12 · 10 answers · asked by ~deelishis kisses~ 1 in Weddings

2007-11-08 10:15:56 · 12 answers · asked by tjk1701 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you kiss her?

2007-11-08 10:15:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the only smart thing my english (guy) teacher has ever said is "guys are worthless until they graduate college." im starting to think he is right, because almost all guys in my grade are stupid and jerks. tell me if im wrong, but if im right, how can i survive high school with boys who are so immature?

2007-11-08 10:14:39 · 9 answers · asked by heyyy 3 in Singles & Dating

Last weekend my boyfriend's kids who are 3, 5, and 8 stayed over our house and I don't think they had a good time when they were at the house because I wouldn't let them sit in the living room or touch my things since the last time they were here one of the broke my crystal ballerina that costs a lot of money. That wasn't the only thing. Another thing is that his daughter whose 8 walked in on me and him in the tub together. We weren't doing anything dirty we were just making out and she went back and told her mom about it and about what happened with my things. And she got mad and started yelling at me telling me to respect her kids! I do respect them and she needs to back off. What is her problem anyway? I don't get it!

2007-11-08 10:12:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She always tells me that and says you should do it too. She says it feels great...does it really... and i think its really distusting and dont want to. She one of the prettist girls and should not do that!

2007-11-08 10:12:11 · 26 answers · asked by channel4everxo 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i just started dating this guy, next week it will be a month since we started dating...and he's already introduced me to most his family and he already wants to meet my parents.!!! is that moving too fast? does that mean he is serious about me??? he also tells me he wants to travel the world with me... is he in love or just moving too fast???

2007-11-08 10:11:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its not that i dont have any, well yeah i dont. but what i mean is, there is this guy, he asked me out, i said no, then we hung out more, now havent seen him and i have a feeling he doesnt want to talk to me. but before he asked me out i liked him, and now i like him even more. but everything just sucks right now. what can i do?

2007-11-08 10:07:09 · 6 answers · asked by sunny 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 10:05:36 · 8 answers · asked by Supadan 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-08 10:02:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are you a mommy's boy or a daddy's girl? What's your favourite childhood memory that they gave you?

2007-11-08 10:02:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a 27 year old single female and I had an interesting conversation with a friend of mine about the whole process of dating and finding someone that you have an honest connection with. So I know you do not know me but I figured I would just throw a couple of questions your way to get a male's perspective on this topic. By the way if you are dating someone one or in a serious relationship your responses weigh a lot more. So I would like you to answer the following (if you want that is :-)

1a- Age, Ethnicity, Location?

1-How difficult is is to find a woman you are interested in?

2-What are some of the challenges you face trying to find a connection with someone?

3-Do you feel that you have an advantage because there are so many women to pick from? Explain Why/Why Not?

4-Where do you go to find women that are of interest to you?

Ok I hope I did not overwhelm you in anyway and I am hoping to hear your comments.

Thank You So Very Much!

2007-11-08 10:01:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends