A Male's Perspective!?

Question

I am a 27 year old single female and I had an interesting conversation with a friend of mine about the whole process of dating and finding someone that you have an honest connection with. So I know you do not know me but I figured I would just throw a couple of questions your way to get a male's perspective on this topic. By the way if you are dating someone one or in a serious relationship your responses weigh a lot more. So I would like you to answer the following (if you want that is :-)

1a- Age, Ethnicity, Location?

1-How difficult is is to find a woman you are interested in?

2-What are some of the challenges you face trying to find a connection with someone?

3-Do you feel that you have an advantage because there are so many women to pick from? Explain Why/Why Not?

4-Where do you go to find women that are of interest to you?

Ok I hope I did not overwhelm you in anyway and I am hoping to hear your comments.

Thank You So Very Much!

Answer 1

1. 26, male, southeast oklahoma
1. Very Hard, purpose weights heavier with me then anything, look at my profile, my purpose is alot more then getting married and having kiddos, so very, very hard....
2. Not to much really, only problem I find here is that sometimes the connection I make just don't matter to what it is I'd be making in a true love relationship. Theres plenty of deep levels to connect on, but that doesn't mean theres a relationship thats true for my purpose.
3. Nope, we have a social/cultural problem that most people just don't see, I need them to see this, becuase its part of my purpose in life to do what I can to fix this, finding a lady like that isn't easy...... besides that more females make it easier for THEM to be destrated by the same pride games I was destrated by with my male compatirots.... so not really a good thing.....
4. I go ever where I can in an attempt to find her, perhaps some day, but in the mean time I've made friends for a life-time, so it's hopfully going to be a win, win situation, only time can tell


Just so you don't get confused, what I mean by purpose, is purpose in life, what you do with your live, the meaning you bring to your life, but I'm not an atypical male, so I'm not sure my answers are going to help YOU with your purpose in this.....

Answer 2

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