Its hard to say sorry when you dont think it will make a difference?

Question

This last guy is the first guy I wanted to completely open myself up to We were friends 2 years before we dated, I am 21 and he was my first love, first guy I slept with. In the beginning I wasnt even sure I liked him but I gave it a chance he wanted to see me as much as possible and he first said I love you. I fell in love with him.Then classes started back up and work and we saw each other less and stress kicked in and we began to argue over dumb stuff so we broke up. For 2 weeks we stayed in contact but allowed my emotions to take over and flipped out. Now we arnt speaking and I am devastated. Not only did I lose an amazing boyfriend but worse a great friend, What do I do? I didnt want to lose him completely through all this crap

Answer 1

If you both broke up over "dumb stuff" then it is a good thing you arent married because when the big important stuff came along you would not have made it.I think you both just need to grow and mature, finish school and then worry about dating.
Either way, had you not dated"what if?" would have always been in the back of your mind and you probably would have drifted apart after finding someone else.

Answer 2

it is hard to say sorry but if you really think that you need to say it, say it. whether he will accept it or not, atleast you made the effort.

2 people in a relationship will always have arguements. it is normal. If no one in that relationship will make the effort to keep it together, it falls apart. one way of keeping it together is saying sorry when you know you did or say something wrong. both of you will grow more together if both accepts each others flaws. but u also need to learn to not keep on doing the same mistakes over and over again.